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break up bummer?
I just broke up with my bf. I told him that we'd still be friends but I just wasn't feeling anything. He was ok with it and acted fine. So, why do I feel so crummy? PLEASE ANSWER! I'M BEGGING YOU! I RATE! PLEASE!
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Maybe he acted fine because he was fine. Chances are if you were'nt feelin anything than neither was he. On the other hand he could be acting that way because he didnt want you to know how he truly felt. Either way BE friends with him. Just because you decided to break up with him doesnt mean you cant hang out. you can still be friends, just without the benefits. Often times breaking up with someone, does cause guilt so i totally understand where your coming from. My advice to you if you really feel that bad about it u should definitely call him and have a long talk. Talk about how he feels, how u feel, about the WHOLE situation, just get everything out in the open, dont hold it back. I hope everything works out for u! xoxo kara
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well n e time u break up w/ someone both ppl feel bad but if u just were'nt feeling n e thing then jus stay friends w/ him and sooner or later u will find someone else.everyone does..
hope i helped
~*~Jessica~*~
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Enough of the capitals. You do realize that is the equivalent to screaming online, correct? No one wants to help someone who screams at them. And begigng doesn't help, we are here to give you advice, and we are here on our own accord, you don't have to beg us to help you. Now, on with your question. You just got out of a relationship. You are going to have some negative feelings, no matter what. You were attached to that person for some time, otherwise there would have been no relationship. And the loss of that attachment has hurt you. Those feelings will fade over time. Just mimic the Gilmore Girls and sit down and eat a lot of chocolate ice cream.
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Don't worry everyone always feels a tad bit crummy about a break up. You might feel worse cuz ur ex doesn't seem to care. But one thing u need to remember about guys are that the refuse to show emotions. occasionally they do but when it comes to a break up he wont wanna show u that he's feeling pretty crappy about it. Try to do things that get ur mind off it. Hang out with other guy friends and do fun activities. stop thinking about it and everything will be fun. it's tough and u'll feel crummy for a while but then all of the sudden u'll realize ur free or that u want him back :) lol good luck my heart goes out for u lol.
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it's because of the fact that you broke up with him. i felt that way when i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months. after a while you'll get over it but girls that are normally sensitive feel bad when we do stuff like that. it's perfectly normal. unless of course you still like him because my favorite quote "you never know what you had until it's gone" think about that. and you might find you still have feelings for him it happened with my friend she broke up with her boyfriend because she wanted to be single after the break up she was miserable and they got back together about 3 weeks ago. think about it. if you have anymore questions drop one in my box.
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well breaking up is always hard for anyone. He acted fine but maybe he was feeling crummy and just didnt want to show it. I should know cause i do that all of the time to try to hide my emotions like that so maybe it is him that is feeling crummy too. But dont worry about feeling like that it happens alot when you break up with someone and it will go away soon.
~Dom
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it'll be fine. You just feel bad about breaking up
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