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Okay so i have this friend and he is a year younger than me and is going to call me in about an hour and hes gunna ask me out and i dont wanna go out with him. any ideas that i could use to say no but to not hurt his feelings?
im 13 and hes 12
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Break it to him gently. Just tell him calmly but firmly that there are a million girls out there and theres one thats JUST right for him, but you arent that girl. And tell him that he's sweet by asking you, but you're just not right for him.
~**~((NiCoLe AnNe))~**~
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say you dont wanna jinx the relationship
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just say youd rather just be friends...
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just say to him that you are sorry but you dont like him and you would rather date someone your own age. tell him that you could still be friends but you could never see you two together.
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Oh gosh. I've had this problem before. In my case I just told him no, no no. He kept asking me, and i think i hurt his feelings. I ended up going out with him because my brother told him yes (over AIM). It was miserable. So don't do what i did, lol. If you really don't want to go out with him just tell him straight up. Don't play games. When he calls you and asks you, act suprised and say "Oh wow. [name] you're a REALLY great guy and all, but we're such good friends i dont even want to think aobut spoiling that." If he understands from there, just leave it at that. But if he persists then say something like "I just dont think of you like that. You're my friend and i love having things that way. I'm flattered that you like me, but i just don't feel the same way. I'm sorry, and i dont want this to change things between us." hopefully you can leave it at that. If not... you're going to have to be firm. "I'm sorry, but my answer is no. I'll talk to you later, bye" i hope this helps! good luck!
~Kayla
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try the ever classic "aww, how cute! but no thanks.."
or you could drop hints that its bc of his age..
"no thanks..i like older men..not younger"
"i dont dig little people"
~*stefanie
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hi, well you could tell him that you dont see him more then a friend...and the way you feel about him is just pure friendship and that you dont feel anything towards him that will lead in to a relationship...tell him also that you've to put ur grades up and that you 've to consentrate on ur studies...OR the best choice ;) (use it always) I'm not allowed...my parents are 2 stricked i cant date anyone in this age..!...and then add that you dont see him more then just a friend! xoxo effy hope i helped
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Maybe tell him you want to stay friends and if you go out it might make your friendship awkward later. You could also tell him that between school and everything else you dont want a bf...you could also be straight out honest with him and explain that you dont see him as a bf..you see him as a friend and that u wanna stay friends or something.
good luck!
-melissa
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