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What do i say to him?
Okay usually i don't mind when my boyfriend does stuff with me but not in class! i already am failing that class and i have to get my work done..plus i don't want people talking about me in a bad way like i think they were today. Today i was sitting by my boyfriend in class and he kept going down my pants and rubbin my back and ass and shit and trying to make out with me but i kept telling him no not now! But he wouldnt listen and it was really buggin me i couldnt get him to stop even when i moved my chair away he'd pull it right back by him it was annoying. So my question is: What do i tell him when i don't want him to do that kinda stuff to me? Because obviously telling him to stop doesn't work. He's usually really respectful but i don't know what to do. Thanks so much!.
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tell him to stop being like that.. tell him to let you focus *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi
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If he isn't going to respect you enough to listen to you and stop when you tell him to, I think you should leave him. But before you do that, because thats kind of harsh, you really need to have like a serious talk thing with him and explain to him to never do that again in class, because it was embarrassing or anything else you want to say.. the main thing you need to do is talk to him when theres no one else around and try to get him to listen. maybe he was just trying to "show off" in front of his friends? anyway, i hope that helped:-)
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well i would talk to him outside of class wen nobody is around, i think that he is just tryin to show off to other people that he has a G/F. just tell him that you dont want him doing that kind of stuff in class. let him no that you are serious about this.. i hoped i helped ~*L*~
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I've discovered that an elbow to the ribs works wonders at getting a man's attention. However try talking to him ahead of time. Like over the phone. It sounds like there is someone in the room he is either trying to warn away from you or make an immpression on for some other reason. Let him know you'll embarrass him just as badly as he's embarrassing you if this keeps up. Elbows work nicely. Also a thump to the ear, and let see... biting's sometimes good, but is harder to hide from the teacher. MY grades went up dramatically. Good luck dear!
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hes probably being influenced by his peers to be more sexual guys will do things like that you know he might be getting a little cocky and wanting to show you off saying look what i can do with i got i mean guys can be that way if u dont want him messing with you in class dont sit by him make sure that you surround yourself with other people hav a good private talk with him lay down some ground rules if he doesnt want to listen to you then maybe hes not that good of a boyfriend
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open a can of whoopass
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Definately talk to him about this! IF hes not usually like this, then something is up. Find out. Maybe its just hormones..but thats not excuse because he sexually harassed you. It doesnt matter if hes your bf or not..its still sexual harassment and you might want to consider breaking it off with him if he doesnt stop. Dont allow him to do that to you again.
-melissa
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