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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my ex boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!! and I defenately cant talk to him because I would feel so stupid, especially if he says no and he is in like 3 of my classes at school so i would have to see him EVERY DAY! lol and that would suck, but see the other thing is that he is kind of a bad boy lol he has been arrested 3 times and he has a tatoo ( which i love) on his arm...I am askin you because i think you can help me...so if you can i would very much appreciate it..thanks:)
With me, there was this guy and we dated on and off for about 6 months... 9 times and each time being about a week. I never really wanted him i just loved being in his arms and i loved it when he'd kiss me. All girls like to be held and kissed by someone special. You two weren't dating for that long a total of a week... Just give it some time. He can't help who he likes. If he likes this other girl then so be it but you can't change how he feels about this other girl... yes it sucks but really there is nothing you can do. I think that you're just lusting over this guy and I think you should go out and try flirting. If he does really like you he could be saying that he likes that other girl just to get you jealous. but if he does really like you, if you started flirting with other guys around him and he started getting jealous then you know that he likes you. Most men are assholes. and yes that is a fact because it has been proven time and time again. There is always the right guy out there for you. you just haven't found him yet.
(Sorry, I wasnt sure what category to put it under) Ok, ever since 5th grade I really started to hate my life. I mean, this large group of girls were doing petty things and were lying to the principal. Alot of people hate me. I lost 25 maybe more, friends. I cant take it anymore. My friends are starting to ignore me and "snub" me! Im starting to feel very depressed and lonely. My self-esteem is 2. Not alot. I cry myself to sleep. My family life isnt any better. My mom is SUPER paranoid, so I cant tell her anything. My dad wont understand. My mom wont let me go over to my friends house and such! Please help!
12/f
sounds like you have depression. i'm very serious. i've had it myself. talk to your school guidance counselor and tell her your situation. i promise it will help. every night write down everything you're feeling just write it down if you don't like to write then draw. whatever comes to you just draw it or write it. you can curse people out say you hate so and so, so and so treats you like shit. just let it all out. it will make you feel alot better i promise. you might need to go see a therapist. they do help. i had major depression for 2 years and i was a cutter. i've been okay for about 6 months. even if your mom is paranoid still, talk to her, and even if you think that you're dad won't understand you never know, he might have gone through the same thing when he was your age. so just talk to them. hope i helped if you need anything else drop one in my box!
..::..emily..::..
okay my friend laurie likes this guy and he likes someone else what are some ways to get him to like her more?
nothing really... you can't force a person to like someone. if he doesn't like her then he doesn't like her. if he likes this other chick then you have to just leave it at that and move on. i've been there i've done it my friends have been through it a million times. just move on. you'll find someone worth it
I just broke up with my bf. I told him that we'd still be friends but I just wasn't feeling anything. He was ok with it and acted fine. So, why do I feel so crummy? PLEASE ANSWER! I'M BEGGING YOU! I RATE! PLEASE!
it's because of the fact that you broke up with him. i felt that way when i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months. after a while you'll get over it but girls that are normally sensitive feel bad when we do stuff like that. it's perfectly normal. unless of course you still like him because my favorite quote "you never know what you had until it's gone" think about that. and you might find you still have feelings for him it happened with my friend she broke up with her boyfriend because she wanted to be single after the break up she was miserable and they got back together about 3 weeks ago. think about it. if you have anymore questions drop one in my box.
Hi..okay i have a kodak digital camera and i was just replaced the batteries, It was turning off but i guess it didn't turn off compleltely when I took the batteries out so when i put the new ones in it didn't work and it won't turn on. any ideas of how i could fix it? I also tried putting the batteries in differenely and a different pair of them. I don't kno what else to try! ne help is good..tnx soo much!!
either ask your dad or if you take it to your local photo shop they can fix it for you. it's most likely not a huge problem but it probably will cost you like 20 bucks... you can take it to the electronics section of wal*mart or circut city or go to the place where you purchased it. also look at the owners manual it should have something in there.
i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?
take advil before you get them on and take it after. you can chew gum even though they say not to but make sure it is sugarless!!! if it has sugar in it, it will get stuck and mess up your teeth. go easy on the chewy candy and don't chew on pen caps. the process is painful but the results are beatiful. good luck!
My parent's 25th anniversary is coming up. They are going on vacation and everything, but does anyone have any suggestions on what I could get them?
You could make reservations for them at their favorite resturant and pay for it yourself. or you could get them a card saying that you'll moe the lawn and clean the bathrooms for the next year i'm sure they'll get a kick out of that because most likely you won't do it. lol. buying for couples is very difficult but you could go to a costom store and get a throw blanket that has their anniversary date customized on it.
Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
nope!!! not at all. my best friend is 16 years old (male) and he has yet to kiss a girl. there is absolutly nothing wrong with you at all. you're time will come. until then while your waiting you can always pop a tic tac JUST to make sure. lol just kidding! anyways when your time comes... here are some tips on french kissing. make sure your faces are close enough so that you know where your lips are aiming and THEN close your eyes, do not open your mouth that wide because you might like eat her face,(my ex boyfriend did that to me it was terrible) when you kiss a girl just like massage her tounge with yours... if you want to be a little kinky... try to nibble on her lip but not that hard because a guy tried to do that to me once and he bit my lip really hard and it started bleeding so if you do that PLEASE be careful and my boyfriend said it's called NIBBLING for a reason... so nibble do not bite! the way to do that is when you two have stopped like with the whole tongue action suck her bottom lip really gently into your mouth and nibble it... pull it up with your teeth and let it go. it's quite kinky... girls love it. hope i helped!!! if you need anything just drop one in my box!
Ok, im 7ft tall, and of course a guy. It seems like every time i approach a girl shes always so afraid of me. She never wants to talk to me and hold a convo. w/ me. When people do talk to me, they always ask how tall i am, then sit and stare. Why are girls so afraid of me? and how do you suggest i cure this problem, and maybe advise on how to keep the convo going w/o it dropping off at how big my feet are.
they are just intimidated by the fact that you are freakin 7 feet tall! holy crackers you're very tall by the way. i've never met anyone 7 feet tall. you should play basketball... i mean if you don't already... ANYWAYS! onto your question. the next time you want to talk to a girl ask her if she is afraid of the fact that you're really tall. kinda flirt a little and say girls like tall guys (and yes we do like tall guys... my boyfriend is a foot shorter than you but he's tall for me because i'm 5'3") anyways. the reason why they don't talk to you is because of your height and i'm sure that the majority of the guys in your school are intimidated by you. the fact that you're so tall would make a girl believe that you're buff and over protective. that's the stereotype one would get out of that. girls like it when their boyfriends are protective but not OVERLY protective. so that's why... if that makes any sense... it did to me but if you have a hard time understanding drop one in my box and i'll try to word it better for ya!! hope i helped and god damn you're really tall!!!!!
..::..emily..::..
I am a cutter and my friends all say i should stop and blah blah blah... BUT I DONT WANT TO!!! And i think someone told my Guidance Couselor and i dont know what to do...? Should i deny all or what?
~Help me out!~
well what would be stupid to do is deny it because if you cut you have scars and shit like that... so obviously they aren't going to believe you if you tell them you don't. secondly you're very stupid to be doing that to yourself. you have major issues and you need to stop go talk to your guidance counselor or your parent(s) you need to seek help. i did the same damn thing so don't think i have no clue what i'm talking about. 2 years worth of cutting has my arms looking so disgusting. it's not worth it. don't do it.
My semi formal is the same night as my Dad's dinner for winning employee of the year. I didnt go to my semi formal last year and a boy that I really like might ask me to the semi.. What do you guys think I should do? ( They're at the same times too!!)
i think that you should definately go to your dad's thing because it's very important to him. tell the guy that you like that you can save a special day for the two of you. go out to dinner. even better ask your dad if he can tag along with you guys. if not then ask your dad if he can come over or something for a nice dinner or you two go out to dinner together but you should definately go to your dad's dinner
stupid question:: y does it say "not a low calorie food" on sugar free gum that has 2.5 calories per piece
because for it's size it makes it have alot of calories.
i just got around to my 7th day of my period and it was pretty much all done [less and less coming out], but all of a sudden, it got really heavy again!! why is this happening? does it happen a lot during this time?
well... if you're still young.. you're period is irregular. that's happened to me before... only the complete opposite. i got it really light for 4 days and then after the 4th day i got it like a freakin monsune for the next 3 days and then it just stopped. it's weird. we're all different.
can someone fill me in on what all the bases are?? thanks!!
remember... the 4 f's frenching, feeling fingering, fucking that's for major legue and for minor legue (this is what me and my friends call it) 1st is hugging 2nd is peck on the cheek 3rd is peck on the lips and home is making out.
OK...i noticed this horrible odor and after awhile i discovered it was coming from my vagina! Ughh its disgusting. I know "they say" it smells down there if you eat certain foods like meat...i had a turkey sandwhich for dinner..could that be it? or could i have some kind of infection? I really dont wanna be in school and have people notice the odor ...wat can i do to conceal it / get rid of it? Any help is good help..thanks
at night wash it really good and when you wake up in the morning wash it again... just that area and then go to a drug store and purchase this stuff called summers eve feminine body spray or something like that it conseals the odor and keeps it from smelling really disgusting. hope i helped!
how long should a tampon be worn? I have herd that they should be worn for 4 to 8 hours but my friend told me that as long as you change it within 24 hours you'll be good. Which is the true answer?
it should only be worn for the max of 4 hours. if you wear it for longer the stuff stays on it and you could get an infection.
Alright im a guy (16)
Homecoming dance is in two weeks, but this year the girls are suposed to ask the guys.. Soooo this girl who i like a lot hadn't asked me yet, so i said yes to a good friend of mine who didnt have a date. Then the next night on the phone the girl who I really liked asked me, and i had to say no because i didnt want to ditch my friend. What can i do???
Honestly... go with both of them... explain to the two of them the situation and they most likely won't have a problem with it. I know my friends wouldn't and then you'll look like a pimp with two ladies at either arm. lol good luck
Okay I am 13/f and I have never kissed a boy before. Well my boyfriend and I were playing Truth or Dare online and I dared him to kiss me. He said he would but he would have to do it between two of the buildings at school so we don't get a PDA refferal. This is not what I am asking advice on. I am nervous to kiss him because like I said I have never kissed a boy before. I need to know like what to do, how to do it, how to keep myself from being nervous and stuff like that thanx.~*Never Been Kissed*~p.s.I rate, good.
as soon as your lips touch you should be okay... you'll be a little shakey at first but after a couple of seconds you'll be fine... some tips:make sure your faces are close enough so that you know where your lips are aiming and THEN close your eyes, do not open your mouth that wide because you might like eat his face, when you kiss a guy just like massage his tounge with yours... if you want to be a little kinky... try to nibble on his lip but not that hard because a guy tried to do that to me once and he bit my lip really hard and it started bleeding so if you do that PLEASE be careful and my boyfriend said it's called NIBBLING for a reason... so nibble do not bite! hope i helped!!! if you need anything just drop one in my box!
im sure youve all seen those jc penny commercials with that wicked cool song and the kids are in school dancing welll duz ne no the name of the song!?!?!?!?! if u tell me or help me ill rate u a 5!
rock ya body... can't remember the artist but go onto lyric find.com and type in rock ya body and the artist should come up
I was listening to that white stripe song fel in love with a girl and noticed that it had the same lyrics as the Joss Stone song Fell in love with a boy...What happend there? is fell in love with a boy/girl an old folk song or something? does anyone know anything about that?? ill rate. Thanks.
joss stone does cover songs... meaning that she remakes them with her own beat to it and she adds her own style to it.