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m/26 gay,well I have a boyfriend whom I relly love with all my heart and been dating for almost three years now,but over the whole last year we've been going through a lot of hardships,a lot of arguments and problems,we are not happy anymore I reckon,I'm really sad 'coz he has tried to dump me like a hundred times,and I've always begged him not to do it.Currently, I cannot stop crying bc I have realized that he no longer cares whether I'm out of his life or not,so I'm seriously thinking about moving on with my own life and just forget everything about him but it just freaks me out the idea of being alone again and miss him too much,help?THANKS! (link)
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My best friend once told me: Never stay with a boy just becase you'll be lonely otherwise coz there are always more fish in the sea.
I think 3 years is a far too long chance you gave him. If he insists on leaving then leave him and never be scared of becoming lovely. I'm not saying that you'll find a prince charming the day after or that life will be amazing an hour later. I'm saying that you will face hard time and you will miss him alot bt when the hard time is over you'll feel 10 times more confident and strong. I am 100 percent sure coz I have tried it and I have the most amazing boyfriend now (I'm a girl by the way). Plus he might realise how much you mean to him when you left him and you will have a far more romantic relationship afterwards.
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Sorry if this is too long, just want to give enough details.
I'm currently a freshman in an university and I've been friends with a sophomore girl for 8 months.
We have gotten really close. She is the type of girl that is very blunt and likes to speak her mind.
We are both very stubborn and reserved when it comes to our problems and feelings.
She just recently told me that she loved me, and considering the type of girl she is, it was a shocker.
We are always making fun of each other but we've helped each other like best friends.
I'm very picky when it comes to friends that I let in and get close, and so is she, in fact, she doesn't enjoy being around girls and she is
boy crazy.
Two nights ago we were on the couch, I was tickling her and when she tickled me back she kissed me.
At first I pulled away and pretended it didn't happen and kept tickling her.
Then she did it again and I kissed back.
We ended up making out for the entire night and I could tell that (I apologize for the language) she got turned on.
Last night when we were kissing she stopped and said: "What are we doing" "I don't fool around with people I care about"
"I don't want to lose you, but I'm afraid things might get messed up" "I love you so much"
I didn't respond and then we both cried. She hasn't cried for over two years so it was heartbreaking to see her cry.
She kept saying that she was sorry and she begged me not to leave her. She kept saying how bad she felt about it and I told her
that both of use made a mistake, that she doesn't have to apologize because it isnt her fault.
After a lot of sentimentalism we went to sleep.
(We had a sleepover)
This morning I was with my randomness and making her laugh a lot.
We were hugging each other all the time.
She began kissing my cheek and I returned all of her kisses.
Then she kissed me again but this time she was more hesitant and we did not make out.
But she kept kissing my lips and pausing, resting her lips over mines.
I don't know what to do, or what to think.
I don't want our friendship to end. She's very important for me.
But I didn't expect her to kiss me again after last night.
And I could see how she was trying not to but ended up kissing me softly.
Like before, we are talking normally.
But not knowing what's on her mind is killing me.
I'm 100% that I'm not in love with her. But I do love her and I did enjoy, and would still enjoy, kissing her.
Help? (link)
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I had the same situation with my best friend.
Well, my story was a bit different, she was a confused girl not knowing who she love the most and we had boyfriends.
It started with a bonding and loving and sharing a lot of happy moments.
One night she annoyed me and when I got annoyed she started to kiss my body as apologies and one thing led to another. but on the same night we decided to hav it as a one night experience!
I called her name while making out with my boyfriend and telling him everything when I was drunk and lost my relationship. while she was insisting on her relationship with her boyfriend and wanting me on the side.
Finally I got so confused and left her and I lost our friendship either.
My only advice is that it doesn't matter if you're going to be a lesbian or not. Before risking your friendship make sure she is not playing around under the name of love.
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