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Awkward Encounter


Question Posted Friday March 20 2009, 10:34 pm

Hello, I'm an 18 year old male. Today, I was in the shower at my local gym when a guy came in to shower as well. he was at the shower tower in front of me. these are communal showers by the way. I have showered in front of him and vice versa for a few days VERY COINCIDENTALLY, not planned at all. i notice that he starts to umm "warm up" when in the shower. he started to give me the eye and he came over to where i was showering and he started stroking my penis. i started to get very hard and i actually didn't feel weird about it. Does that make me gay?

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canada2011 answered Sunday March 22 2009, 12:08 am:
despite what the other people say it could be possible. You might want to explore that feeling. Who knows. Any questions let me know.

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You_Got_Advice answered Saturday March 21 2009, 9:14 am:
You seriously think that a straight person doesn't get hard when someone, ANYONE, strokes their penis?!

The penis is just reacting in the way it knows how; it doesn't know if whatever is stroking it is a man or woman! I don't think it makes you gay at all.

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sia answered Saturday March 21 2009, 3:22 am:
it could just mean that you enjoyed getting your penis stroked thats all.You could also not feel weird about it because you werent consentrating on the fact that it was a guy stroking you or you could of thought about the fact that the guy showering next to you is gay days before he actually stroked you so your mind was not surprised by what was going on but it could be a posibility that your gay or bi sexual mayb you should talk to the guy about it and try it again and see what happens...maybe try hooking up with him and see how normal you feel about that.does that help?

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sousou1234567 answered Saturday March 21 2009, 2:56 am:
Well. You can be gay but if you have dated girls before and slept with girls before while enjoying it, you can just be BI-sexual.

But whatever it is, it's very personal but gay is a hard word to state.

But maybe you should talk to that guy, he might also help you out.

Good Luck =]=]

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Eldritch answered Saturday March 21 2009, 2:43 am:
"Gay" is a state of sexual confusion caused by defective chemicals at birth, traumatic childhoods and misconceptions about oneself and life in general.

I very much doubt that you're "gay".

I do, however, advise that you let this guy know that he's running the risk of getting himself killed by approaching random strangers and invading their personal space.

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