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my boyfriend


Question Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 6:29 pm

ok i have a boyfriend that i am in love with but when he is around his friends he acts like we are not even going out. i love him and i know he feels the same way and i dont want to break up so what can i do?

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 8:26 pm:
Just talk to him my boyfriend isnt as luvvy duvvy when around his friends but he doesnt completely ignore me either but he is hanging with his friends and being a guy and thats how all guys are so you gotta except that

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hockeygurl632 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:26 pm:
He's a guy, and when he's around "the guys" he wants to act like a guy: nuts about sports or what ever. Dont let it get to you, he's prolly just not one to show his feelings in public. Hope i helped!

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jamziix16 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 6:01 pm:
im in the same situation.. i've been going out with my guy for a little over four months now and he does the same thing to me. if he's not going to treat you like you deserve to be treated, then you should really let him go. i know you don't want to do it, because i don't want to either but its possible for that to be the best thing for you. i'm sorry but i hope this helped

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Miss_Megan answered Thursday December 2 2004, 3:47 pm:
Oh my i have the same problem. Talk to him about it and see what he has to say, he might just be doing it for attention from his friends. And if you can try to avoid hanging out with him and his friends at the same time.

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helping_you answered Thursday December 2 2004, 2:20 pm:
break up, he's really in love with his friends. sorry try again.

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xplayb0ycutiexx answered Thursday December 2 2004, 2:16 pm:
ask your boyfriend why he acts this way when he's around his friends.. tell him that you feel like he's ashamed to be with you in front of his "dudes" and just be like.. i hate it when you act like that.. do you want to be with me? and tell him you don't want to break up.. but you want to know what's going on.. tell him that all your other friend's boyfriends love on them around their friends.. and ur just wondering why he doesn't do that to you.

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adviceguy answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 9:03 pm:
To put it simply..there is nothing you can do. If he cannot acknowledge your exsistance in front of other people there is nothing you can do to change that.
Communication is the key here. Try talking about your problem. If you can't resolve it, you will have to break up with him - unless you want to have a "secret" relationship for a very long time.

Good Luck

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