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How can I dump him?
m/26 gay,well I have a boyfriend whom I relly love with all my heart and been dating for almost three years now,but over the whole last year we've been going through a lot of hardships,a lot of arguments and problems,we are not happy anymore I reckon,I'm really sad 'coz he has tried to dump me like a hundred times,and I've always begged him not to do it.Currently, I cannot stop crying bc I have realized that he no longer cares whether I'm out of his life or not,so I'm seriously thinking about moving on with my own life and just forget everything about him but it just freaks me out the idea of being alone again and miss him too much,help?THANKS!
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My best friend once told me: Never stay with a boy just becase you'll be lonely otherwise coz there are always more fish in the sea.
I think 3 years is a far too long chance you gave him. If he insists on leaving then leave him and never be scared of becoming lovely. I'm not saying that you'll find a prince charming the day after or that life will be amazing an hour later. I'm saying that you will face hard time and you will miss him alot bt when the hard time is over you'll feel 10 times more confident and strong. I am 100 percent sure coz I have tried it and I have the most amazing boyfriend now (I'm a girl by the way). Plus he might realise how much you mean to him when you left him and you will have a far more romantic relationship afterwards.
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You've invested a lot of time into the relationship it hurts. No one said it will be easy but the longer you wait.the harder it will be you tryied to keep it together you did what you could the best thing is to leave. Start over sure you will feel hurt but its step one towards the new happiness you truly deserve good luck be strong :)
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I can definitely relate to this one... I was dating the same guy for 3.5 years, not much longer than you and this one. What ended up happening was he left for the military and we ended up breaking up. Things happen, and people move on with their lives. As you can imagine for the first 6 months I was heartbroken. I didn't want to be with anyone, see anybody, or do anything. However I knew I had to go on with my life. I got involved with volunteer work, joined clubs on my campus, and started hanging out with friends, etc. Just start doing things for yourself and don't be afraid of being alone. If you like music, start going to see live shows, just put yourself out there. You won't regret it. Hope I helped out a little.
xoxo,
dottie4
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