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Hey, lat night my friend was suppost to sleep over but then at the last minute she couldn't so she said that we would hang out tomorrow, which is today. Then she told me that she was going out to lunch wit her bf so i was like o i thought that we were hanging out today and she is like ya we still are..when i get bak from lunch. She hadn't told me that she was going out with him because we had made the plan before she made the plan to go out with her boyfriend. Should i be mad because she has been out the whole day with him when she told me that we would hang out.
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I would bring it up to your friend if she ditches you like that a lot. However, it is her boyfriend. It sucks, but you may want to try to feel for her.
Loads of luck,
Ann
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heck yeah be mad!...this is your friend here. and she's chosing her boyfriend over you! when her boyfriend isn't there for her...you are. she needs to realize that.
♥,
heather
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Your friend might just be going into a temporary loss of sanity. I'm sure she would love to hang out with you, she's probably just acting really weird or something...just say something to her about it. If it continues to happen in the future, then you can get mad at her. But for now, just let her do her thing. It's her loss if she doesn't hang out w/ you this weekend!
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I don't think you should make a big fuss about it. Yeah it was wrong of her to make plans with you and kind of blow you off, but it is her boyfriend and maybe she just wanted to spend some time with him. Try making plans agian and see what happens. If she blows off agian then just stop making plans with her untill she learns that it is some what ignorant.
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you should definitely talk to her about it. don't be really mad, because it's not a huge deal, but it could turn into one if things continue like this. just talk to her and tell her that you don't appreciate her making plans with you, and then ditching her to hang out with her boyfriend. tell her that you understand that she wants to spend time with her bf, but it hurts you to have her cancel plans with you to hang out with him. hopefully she'll be able to see that you really are hurt, and she'll change. hope this helped. good luck!
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hmm... i have kinda a similar situation cept my friends been ditching me to hang out with her other friends... i think maybe you should talk to her now, but if she does it again, you have the right to be relatively angry with her. thats not fair to you and she shouldnt be treating you like that so talk to her the first time but dont let her do it again. good luck! =)
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