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What Happened? I thought .....


Question Posted Tuesday March 31 2009, 7:42 pm

I was talking to this guy, lets call him john.
I like john A LOT, and he said he liked me alot to. We talked everyday and he called me his GF and stuff but we werent BF&GF. But last week he didnt txt me at all. He finally did on his Bday and told me that maybe we should just leave eachother alone :(.. I asked him if thats what he wanted and he said " Yes..I guess." I dont know what happened, we were doin GREAT..

But there more, His stepsis is my bestfriend.
She knew about us talking and didnt like it, she made that clear. We both got yelled at for it..
the day before he txted me,she told me that she made him mad,and the stuff was about me. She yelled at him for talking to me, and also for talking to me for then her..

I think he stopped talking to me because of his sister... What do you think?


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sousou1234567 answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 8:01 pm:
Well ...

I'm sorry someone had to break your heart.

But FUCK this bestfriend of yours but sorry for calling her bestfriend because she is so NOT.
She had no right to yell at you or him.

But if he isn't a man enough to control his OWN life, then you deserve a real man not a sissy who let a fucked up step-sister to run his life without a reason, because honestly i don't see a reason why wouldnt she want you and him to be happy together, OR ELSE ... she likes him but that would be way too messed up.

OR ...

He can just be another jerk who is playing with some random girl's feeling.

I think you should not talk with either of this people, and wait for an apology and if didn't happen then i'm sorry to tell you, you have made a wrong choice in friends.

And also you need to get over him, and go out there, find a real HOT boyfriend who deserves you.

Good Luck =]=]

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karenR answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 7:39 am:
The first thing you need to do is to stop calling this step sister your best friend. She isn't. Friends do not interfere with each others love life.

She sounds like one who may have a bit of a crush on her step brother. She evidently has something on him if he is going to let her rule his love life. If not, then he is a bit of a wimp.

Either way it seems they are a pair to avoid.

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Realtalk101 answered Tuesday March 31 2009, 8:35 pm:
Dear Unclueless,

I think you already know the answer to your own question.

Clearly as you stated the Step sister confronted both you and her step brother.

The question is what you wanted to ask is What do you do about it?

Nothing!

If he choose to let his step sister run his personal life that is something he has to deal with not you. And if you also allow her to control your life well then.. you have to really get a reality check on yourself.

Lets see how long this last dont pressure it wait for it.

You will see


Real Talk

xoxoxo

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