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My friend kissed me, and we are both girls
Sorry if this is too long, just want to give enough details.
I'm currently a freshman in an university and I've been friends with a sophomore girl for 8 months.
We have gotten really close. She is the type of girl that is very blunt and likes to speak her mind.
We are both very stubborn and reserved when it comes to our problems and feelings.
She just recently told me that she loved me, and considering the type of girl she is, it was a shocker.
We are always making fun of each other but we've helped each other like best friends.
I'm very picky when it comes to friends that I let in and get close, and so is she, in fact, she doesn't enjoy being around girls and she is
boy crazy.
Two nights ago we were on the couch, I was tickling her and when she tickled me back she kissed me.
At first I pulled away and pretended it didn't happen and kept tickling her.
Then she did it again and I kissed back.
We ended up making out for the entire night and I could tell that (I apologize for the language) she got turned on.
Last night when we were kissing she stopped and said: "What are we doing" "I don't fool around with people I care about"
"I don't want to lose you, but I'm afraid things might get messed up" "I love you so much"
I didn't respond and then we both cried. She hasn't cried for over two years so it was heartbreaking to see her cry.
She kept saying that she was sorry and she begged me not to leave her. She kept saying how bad she felt about it and I told her
that both of use made a mistake, that she doesn't have to apologize because it isnt her fault.
After a lot of sentimentalism we went to sleep.
(We had a sleepover)
This morning I was with my randomness and making her laugh a lot.
We were hugging each other all the time.
She began kissing my cheek and I returned all of her kisses.
Then she kissed me again but this time she was more hesitant and we did not make out.
But she kept kissing my lips and pausing, resting her lips over mines.
I don't know what to do, or what to think.
I don't want our friendship to end. She's very important for me.
But I didn't expect her to kiss me again after last night.
And I could see how she was trying not to but ended up kissing me softly.
Like before, we are talking normally.
But not knowing what's on her mind is killing me.
I'm 100% that I'm not in love with her. But I do love her and I did enjoy, and would still enjoy, kissing her.
Help?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I had the same situation with my best friend.
Well, my story was a bit different, she was a confused girl not knowing who she love the most and we had boyfriends.
It started with a bonding and loving and sharing a lot of happy moments.
One night she annoyed me and when I got annoyed she started to kiss my body as apologies and one thing led to another. but on the same night we decided to hav it as a one night experience!
I called her name while making out with my boyfriend and telling him everything when I was drunk and lost my relationship. while she was insisting on her relationship with her boyfriend and wanting me on the side.
Finally I got so confused and left her and I lost our friendship either.
My only advice is that it doesn't matter if you're going to be a lesbian or not. Before risking your friendship make sure she is not playing around under the name of love.
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Well, It sounds like she wants you badly.
Look If you enjoyed making out with her and i don't need to be asking the questions cuz when you kissed her back you answered the question.
If you don't love her in like girlxgirl love, just friendship love, you have to tell her. You have to let her know how you feel about that.
Like i have a friend (not bestfriend) but we hang out alot, we're cool about it, when we get drunk we would make out sometimes but she has a boyfriend and we don't have feelings near each other we just like it with girls sometimes, but i am bisexual though, so it's okay if you're bisexual also.
But you guys should talk about it if it makes you feel weird in any possible way, let her know how you feel and if you think messing around is going to ruin the friendship well you're kinda wrong because it doesn't really ruin it, but you guys don't have to make out 24 hours, so just talk and let her know.
Good Luck =]=]
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I think everyone is alittle bi-curious at atleast one time in their life..
Obviously she's attracted to you in that way.
If you dont want to get into a relashionship
then you guys can just "mess around" Ok,
That sounds bad, but if you like kissing her,
maybe you guys could do it for fun?
haha.. but about the whole friendship,
If you still want to kiss her, tell her that you dont want this messing around to interfear with your friendship.
Sit down and talk to her about it.
See how she feels.
It all depends. Which would you like to cherish more..
Kissing your best friend,
Or the friendship?
Not saying the first answer is wrong, you can do
that option but theres a possibility there could be a strain on your friendship.
But If you like it alot, take the risk.
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