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I am a 15 year old female, and I have a 17 year old boyfriend. He has been a total jerk lately. The other night, my best friend really needed me so I walked to her house (about 3 miles) and he told me not to go cause I was going to get more sick and he got mad when I did go. I called him when I got there and told him I was comming to his house (another mile) and he told me not to come cause he didn`t feel like getting out of bed to drive me home when he could see me tomorrow. :-( so I started on my walk home and about half way there some old guy grabbed my arm, and I got lose and ran so fast. He said "I`m comming after you". I was never more scared. So when I got home, I called him to tell him the shocking news and he just said "maybe one day you`ll listen to me" he didn`t say sorry or anything. I love him so much and can`t leave him, what else can I do besides talking to him cause I already have?
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Well it sounds like he is a jerk.. you need to ask him why he said that and stick up for yourself cuz thats nothing you should be told you should get some kind of care outta that. Some old guy grabbed me and asked if i was ok.. when i was just sitting on the sidewalk waiting for my friend jamie.. but i got alot of care outta that and you should too!
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Well he was worried right from the start. He did sound like a jerk a bit but he was just being practicle seriously. Don't walk home because its dangerous. Don't come over because I dont have time to drop you back. He does care for you why do you think he looks ahead to these stuff. Its just that he said something would happen and it did. Obviously he was just annoyed.
You obviously too haven't been watching the OC in Aus either... you'd would've seen Ryan get pissed for exactly the same reason why only a few episodes ago
I think you to stop thinking there is a problem.. if there is then tell us... HE DOESN'T CARE ENOUGH or HE'S BEING INSENSITIVE. Basically maybe you are just drifting apart a little bit. You can get closer by talking more but you can't get him to change- unless he's not being himself... is he? Well to fix closeness jsut do a few gestures to show that you care. Something small but nice for him it will cheer him up and show that you care about what he thinks and says. Good luck with it
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try finding someone around your own age, i also am 15 and going out with a 17 year old. and at times, yes its very hard, b/c sometimes he gets in all these awkward moods and like seems like he doesn't want to be with me, but weve been together for over a year and i know were gonna be together much longer. but hes probably got all this stress about college and what he wants to do after school, jobs, family, where he wants to go after it all... hes probably just confused and stressed out. so give him a chance i'm sure things will work out for you both. x0
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two words.. DUMP HIM.. hes a total jerk!
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Dump Him and see if he comes back to you If he does then he loves you if he doesnt it wasnt mean to be
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Love can be a crazy thing. This guy sounds controlling. He also sounds like a huge shmuck. I think the only thing you CAN do is talk to him. Try again to tell him how you feel, if he still acts like a dick, then break up with him. You deserve better than that.
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