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I am a cutter and my friends all say i should stop and blah blah blah... BUT I DONT WANT TO!!! And i think someone told my Guidance Couselor and i dont know what to do...? Should i deny all or what?
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People who cut is one thing. People who cut and come for guidance online is another. If you have come to this website, you acknowledge that you have a problem. And if online advice columnists you have never met are the only people who you can talk to it about, then you have a serious problem. If this isn't some stupid cry for attention and you seriously do cut yourself, I highly suggest you seek professional help. Real professional help.
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Cutting and wanting to cut is understandable. There has been either a good deal of pain in your life or a lack of feelings in general. Cutting makes you feel alive and in control. I know it's very hard to face, but cutting is not healthy. It's hypocritical, however, for people to force you to get help when what you are doing is not as harmful as smoking, unprotected sex, and other "bad" activities that are more socially acceptable. The people who want to help you are doing it because they care about you. You are an individual, capeable of making your own decisions, but you should to listen to what the people who care about you say. You don't have to take their advice. But at least give it a listen. Just the fact that you are posting this question here tells me that you know something is wrong. Do what you know is right for you.
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well what would be stupid to do is deny it because if you cut you have scars and shit like that... so obviously they aren't going to believe you if you tell them you don't. secondly you're very stupid to be doing that to yourself. you have major issues and you need to stop go talk to your guidance counselor or your parent(s) you need to seek help. i did the same damn thing so don't think i have no clue what i'm talking about. 2 years worth of cutting has my arms looking so disgusting. it's not worth it. don't do it.
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listen to me, listen 2 ur frineds......i my frineds cuzin used 2 cutt and we kept tellin him 2 stop or else somthin bad mite happen.a month later my friends cuzin died from cutting he bled 2 death.....this boy was only 12......plz think about ths and try as hard as u can n ot to cut cuz it just brings misery 2 all remebr "it is not our abilities that show who we truly are it is our choices" choose wisley
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If someone told your Guidance Counselor and you are approached, I think you should look at it as the universe intervening and sending you a solution to a problem that you haven't even admitted to yourself that you have.
I'm not sure why you don't want to stop, but hopefully you can see that cutting is something that a person does in response to problems. Problems can be worked on and worked out. It seems to me that cutting is not a solution, it's merely an unhelpful outlet when someone doesn't know how to deal with their feelings or problems in an appropriate way that doesn't involve causing bodily harm.
Please take this opportunity to come clean about your cutting and be open to receiving help. There is no shame in not knowing how to deal with something on your own. Everyone needs outside help sometimes. Everyone. Good luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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Cutting is a serious thing. My friend use to be one and i when i talked to her and told her how much it hurt me to see her do that to herself she changed her ways. Im not one to judge you but your probably doing it cause you have alot of troubles in your life and pain but cut yourself so you have a way to pin point it out. like thats where my pain is coming from. I think that if your guidance counselor knows you should definatly get help from her cuase not only are you hurting yourself your hurting the people around you as well.If your counselor doesnt know i think you should get some assianstance with things going on in your life at the moment.
I hope i was some what of a help. good luck with everything and remember what you do affects others as well!
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No it is best if you do stop. I know that is not what you want to hear but it is best if you don't do it anymore. You could bleed to death or hurt yourself really bad. I know i don't want you to die because of cutting yourself. Talk to your Guidance Couselor and work things out with yourself it will help you alot and it will make you feel better to get things that are bothering you out in the open.
-Katie-
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Hmm...well I was a formwe cutter and I know how sucky all that shit is, but you need to stop. Don't deny it. I know cutting helps relieve stress and stuff but you need to figure out another, less harmful way to do it. If you use cutting to make sure your still real and can feel wear a rubberband around your wrist and snap it whenever you need too. Hope I helped.
-x-katee-x-
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don't deny it. you have a serious problem and you do need help. but it can be hard. especially if you feel that's the only thing you can control. but just tell someone so you can get help. if you don't you can die from that.
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I think you should tell your Counselor! I know you dont want to but it is better for you to get help! Its going to be tough but you are gonna have to put up with it! well hope everything works out and hope i helped! rate me =)
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mandah
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