Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my ex boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!! and I defenately cant talk to him because I would feel so stupid, especially if he says no and he is in like 3 of my classes at school so i would have to see him EVERY DAY! lol and that would suck, but see the other thing is that he is kind of a bad boy lol he has been arrested 3 times and he has a tatoo ( which i love) on his arm...I am askin you because i think you can help me...so if you can i would very much appreciate it..thanks:)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xXxpinky615xXx answered Friday September 17 2004, 5:13 pm: With me, there was this guy and we dated on and off for about 6 months... 9 times and each time being about a week. I never really wanted him i just loved being in his arms and i loved it when he'd kiss me. All girls like to be held and kissed by someone special. You two weren't dating for that long a total of a week... Just give it some time. He can't help who he likes. If he likes this other girl then so be it but you can't change how he feels about this other girl... yes it sucks but really there is nothing you can do. I think that you're just lusting over this guy and I think you should go out and try flirting. If he does really like you he could be saying that he likes that other girl just to get you jealous. but if he does really like you, if you started flirting with other guys around him and he started getting jealous then you know that he likes you. Most men are assholes. and yes that is a fact because it has been proven time and time again. There is always the right guy out there for you. you just haven't found him yet. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
xcry4noguyx answered Friday September 17 2004, 2:22 pm: This guy sounds like a jerk. If he was flirting with other girls when he was going out with you then its not a good thing. I think you should try to find someone else. We all like it when we're in someone's arms. It's a psychological thing. Just because he's a bad boy doesn't mean he'll be good for you, or to you. We all love bad boys also, its just thrill. I think you should try to find someone who is totally interested in you and only you. [ xcry4noguyx's advice column | Ask xcry4noguyx A Question ]
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