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best friend?
MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do?
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You need to talk to him. Face to face not over the phone or IMs. You really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel honestly. People say things they don't mean when their mad, just like you did and now he's doing it back to you. At this time in his life, I think he needs you there for him...Maybe he's going through rough times, if he's trying to kill himself, the last thing you should do is piss him off and get him more depressed....Be there for him, talk to him!
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If I were you, I would leave him alone for about one week. Don't call him or try to talk to him, etc, but try and make eye contact with him sometimes so he knows you still really care about him.. Write him a letter or even a poem explaining how you feel and how sorry you are and how much you cherish your friendship.. He sounds like a pretty stubborn person but thats alright its just going to be alittle more difficult resolving things. Another thing you can do is buy him something special, nothing big, just something simple that symbolizes an inside joke, etc.. Great luck
love kristin
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Well you just have to say what you really mean weather if its thru email or not but like i think it would be better to say it to his face that way he knows you rele mean it and if he doesnt listen then its his loss hun and i hope everything works out for the best!!
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When some one trys to kill themself the best thing you can do is be there for him. I can understand why youd say something you shouldnt of but you should always be there for him. Talk to him about it to his face. And he most still care about you if he's going to go out of his way to e-mail you. Theres nothing that you can really do about it untill you confront him about all this. Good Luck
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restraning order
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apologise. your friend may have attempted suicide, but its more than likely that he wants you back in his life. hes probly trying to see if you are mad at him still with the e-mails. you can still be friends with him. be kind and gentle when you apologise, and admit that you were wrong!
-FunnyCide
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try to mend your problems and be forgiving no matter the costs... because he will find that he made a mistake and he will come back to you especially if you 2 were such good friends... just be supportive of him and try to get to the bottom of your argument because samething happened to me and i was the kid that was getting mad at my friend and no matter how mad i got she was still their after i ralized what i had done to her and now we are cooler than ever and we pretend like it never happened
kev
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