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Pissing me off
13/F
Okay, here is the thing. I have liked this boy for a while now and he likes me too. I am 13, he is 14, we like eachother, it should be simple right? Well it isn't. He says he likes me, but that he doesn't want a girlfriend. But see, even though he says that, he still acts like my boyfriend. We hang out a ton, we talk all the time, he can get a little protective and sometimes a little jelous when it comes to other boys, and yet he insists that he just does not want a girlfriend. It isn't like he is playing me because I am really the only girl he ever talks to/ hangs out with, besides he is TOTALLY not like that. So what the heck? I mean it really pisses me off because if he doesn't want to be my boyfriend, he should quit acting like one! And I do NOT do the whole Friends with Benefiets deal, that is just not me, and I don't want to do that but I REALLY like him, and I just want things to work, but I can't change how he feels, right?
So what do I do? Should I wait around and hope he changes his mind? I mean there are tons of other boys that would appreciate me but I'm just not interested and I just cant see it... Besides, this boy actually does like me and what if I chuck him and I end up regretting it... Help please!
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Okay. If what you're saying is true, then he is not another jerk and it seems like he seriously does like you.
Look i'm a female but also bisexual, so I know how it feels.
But just to make sure you should ask him about it and talk to him about it after you read what i'm gonna say.
Look, guys have this thing which they want to feel manly, and to feel manly they need a lot of girls to play with there feelings and etc...
Why do guys settle down when they are old? It's because they would have had their fun already.
Guys kind of feel disguised (but they'll never admit it) when they stay with one girl, they would always fantices another girl in bed with them. It's just a man thing.
I mean he is 14, sure enough and fair enough he needs to try more things even though he has strong feelings for you.
If he actually likes you, don't give up on him. As cheesy as it sounds HE NEEDS YOU.
Good Luck =]=]
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Hello.
It seems like this boy is into you and you are quite into him. He could be just hanging around to see if he's into you enough actually consider you as his girlfriend. You should try talking to him because then at least he will know how you feel and that's a start. Comminucation is always very good so the other pupil can know how you feel so he's not always questioning.
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In all honesty you are a both a bit young for the whole boyfriend girlfriend thing. His parents probably won't allow him to actually date. He probably doesn't drive so you couldn't go anywhere on an actual date unless someone hauled you around.
At best, he would call you his girlfriend and you would just hang out at school like you do already.
If you feel you really NEED to have someone call you his girlfriend, you will probably have to look elsewhere. Seems a shame to ruin a good relationship over something that is just a title at this point. Not telling the world that you're his "girlfriend" does not mean he appreciates you any less than any other 13 or 14 year old boy.
More than likely you will regret it one day if you go looking for someone to just call you his girlfriend. Hes sure to remember it when your both old enough for it to matter more.
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