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Q: is it wierd to like someone whos like ure absolute best friend
nope

Q: Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?

Thnx in Advance!
you could wear a cream lookin color or pink! i love pink! but that wouldnt go to hot with the shirt lol. So try the cream like a white.. or ya thats a good idea!! use white eyeliner

Q: I know its far away but I want to get a hid start for summer I want to loose enouf wait for summer to fit in to my 2 piece
I added allot of wahit and I would like to loose it I am 13 and I dont know a safe way s plz help
go on a diet.. but if u dont wanna do that then excercize like run, jog, walk whatever.. and do crunches

Q: I'm becoming a mountain biker, and my rims are warping slightly from all the roots and rocks and junk. Does anyone know a good way of messing with the spokes until the wheels come back in alignment?

Seriously.

**Roadkill Hell's Angels Riders**
Right.

Q: okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
Well.. just dont mention it unless she mentions it

Q: well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help
Well why would you hurt his feelings? You know i had a step dad who was black and 2 black sisters they are cooler then ever . I hate it when racist things come in but dont let "color" come in thats just dumb i like this quote it goes "We could all alot from crayons same are sharp some are pretty some are dull some have weird names and all are different colors.. but they all exist very nicely in the same box" now doesnt that change everything? if people say anything to you about it.. just tell them to back off u r not racist.. and everything should be fine! I hope everything works out for you! sorry i was a lil slow on answering this! I was having supper! but good luck! and ask me if you ever need any sort of help again!

Q: I feel like such an idiot asking this, but how do you make out? I need help!! I'll rate you no matter what. PLEASE HELP ME!!
its as natural as blinkin

Q: is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?
no its normal.. who cares it doenst mean its your top thing to do.. its a easier way of gettin money

Q: do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?
no they are pretty much amused with the smallest things such as cartoons

Q: ok, i'm about to make some prayer bracelets for myself, but i have no clue what to pray on. any ideas???
for friends family life and having a roof over your head food to eat and clothes to cloth and shower to shower.. whatever works nothings stupid

Q: I'm a 14 year old girl and i have a guy problem. ok I have been liking this guy for a little over a year now, and he likes me too but we havent dated. he said he is scared he is going to hurt me again but not on purpose, and I dont deserve that, I deserve better. but he said he really likes me a lot, but idk why he cant just ask me to date him. WE'll never know unless we try, can you help?!
Well you are gunna get hurt alot in your life and same goes for everybody but u can make things work!

Q: Okay my problem is i cant ever come up with anything to talk about on the phone with my boyfriend and i feel really bad about like im boring him and i feel like our relationship is about to end because of it please help!
Lol im like that.. except i jus say rather random things.. one time i asked him if he had a closet even tho i've ben in his room a million times.. or if he had sox on.. and he just started laughing pretty hard and said god i love you! just be random its the best way to go

Q: I am a 15 year old female, and I have a 17 year old boyfriend. He has been a total jerk lately. The other night, my best friend really needed me so I walked to her house (about 3 miles) and he told me not to go cause I was going to get more sick and he got mad when I did go. I called him when I got there and told him I was comming to his house (another mile) and he told me not to come cause he didn`t feel like getting out of bed to drive me home when he could see me tomorrow. :-( so I started on my walk home and about half way there some old guy grabbed my arm, and I got lose and ran so fast. He said "I`m comming after you". I was never more scared. So when I got home, I called him to tell him the shocking news and he just said "maybe one day you`ll listen to me" he didn`t say sorry or anything. I love him so much and can`t leave him, what else can I do besides talking to him cause I already have?
Well it sounds like he is a jerk.. you need to ask him why he said that and stick up for yourself cuz thats nothing you should be told you should get some kind of care outta that. Some old guy grabbed me and asked if i was ok.. when i was just sitting on the sidewalk waiting for my friend jamie.. but i got alot of care outta that and you should too!

Q: hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense!
well you should give it a shot but if you sense things arent working then let him know

Q: I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please!
Hang up flyers in stores or gas stations but ask your mom first!

Q: how do i tell someone that is cutting themselves that what they are doing is very dangerous, without a confrontation?
Well send them a email but you need to tell them right away because that can serious. if they are cutting sideways across the wrist they really arent hurting themselves... its a cry for attention and if its cutting down then its a cry for help

Q: I have been searching for some selfharm websites that offer support to people who self harm. I haven't really found any good ones so can anyone tell me of any?
Here...? google.. jeeves.. smartchild.. search engine?

Q: Ok i need a lot of help. My parents think i am a complete lunatic. They know i am better then average and so do i. My grades in school suck cuz i just dont get geometry, IPC or English and i dont know Wat the hell to do!! please help me cuz i wanna go to a real good college!!!
Well just get a tutor and ask your teacher for help you need to actually take the time to ask for help and go in before school or after school

Q: oK..I'm 13 5'4 and about 98 pounds..I used to be skinny and stuff but now I'm starting to get a big belly. I run and do situps and drink water and try to eat healthy and everything, but I starting to get larger than I should be. Any ideas on how to keep a flat stomache and stop gaining to much more because I used to see myself good now Im huge. sorry if thats kinda long.
~please help
Your not fat! You prolly look real skinny but crunches help!

Q: Hi i need something to say (quite frankly im a little scared) to this girl who keeps telling everyone in school that im a lesbian..which im not! i wanna be a total bitch and say something to her face that will make people go "OOooh!" or give me something to tell her off with!! All i have so far is "Grr". Haha, helP!
Well just let her know to fuck the fuck off and she needs to stop being a bitch and stop making me the center of your life and spreading shit

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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