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alrigty...i have a bad habit with cutting my self..and i need to stop...the only problem is...i dont kno how...my life is kinda shakey now b/c my mom is makin me go live with my aunt 4 good b/c of my "problem" and im doin pretty bad in skool with all the stress thats going on...and that makes more stress and just blah...i mean my friends and my boyfriend HATE the fact that i do it and they give me ideas to stop like squeezing an ice-cube until it melts...but that dont help... and i am in cheerleading an i always have to wear my long sleeve shirt so ppl wont see my arms and be like "shes physco" er suttin...but ne ways..i also have a prob with eating...i mean im not fat and i love food...but it just makes me wanna puke...so idk what to do about that either...so if ne one has ne ideas with how to help me with this stuff...please let me kno! (link)
well i used to be a cutter also.. and what i did.. was think how much damage it was doing to me .. emotionally and physically.. and how its affecting the people around me.. what if you cut a certian area and you bleed to death? almost happened to me.. luckily one of my friends found me.. and saved my life... think of some other ways to vent.. get into boxing? run until your all worked out? DO NOT even go by knives.. tell ur parent/aunt to hide them from you.. and anything sharp..


Okay, does anyone know if when you just wear studs when you get your ears peirced, will the holes still sag? or is there any kind of dangly earrings that don't pull on your ears? I'm clueless and not sure if I want my ears peirced or not :/(sorry if I spelt peirced wrong...) I rate high ^_^ (link)
There are "dangly" earrings you can buy that are light so they won't tug on your ears. Just make sure you don't get any heavy earrings.


I'm afraid 2 ask this guy out because he is one of my good friends! He is giving me mixed signals! What should i do? I am to scared 2 ask him out! (link)
Just talk to him. Be straight and ask him if he likes you ask more than a friend. If he says no..I wouldn't push it any further.


I am a 15 year old female, and I have a 17 year old boyfriend. He has been a total jerk lately. The other night, my best friend really needed me so I walked to her house (about 3 miles) and he told me not to go cause I was going to get more sick and he got mad when I did go. I called him when I got there and told him I was comming to his house (another mile) and he told me not to come cause he didn`t feel like getting out of bed to drive me home when he could see me tomorrow. :-( so I started on my walk home and about half way there some old guy grabbed my arm, and I got lose and ran so fast. He said "I`m comming after you". I was never more scared. So when I got home, I called him to tell him the shocking news and he just said "maybe one day you`ll listen to me" he didn`t say sorry or anything. I love him so much and can`t leave him, what else can I do besides talking to him cause I already have? (link)
two words.. DUMP HIM.. hes a total jerk!


hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense! (link)
well then just remain in what your doing.. dont go out .. believe me it ruins everything!! haha .. maybe friends-with-bennifits? but thats retarded.. because one person will get hurt and sometimes the other one doesnt give a shit =/


Okay my problem is i cant ever come up with anything to talk about on the phone with my boyfriend and i feel really bad about like im boring him and i feel like our relationship is about to end because of it please help! (link)
well .. i watch tv with mine sometimes.. and like movies that are on! and stuff! its fun and cute sometimes haha ;)


There's this boy who is my friend but i don't know what to do. i like him a whole lot but i don't know if he likes me or not. What should do? (link)
well .. flirt with him.. but not to much and see if he flirts back.. and if he doesnt then =/ sorry but if he does.. go a little farther and tell him you like him .. but hopefully it wont get awkward! goodluck!!


Yesterday, me my bff brittany and my family went to burlington for my little brothers hockey tournment. there me and brit spotted these 2 really hott guys and decided to try nd talk to them later. well so we did and it was actually quite fun we spent the whole night hanging out with them and just some younger immature boys. one of the 2 boys we spotteds name was shawn. i flirted with him alott and a few of the other kids kept telling me he likes me and stuff. the hotel was going to be filled with security guards at 11 and it was creeping there and a little before shawn asked for my number. i gave it to him and gave him a hug be4 i walked in my room but my friend keeps sayin guys just ask to make them look cool and its not like hes gonna call or anything. but he acted so nice and mature and everything so i didnt know if this was different or do all guys just like to lead us on. (link)
Well i personally think he'll call.. give him a couple days.. but dont get your hopes up .. some guys are assholes! but who knowss! ;)


my friend lorrin just moved to another state. I miss her so much. What should i do? (link)
Act like nothings changed... keep talking to her!! on AIM/MSN w/e you have! and on the phone! send pictures to each other about whats been going on! i know you miss her.. but its all that you can do =/ visit her if shes not that far away.. and visit her on breaks like christmas break! =) see her for a couple days




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