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Okay, well i have this bad habit to get REALLY jealous REALLY easily. But like, i cant even help myself. Cause ive never been this jealous before. Like, any other past boyfriends ive had i didnt even care, but now my boyfriend that we are REALLY serious about each other, i get REALLY jealous. Like, if i see him looking at another girl, i feel like im not good enough...idk its really bad. And if he talks to another girl, idk i just fell like i dont matter? I do not know what the heck is wrong with me, but i try to stop myself cause ive talked to him about it and he saif that theres nothing to worry about, cause he only cares about me, and i definatly believe him i just keep thinking like that. But one of his ex-girlfriends i dont like, and becuase he told me what he did to her, but we were talking about that stuff, and now whenever i see her, and hes with me i just picture him doing that to her, and its horrible. I really think i have a serious issue with being jealous. I dont kmnow but all i know is i just needed some advice PRONTO so i can
try to stop doing this. help PLEASE! :( (link)
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Well jealousy is a very bad thing, its painful and a big mistake in a relationship.
You don't have issues, it's in your personality but there must be a reason for overreacting, or over doing jealousy.
Maybe because there is tiny bit in you that wants to be a better person, wants to be perfect for her boyfriend.
You want to be perfect but trust me you can never be the right person without letting stuff go.
Well you see... to build a relationship you need honesty and when honesty is complete you'll never be jealous.
There is something making you think about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend and that is bothering you. You should talk to him about it.
And maybe if you let your boyfriend talk/look at other girls that will prove to you, that you don't need to be jealous and it might even take the jealousy away.
Good Luck =]=]
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K so I'm 15/f frshman and HS and I've never had a bf, and only 1 guy that I know that's actualy ever liked me. All my friends have had/have bf's and I haven't, I've never kissed anyone either, and my bestfriend just told me that she had sex for the first time, and I just feel like I'm a total freak because I've never had a bf. Is that normal?? (link)
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Yeah why wouldn't you be normal?
Listen it's okay to NOT have a boyfriend, or get kissed.
Anyways you're still 15, you still have a life time like literally a life time, so you shouldn't really worry about it.
You'll find your guy sooner or later, you just need to stop looking =]=]
Good Luck =]
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Hello.
K so, I am 13/F and he is 14/M, and well... Here is the thing...
So, for a long time I have liked this boy, and he likes me too, but since we are quite young, and for other reasons, we have decided not to create a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. However, this doesn't stop us from time to time acting like a couple. So yesterday at lunch this girl, she's kind of pretty, came up to him and was like ALL OVER HIM. She started talking to him and she would like grab his hand real quick, or touch his cheek, or tug on his sleeve, or all kinds of stuff, when I was standing right next to him. We were talking and she just comes up and does all of this stuff, and it drove me INSANE. I was like crazy mad and even really jelous. I mean, its not like she knew about our... well, whatever we have... And he isnt my boyfriend, but he likes me and I like him, and I don't know what to do...
Does he have any commitment to me? We agreed that we would wait a bit to make a relationship, and I know he has no intention of dating her or anything like that and that it was all completely harmless flirting, but I also know that he is NOT my boyfriend... So why am I so jelous??? (link)
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Ok.
I think what you need to do is actually tell him about it.
And it might even be useful because if he really likes you he'll actually care about your feelings towards the situation.
You have every right to be jelouse, but don't sit back and watch because he confessed feelings for you. And you haven't dated anyone waiting for him until he is 16, so you have every right to tell him to stop this nonsense actions.
Good Luck=]=]
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Hi, i am 17 going on 18 and i have another question that i need help with i get bumps on the back of my legs after i shave sometimes there like pimples or white heads and how do i get rid of them they are very iratating and they make me feel like every1 sees them and points out at them saying ew thats gross and i hate that feeling but yet they pry really are so does anyone know how to get rid of them? (link)
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Ok. I get them sometimes but rarly.
My friend always shaves, she never waxes which is a very big problem.
Her hands and legs are full of them.
We traveled together and i convinced her to wax twice. And she didn't get the bumps.
So I think you should wax but shave whenever it's an emergency.
Good Luck=]=]
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13/F
Okay, here is the thing. I have liked this boy for a while now and he likes me too. I am 13, he is 14, we like eachother, it should be simple right? Well it isn't. He says he likes me, but that he doesn't want a girlfriend. But see, even though he says that, he still acts like my boyfriend. We hang out a ton, we talk all the time, he can get a little protective and sometimes a little jelous when it comes to other boys, and yet he insists that he just does not want a girlfriend. It isn't like he is playing me because I am really the only girl he ever talks to/ hangs out with, besides he is TOTALLY not like that. So what the heck? I mean it really pisses me off because if he doesn't want to be my boyfriend, he should quit acting like one! And I do NOT do the whole Friends with Benefiets deal, that is just not me, and I don't want to do that but I REALLY like him, and I just want things to work, but I can't change how he feels, right?
So what do I do? Should I wait around and hope he changes his mind? I mean there are tons of other boys that would appreciate me but I'm just not interested and I just cant see it... Besides, this boy actually does like me and what if I chuck him and I end up regretting it... Help please! (link)
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Okay. If what you're saying is true, then he is not another jerk and it seems like he seriously does like you.
Look i'm a female but also bisexual, so I know how it feels.
But just to make sure you should ask him about it and talk to him about it after you read what i'm gonna say.
Look, guys have this thing which they want to feel manly, and to feel manly they need a lot of girls to play with there feelings and etc...
Why do guys settle down when they are old? It's because they would have had their fun already.
Guys kind of feel disguised (but they'll never admit it) when they stay with one girl, they would always fantices another girl in bed with them. It's just a man thing.
I mean he is 14, sure enough and fair enough he needs to try more things even though he has strong feelings for you.
If he actually likes you, don't give up on him. As cheesy as it sounds HE NEEDS YOU.
Good Luck =]=]
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I was talking to this guy, lets call him john.
I like john A LOT, and he said he liked me alot to. We talked everyday and he called me his GF and stuff but we werent BF&GF. But last week he didnt txt me at all. He finally did on his Bday and told me that maybe we should just leave eachother alone :(.. I asked him if thats what he wanted and he said " Yes..I guess." I dont know what happened, we were doin GREAT..
But there more, His stepsis is my bestfriend.
She knew about us talking and didnt like it, she made that clear. We both got yelled at for it..
the day before he txted me,she told me that she made him mad,and the stuff was about me. She yelled at him for talking to me, and also for talking to me for then her..
I think he stopped talking to me because of his sister... What do you think? (link)
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Well ...
I'm sorry someone had to break your heart.
But FUCK this bestfriend of yours but sorry for calling her bestfriend because she is so NOT.
She had no right to yell at you or him.
But if he isn't a man enough to control his OWN life, then you deserve a real man not a sissy who let a fucked up step-sister to run his life without a reason, because honestly i don't see a reason why wouldnt she want you and him to be happy together, OR ELSE ... she likes him but that would be way too messed up.
OR ...
He can just be another jerk who is playing with some random girl's feeling.
I think you should not talk with either of this people, and wait for an apology and if didn't happen then i'm sorry to tell you, you have made a wrong choice in friends.
And also you need to get over him, and go out there, find a real HOT boyfriend who deserves you.
Good Luck =]=]
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13/F
Okay so here is the thing, I have had a crush on the same boy for over two YEARS... And well Im kind of thinking that is a little pathetic...
Here is some background info. It was a completely innocent crush for the first yearish part. He is super cute, he didnt know me at all, you know the deal... But then we really got to know eachother. I opened up to him more than I ever thought I could. That was in the summer. We continued to be close throughout the year but we have never been able to act on it. He says he likes me but he can't date until he is 16 (he is 14 now) and what do I do? I mean I really like him but I can't just wait around for ANOTHER two years, nor does he expect me to, but I just can't see myself liking anyone else. Boys will hit on me and ask for my number and stuff but I am just not interested.
My friends agree that this is pathetic, but what am I supposed to do? He likes me, I like him, I can't and frankly I don't want to move on but I know I need to... Ugh, any advice? (link)
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Well I can't say you're pathetic because those are your feelings not mine.
You said it all,
If you willing to wait for another 2 years? Then the advices is wait for another 2 years! Which seriously might be a problem,
well you see the guy might even loose interest in you, because i mean 2 years WOW it's a lot to wait.
But there is always a second option, get over him
like someone else, go out there and find yourself a hot boyfriend.
Because seriously i don't believe in "i can't date because of my parents" THATS BULLSHIT
He can just date you behind his parents and then when he's 16 he can tell his parents no biggy.
So if you want the truth something isn't right here and it's not worth risking another 2 years.
So by time you'll get over him and like someone who likes you as much in return.
Good Luck =]=]
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ok What is the different between Guys being shy or guys just showing you they want be your friend? (link)
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Intersting question !!
Well you see, a shy guy would always be nervous around you which includes, running his hand in his hair, sluttering sometimes and etc... Only when he is asking you "what are you doing today?" and etc...
A normal guy, would act all cool and normally like any other friend would ask and maybe add something like "Sup? What are you doing today?"
It's always about being nervous, but if he isn't shy and likes you, i don't think there would be any nervous-ness in his words or actions, and expressions too.
Good Luck=]
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I really like this guy but he has no idea who I am. My best guy friend is BFFs with him and he told him that I liked him by name. But he didn't exactly combine me with the name so he still doesn't know me. Anyways, how do I get him to notice me. He is a grade older than me so we have no classes. Any advice is appreciated! (link)
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Um, of coures first of all, try to find him on myspace/facebook/bebo and add him
When you add him, you shall start by commenting on some photos of his and then move on to sending a msg like "Thanks for the accept" and etc... But don't over do it so he doesn't think you're a stalker or something, some guys likes it when a girl plays hard well not some guys 95% of guys.
After that when you see him at school, wave or smile, bump into him or wink in a playful way, but the key to do all that is being confident.
Then in a snicky way, ask around some people at your school about him, create a lie to know some information that would help you spot him around outside of school.
Good Luck =]=]
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Sorry if this is too long, just want to give enough details.
I'm currently a freshman in an university and I've been friends with a sophomore girl for 8 months.
We have gotten really close. She is the type of girl that is very blunt and likes to speak her mind.
We are both very stubborn and reserved when it comes to our problems and feelings.
She just recently told me that she loved me, and considering the type of girl she is, it was a shocker.
We are always making fun of each other but we've helped each other like best friends.
I'm very picky when it comes to friends that I let in and get close, and so is she, in fact, she doesn't enjoy being around girls and she is
boy crazy.
Two nights ago we were on the couch, I was tickling her and when she tickled me back she kissed me.
At first I pulled away and pretended it didn't happen and kept tickling her.
Then she did it again and I kissed back.
We ended up making out for the entire night and I could tell that (I apologize for the language) she got turned on.
Last night when we were kissing she stopped and said: "What are we doing" "I don't fool around with people I care about"
"I don't want to lose you, but I'm afraid things might get messed up" "I love you so much"
I didn't respond and then we both cried. She hasn't cried for over two years so it was heartbreaking to see her cry.
She kept saying that she was sorry and she begged me not to leave her. She kept saying how bad she felt about it and I told her
that both of use made a mistake, that she doesn't have to apologize because it isnt her fault.
After a lot of sentimentalism we went to sleep.
(We had a sleepover)
This morning I was with my randomness and making her laugh a lot.
We were hugging each other all the time.
She began kissing my cheek and I returned all of her kisses.
Then she kissed me again but this time she was more hesitant and we did not make out.
But she kept kissing my lips and pausing, resting her lips over mines.
I don't know what to do, or what to think.
I don't want our friendship to end. She's very important for me.
But I didn't expect her to kiss me again after last night.
And I could see how she was trying not to but ended up kissing me softly.
Like before, we are talking normally.
But not knowing what's on her mind is killing me.
I'm 100% that I'm not in love with her. But I do love her and I did enjoy, and would still enjoy, kissing her.
Help? (link)
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Well, It sounds like she wants you badly.
Look If you enjoyed making out with her and i don't need to be asking the questions cuz when you kissed her back you answered the question.
If you don't love her in like girlxgirl love, just friendship love, you have to tell her. You have to let her know how you feel about that.
Like i have a friend (not bestfriend) but we hang out alot, we're cool about it, when we get drunk we would make out sometimes but she has a boyfriend and we don't have feelings near each other we just like it with girls sometimes, but i am bisexual though, so it's okay if you're bisexual also.
But you guys should talk about it if it makes you feel weird in any possible way, let her know how you feel and if you think messing around is going to ruin the friendship well you're kinda wrong because it doesn't really ruin it, but you guys don't have to make out 24 hours, so just talk and let her know.
Good Luck =]=]
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he is a freshman, im a sophomore. ever since the last time we saw eachother at our friends' house he has slowly been asking for sexual things from me. [these questions came gradually.] NOW he thinks were having sex. [i never said no, but i refuse to.] in the begining i said, i dont know about that i dont think thats gonna happen sorry [i would never want to have sex now anyways] and he would just say ugh grr fine. but now, he is completely convinced that we are going to do it. its starting to scare me. alright, you may think im crazy, and maybe i am. but the only reason i have been putting up with his shit is because i want to see him. i dont know why, but i just really want to see him. although, he treats me like a hoe and only talks to me when he feels like it. but im hoping he'll be himself when i see him. anyways, friday night i was over my friends house on her laptop in her kitchen while she was somehwere else. he IMed me and asked me to send a naked pic and i said im at my friends sorry [i wouldnt do it anyway] and then he said, wow. oh my god were havin sex just send it. [by the way we arent. he just thinks we are. im just too afraid to tell him no] and then he was just being really cruel to me and demanding. he said, ugh you wouldnt send it even if you werent at your friends house, your just like that. i want it damnit.
and then i started shaking and getting scared because i didnt know what to say and i didnt want him to get angry. then he said, ugh do you want my dick or not, hoe. and i said, yo dont call me a hoe.. and he said, then send a pic later. so then i just said i dont know..and he said, fine im fucking your vag then. and i said, do i have to..? and he said, im gonna fuck your vag now. i dont care ill bring a condom.
..thats so scary. he sounds like he wants to rape me. even at one point in our conversation a few days ago he said something like, "im gonna pin you against the wall and fuck you so hard your gonna cry" i told him that sounds like rape. because it does. i am kind of scared of him in a way..look at this conversation..[i changed the names]
matt: your my sex slave
me: whatt.
matt:
you mess up in sex ill slap you in the face wit my cock\
me:
what the fuck
are you being serious
matt:
only if you get naughty (:
me:
...
matt:
suck it till i jizz down your throat
me:
you dont really think of me as your sex slave do you
matt:
no
but im gonna slap you wit my cock
me:
why..?
matt:
cuz then youll suck it
me:
ill do whatever i want
matt:
youll do what i tell you to do
me:
someones being demanding
matt:
i dont care
i cant believe he thinks im his "sex slave" that hurts. and makes me feel like im a nobody and he is using me and getting everything out of it and probobly telling all of his friends and then what am i left with? nothing. whenever i think about the things he says to me, i get this weird stomache feeling, not a good one. and im really scared because yesterday he said to me, im going to their housr tonight. i want your ass, go tonight. and i said, should i ask if i can go..and he said, nah its ok. just go march 28. and i said okay, do you not want me to go tonight or something? and he said, i dont care, but im fucking your vag without a condom so..
first of all when did i ever agree to that. but i dont wanna say no because then he wont go to their house on march 28. he even said, i wont be busy if i get to fuck you. I DONT WANT TO! I WONT LET HIM. all i want to do is hookup. i dont want to have sex with him, never. ever. but i cant tell him that..and then when were at their house, after they all go to sleep, he wants to go on the other side of their basement and do it. but i feel like..hes gonna be really mad if i tell him while hes about to do it to me..hes gonna be so pissed. and i dont want him to slap me. i want to see him though..i dont know why. what is wrong with me. im starting to scare myself
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Are you kidding?
You are NOT crazy, he is the most diguisting creature ever.
Dude DO NOT let him talk to you like that, and why the hell are you talking to him right now?
DO NOT be scared, he can't do anything to you or let you do something you don't want to do.
You better stand up for youself, because he will think of you as a weak girl.
And the only reason why he thinks you want to have sex with him, it's because you don't stand up for youself.
You need to send him a message and tell him something like "I'm not going to ever get naked in front of you or give you my virginty, If you ever thread me again by slapping me or raping me, consider the cops already knew about it and you better stay away from me"
He doesn't ever deserve a minute of your time, don't be weak don't ever let a guy talk to you like that, and don't ever feel hurt for a guy like him.
If a guy ever talked to ME like that, he would consider himself dead.
You should forget about him. Get out there and find yourself a sweet, nice, caring, hot boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
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Ok, I haven't told anybody this...
It's hard to even write on the net, even though I
don't know any of you.
Here gos.
When I was 7, my uncle molested me.
I didn't tell anybody because I was ashamed, scared,
embarrassed, the list gos on!
I want something to be done about it.
Now that I'm older, and I could take it if he beat
me up, I've had my share of fights...
Actually, many people's share of fights.
But that's beside that point...
I want him to go to jail or something.
How do I know he isn't out there fuckin' molesting
some other poor soul. I don't want anybody else
to go through what I did.
So, if I told somebody, would they do something
about it, even though it's been years since it
happened??
I need to know, because if it's too late, I don't
want to go to the cops and tell them if they can't
do anything about it.
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It's never too late, that jerk deserves to be locked in prison.
Good Luck =]=]
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Is 14 too young to have depression? Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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No, It's not.
Good Luck =]=]
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Alright so there is this guy, Ryan. I use to talk to ryan like last christmas break. At the same time my ex was trying to get back with me and this new guy was trying to talk to me. Needless to say I wasn't about to be tied down. ( Not a whore, just testing waters, I wasn't use to having so many options ) anyways, I stopped talking to him. Then like august my best friend got a boyfriend and I was starting to feel a little lonley so I kinda like..obnoxiously went over board trying to get him to like me again. Now looking back at it I realize I acted pathetic and desperate, it was really gross. Needless to say it didn't work out. So school started and I didnt see him all that much and I mean when I did we said heyy whats up like friends ya know? Then the other night I was really really really intoxicated and I'm not even sure how it happend, one minute we were just talking and laughing and then the next thing I remember was just being next to him and having that feeling like..I'm with him. then we made out and passed out. Then I had to go home really early for a doctors appointment and I didnt wanna wake him up so I just left. I didnt text him or anything either because I really didnt care, It was just one of those times you know, I didnt look into it or anything. Then I saw him at another party and we said hi but he was deffinitely preoccupied with the party. So I went to my friends boyfriends house because his parents were out of town and thats where I was going to stay. Then Ryan came and we talkedd and flirtedd and ended up making out and passing out on the floor again. This time though when we woke up I wasn't really talking to him much because his ex-girlfriend was there and me and her are cool and I didnt want to like make shit akward. I didnt text him that day or the next and he didnt text me either that was tuesday-wednesday. Thursday I went to austin and he texted me at 12:35 to ask me to go over to matts house. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? THAT IS LIKE THE ULTIMATE BOOTYCALL. and its not like he was inviting me over to drink or anything because I was like jeez late invitation, and he was like haha sorry man im shit faced. Then he was like well when you get back saturday lets hangout and I was like okay that sounds like a good idea. Well he didnt call, and I saw him at a party and we said hi but since I was with his little sister is was kinda akward. Point is im not sure if hes genuinly trying to get to know me, or if im just a bootycall. im not saying im dying for a relationship but i feel kind of..insulted. like its not that i like him sooooo much its just who the hell does he think he is! (link)
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That's really interesting..!!
But the question is, do you really want to hear me saying the truth or saying something that will sound right and make you feel fine?
Well I hate lying so i will tell the truth.
Like my neighboor downstairs said, That dude doesn't know what the hell does he want so don't worry it's not a booty call but will turn into a booty call later on.
But u shouldn't feel insulted why? Cuz you also did enjoy youself
This is the mistake us girls do, we get angry when its okay guys have sex and not be called names such as bitch, slut, whore and etc..., we hate that guys can do it without trouble and not us
But we get offended if we did it and the guy doesn't like us, NO think like a guy, he doesn't care if he slept with a girl and she doesnt like him and he doesn't complain either so .... yeah
You enjoyed yourself, and you don't really like him.
So why don't you stop calling him or making out with him. Get out there and find a really hot boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
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F/15
Is it true that guys are only after that one thing--sex?
My older brother, 21, doesn't want me dating my current boyfriend. He's about a year older than me. He says, "I'm a guy and I hang out with guys. I know how they think, what they want, blah blah blah." My brother claims that fifteen is too early to be looking for a spouse, which is true. So, teens must be dating for only one reason these days--sex.
Well now that I think about it...why ARE we dating so young? It's not like we're going to get married at this age.
My brother won't stop making fun of the way my boyfriend dresses, he's a scene kid, I guess. I'm afraid that my brother will say something to his face. Even still, it hurts my feelings anyway.
Can someone help me be reasonable with him?? (link)
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Well you're brother is wrong and he's done that many mistakes that he is scared someone is going to do the same to his sister.
Why teens date? Maybe sex but who cares?
Because relationships are made to make a person happy, so if you aren't happy in a relationship (even if you love the guy) you should end it.
It doesn't matter how long a relationship lastes, what matters that if you had fun or satisfied your own needs.
Good Luck=]
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I've been trying to lose weight lately and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what i could eat for lunches at work...preferably something i could buy there.. I work at a walmart supercenter thing... But i also need something inexpensive.. so if you have any ideas let me know please.. thanks in advance :) (link)
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Well,
Breakfast: You can eat eggs without bread, or fruits, or maybe yogurt.
Lunch: Fish (any kind works), Chicken (without bread but you can add veg), or viel meat. Do not drink coke or any sodas, you can have a lemone juice or just water would be great.
Dinner: Fruits or veg (or just skip)
You can drink tea or coffee once a day, and do not put more than 2 spoons of sugar
Drink alot of water, like before sleeping put water in front of you and when you walk up first thing you do is drink ALOT.
Also everyday dance for one hour, it helps you lose 400 cals.
Hope I helped =]=]
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Hello, I'm an 18 year old male. Today, I was in the shower at my local gym when a guy came in to shower as well. he was at the shower tower in front of me. these are communal showers by the way. I have showered in front of him and vice versa for a few days VERY COINCIDENTALLY, not planned at all. i notice that he starts to umm "warm up" when in the shower. he started to give me the eye and he came over to where i was showering and he started stroking my penis. i started to get very hard and i actually didn't feel weird about it. Does that make me gay? (link)
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Well. You can be gay but if you have dated girls before and slept with girls before while enjoying it, you can just be BI-sexual.
But whatever it is, it's very personal but gay is a hard word to state.
But maybe you should talk to that guy, he might also help you out.
Good Luck =]=]
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ok so i'm gonna dye my hair like this.
http://i32.tinypic.com/2ik5dnt.jpg
this is what i look like.
http://i40.tinypic.com/21mdgrl.jpg
would it look good? be brutally honest, please. (link)
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Of coures hayle williams hair colour.
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Okay, this is going to be a long question but I'd appreciate it if you would help.
Ok,I have a friend her names Taylor...I have a real close guy friend named Tanner. I like Tanner ... umm...a lot more than a friend. I think he doesn't like me though. Well...Taylor told me she liked him. I hid my feelings for him..for her because she's my friend...and I honestly don't think I have a chance with him. Well...my friend told me at lunch ...that she's in Taylor's technolgy class. She over heard her telling people..that she doesn't really like Tanner...she's just saying it to make me jeaolus. I was so MAD when I heard that. So, I told her I am not her friend anymore. So, I wrote Tanner a note telling him about what she said. So, in 8th period....Taylor's in my class and she sits across from me in the back row. She asked me why I wasn't her friend...I wrote her a note telling her why...I told her everything...that I liked him.. and I didn't want her to hurt him. I told her she wasn't a real friend...and so on. Well...she told me that she didn't say that ...and if she didn't like him...why would she talk about him so much.(She talks about other guys more than TANNER) So...I told my other friend...and she said that she said it..for sure. So....at the end of the day...I was so mad...I had a drawing my friend made me taped to my locker...and it was ripped...so bad...it was so pretty to. I think Taylor did it. SO..I was walking with my 2 friends. Than, Tanner walked up beside me ...he said " I read your note". I looked at him and said you did? He said ya ...and the one I wrote to taylor...so that must mean that he knows I like...him...I said in the note...that I really liked..him ...and cared for him. He said " Wow... ". I said..".ya...I was mad.."
At, the end of the note I said screw you...and that's what he said wow about.lol "So...she doesn't like me"? He asked...I think he was real hurt. I told him..".Ya I think...she's lieing to me and everything...but ya ".Now, that he knows how much I care about him...do you think he'll ask me out?? I wrote the note... and I told Taylor everything... not expecting Tanner would read it. Like, he was so nice to me... when he was talking to me about the notes. Usually..he's like rude. Like, when I tell him..." Come back dude...we luv you"!! Jokingly ...as friends...and I am like u like us right...he's like..." I like them...but not you"! So...I don't know if he's being rude to me...because he likes me... but that's sorta like a kindergarten thing..and we are in the 7th grade...were more mature.. So, do you think he's starting to like me? Or, what? I really care for him...and I don't want Taylor to go out with him because...she likes a lot of other guys. She usually dates a guy for about....3 days. Like, she just broke up with her ex boyfriend This wesnday...and they went out for about..like 3 DAYS...so I don't want her to hurt Tanner. So...what do you people think i should do?! I am SOOO confused! Thanks to who ever helps! (link)
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Ok. Taylor is a very bad person.
Stay away from Taylor, she seems like a backstabbing immature girl and of coures not a true friend.
About Tanner, you seem like you really like him, so you don't have to ask him out because apparently he found out.
Maybe he likes you and was too shy to ask you out, i think you should wait and expect the unexpected from Tanner.
He might surprise you and ask you out, you never know.
Just if he didn't ask you out, it's okay act normally don't make anything to be weird between you two because you would always end up to be friends and that's better than nothing.
But also if he dated taylor you should stay away from both because if you came in between them you might gget yourself in different kind of troubles.
Good Luck =]=]
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This is gonna be long and I apologize for that but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and answer. Im 21/f and I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 yrs now. Im happy with her and we have an apartment together and dogs so obviously its a serious relationship. The problem is Im still not totally over my ex boyfriend who I broke up with over close to 4 yrs ago.
Let me give a little background. He was like my first true love and he was a great boyfriend. I was like his princess. He loved me more than I could even explain and was always there for me no matter what. When me and him broke up, we were together for over 3 yrs and I broke up with him for another guy. After we broke up we still talked for about 6 months during which I was going back and forth between him and the guy I broke up with him for and throughout that time I did some pretty horrible things to him which has caused us to not even be able to have a friendship.
So now, over 3 yrs after the breakup and about 3 yrs since we have cut all ties from each other I still find myself thinking about him. I dont know if its because I still have feelings or just because he was like my highschool sweetheart and first love or because I can never communicate with him again or what. I saw him the other day when I was on my way home and I looked at him and he looked at me and it just gave me butterflies. I just wonder if he thinks about me and what he thinks and where we would be right now if i never would have broke up with him and I just long for the type of love he had for me. Its kinda like one of those you dont know what you have till its gone type of things. My current girlfriend loves me and I know that, but she doesnt love me the way he did and I dont really think anyone ever will. He would just stare at me in adoration. I was everything to him and I broke his heart. And the weird thing is my girlfriend knows about him because me and her were friends while I was with him and sometimes when were fighting or having a rough patch she will say to me, why dont you go back to cory? she will say that I will never be over him and me and him are perfect for each other. I just wish I could talk to him. I wish I could have a friendship with him. But he made it clear that he doesnt want that and I dont have any way to contact him anyway bc he has a different number now and he deleted him myspace and facebook. And the weird thing is, even if I had the chance to be with him again, I dont think I would. I wouldnt leave my girlfriend for him. So why do I think about him still?
I would just love some opinions or advice. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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Well. I think it's pretty normal, maybe you think about him because you a silght crush on him again or because you always remember the good times and seek for it again or because you feel guitly for breaking his heart and you're seeking for forgivens.
But what you should do right now, forbidden you mind to think of him and get over him.
I would personally tell you otherwise if you haven't mentioned that you would never leave your girlfriend but that is a good thing that you wou;dn't break her heart.
and a little advices distances makes you forgest and that is from a little self experience.
Good Luck=]=]
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