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am 12 he 13. he wants sex, but i told him i was scared, he respects my response,but he keeps saying that he 'wants to fuck me bad.' the more he says it i want to, but am 12 dont know what to do.some advise??? (link)
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He should listen to you, no means no. I had the same situation with my boyfriend, and he almost got me convinced but I ended up dumping him. Now I am 14 and am happy that I am still a virgin. Boys brag at school, and it would be total humiliation. He should respect your first, and hopefully final decision. Plus he shouldn't say things to you like "I want to fuck you bad", it is very rude and disrespectful so women.
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What are some things we can do for a talent show? (link)
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Some fun and popular things are singing, dancing, or gymnastics.
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I luv my bf alotttttttttttttt nd I guess he 2,bt the prob is v cnt marry eachother he is ready 2 b wid me evn aft marraige 2 other guy he says he wil always be ther for me bt v cnt b together! I cnt get over it. Fierst of all I wnt all ur prayer coz dey say frnds prayers r accepted by God. Nd second is I wnt an advice hw cn I mke him positve towards our realitio coz I hve dat much confident dat I can convince his mom dad bt he is exactly d opp. I realy cnt bare aythng. Please help frndss. (link)
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Honey, i can barely understand what your saying, but just talk to him, his mom, and his dad at the same time. And it will be most likely that they will understand. But first, why are you even thinking about marriage if you are only 16? You have plenty of time, plus this may only be a little high school fling, don't get worked up about it.
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This might be very long but it's the only way I can explain it clearly.
I have been living in New Jersey for a year now and I'm completely used to my school and the small town. I'm in the eight grade and I was expecting a horrible school year and on my first day someone walked up to me and asked me if I was new. I responded yes, and she said she was new to and that she had just moved here from Alsalvador. Her name is Nikky and as you'd guess, we became best friends. We shop together, eat lunch together, share interests, and know things about the other that know one else's knows about, I've really never had a better friend.
Now, this is the part the smooth sailing through eighth grade gets fuked up be some bitch! You see, for only one semester in the entire school year, we would switch from gym to health. So, in the first semester, Nikky had health, and I had gym. During gym I hung out with this girl (Who I'm just going to refer to as Whuslchuck, her last name) and I just hung around her. She was VERY cocky and extremly competitive, but for some reason she was very nice to me, so I just returned the kindness. But then I started talking to this one girl who I knew from art class and, behind her back, Whuslchuck told me not to be friends with her. I found this to be very mean, and I confronted her saying that I'll choose who I wanna be friends with on my own. She, despite her cockiness, reacted sheepishly and apologized. I forgave her and still hung out with her during gym.
When it was second semester me and Whuslchuck were put into health class together, and Nikky had to switch to gym. Me and Whuslchuck chuck, both agreeing how disgusting and awkward health class was, stuck together the entire semester. And it once got to the point were she asked me to sit at her lunch table, and I usually sit with Nikky. I asked her if se minded and she said no. But I stayed at that table for about a week, but I was miserable because Whuslchuck made be a third wheel with one of her random freinds. Anyways, Nikky eventually blew up in my face and said that I'd been avoiding her, but I wasn't! I always avoid drama, so I just said sorry and sat with her because I didn't want her feeling bad.
When it finally came time when me, Nikky, and Whuslchuck to have gym at the same time, it was complete hell! Whuslchuck hated Nikky, and the told me to not be her friend, i ingored her, and Nikky was pissed off and hated Whuslchuck. I tried really hard to get them get along and it took months, but I had managed to get us to all hang out together. It was great until I realized Whuslchuck began to avionics me in gym, and she only talked to Nikky. I brushed it off and acted like I didn't mind at all. But just yesterday she went to go sit with her at lunch. And again I pretended like it didnt bother me but it sure as hell did. Then today she didn't sit with her because Whuslchuck was on a History club field trip and she wouldn't be back until the next period. So when Nikky say with me I noticed that she looked sullen, so I asked her if she was okay. She replied no and told me that she embarrassed herself in front of the guy she really likes. I had known she liked him and I understood her situation because I've been humiliated before to. But it seemed like no matter how much I tried to comfort her, her remarks became bitchier, and bitchier, up to complete and total ass! I was trying to make her feel better and she streamed me like shit. I tried a final attempt and told her a story that she would relate to on the way to gym class which was after lunch, but halfway throught it she interrupted and said, "This isn't something you can just get over about in just a day!" and she stomped off. I wanted to cream, then I wanted to just curl up in a ball a cry. But soon, didn't give a fuck. Until she came up to me smiling, acting peppy as ever! I asked her why she felt better and she said that Whuslchuck told her that it wasn't big deal. I smiled and said I was happy for her but I wasn't, and felt totally worthless. It made me feel like an entire year of friendship was set on fire and fucked, and that my no matter how supportive I was, no matter how good of a friend I had been, no matter how much off her stupid shit I put up with and don't ask for anything in retern would never be good enough. Only dumb ass Whuslchuck would be good enough. The same girl that was mean to her to. a few periods later Nikky caught on and noticed that I looked upset and I told her I'd tell her later. When I got in the car I burst into tears any told my mon what happened he said that she couldn't stand to see me so upset and that I should call her. So I did call Nikky and I said that I had tried hard the make her feel better that she was being mean and that she completely ignored that I was trying to comfort her. And that I don't understand how she only felt better when Whuslchuck comforted her and that she had been treating her like shit no longer than a month ago. And Nikky said that Whuslchuck just understands her situation better. I was furious. I DID relate to it, who hasn't been humilitaed before!? I made a horrible choice by yelling in the phone and saying "You've gotta be fucking kidding me! That really hurts!" then I hung up and turned off my phone. I haven't turned it on since and I really don't want to. I'm just waiting until I cool off. If I didn't I'd probably end up cusing her out or crying hysterically.
I know I sound so angry now, but I just want my best freind back! She's ignorant to not realize why this WOULDN'T make me feel bad. I wished she'd understand that I'm really hurt, but it's one of those things that she'll never understand unless she was put in my shoes. She just thinks that I'm over reacting, but I'm not. She doesn't know that I've been bullied mentally and that because of that I don't take isolation, solitude, and just being down right ignored lightly, because more that half of my life has been like that and I don't want it to happen again.
How can we be freinds again? (link)
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Talk to her is the basic thing. Tell her not to interrupt and that you really want to get this off your chest. If she doesn't choose to listen, then don'l leave her alone at school and she will have no choice but to listen. Explain to her and apologize and she will most likely forgive you, if she doesn't then talk to Whuslchuck and explain to her.
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Female/ 15
So I'm 15 years old and my chest is incredibly flat . -.- All of my cousins (even younger ones) have breast size in 38 B and up. Most of them are skinny and have decent breast size I'm a little bit chubbier and boobless. Is there some diet or anything I can do to help increase my breast size or make them grow ? >. (link)
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If you think that you are flat-chested and 15, than that probably isn't true. They might not be huge, but they will at least be an A. Also, you can use push-up bras or helping bras. I'm sure they will grow very soon anyways.
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12/f
am in 7th grade and i have a 38/c bra is this normal cause, they have gotten that big in 1 year. am comfused about this, i wear a smaller bra to make them look and feel smaller, dont know if this will help or just irritate me?
lol,i just cant type today, had to go back and fix like 15x (link)
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It will irritate you if you wear a bra too small for you. If you are embarrassed by the size of your breasts, don't be. It is more lucky to have them larger than smaller. And it is very natural for your breasts to grow in one year. My breasts went from nothing to a B in one year, it is completely natural.
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