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am I a lesbian/ bisexual??!!
ok well i have been with a guy before and everything and im 19/f last year i was with a jerk that i thought was the one for me was going to spend my life with him but then i found out about his secret life where he was unfaithful to me and a whole lot more which i wont go into detail.
lately i think i have been checking girls out and im not sure but i think im finding them attractive. I would look at them and scan them from head to toe i think i check them out and i cant help myself!i do find guys attractive but am i bi sexual?does this sound like a thing that a bi sexual would do or am i like this because i got hurt badly by a guy i had my heart set on?is it normal to be straight and severly check girls out?i think i would even make out with a chick but never done it so i wouldnt know
thanks in advance<3
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your deffintlay not bi-sextual
if you have feelings for girls
and if you want them more then friend
then you would be lez/bi
but if you just check girls out to be curious your not.
my friend she checks girls butts out
but it doesnt man she is Lesbian, or bi-sextual
if you want to no more
look up trayce shaw on youtube
he is bi-sectual
and he tlakes aobut being bicurious
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I don't think you're bi-sexual. I just think you're curious & there's nothing wrong or abnormal with that. Most girls, if not all, wonder what it would be like to be romantically involved with another woman. Checking out girls is something you've probably done all your life but didn't consciously notice until now. It's kind of a subconscious thing people do. They will look another person up or down without even realizing they did it. Not everyone does this, but most people do.
I did it at a time or another, and to be honest, I have no problem admitting when I think another female is attractive or that I wouldn't mind being involved with them. I think you're not bi-sexual or a lesbian until you actually go through with a sexual act with another girl. There's a difference between saying, and acting.
So no, I don't think you're bi-sexual or a lesbian, just curious. And it's completely normal.
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It is normal for girls to check out other girls. Its the feelings you have inside that mean something. I am bisexual and I always checked out girls but that didnt make me realize anything. I had always thought and fantastized about girls but I knew that was normal so I didnt think anything of it. It was when I was hanging out w/ this girl I was working with at the time who was bisexual that I realized I was truly bi. We would hang out and flirt and slowly started cuddling when we would watch movies and we would play around and she would pick me up and stuff and I noticed that I would get more and more excited to see her. And I would want to look hot and stuff like that. So its not about the attraction to girls, its about the inside feelings.
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It's actually normal for girls to be attracetd to other girls. I would reccommend that you experiment with the scene. I'm about a year or two younger than you, depending on your birthday, and I actually want to experiment with girls. If you kiss a girl and you feel weirded out, you're probably not bi-sexual, however if you don't then you are.
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I think it's normal to think that the same sex is sexy and whatnot. But what you should ask yourself is can you see marrying a girl and being happy? Or do you see yourself having a husband and being happy that way?
Don't think of it just by attractiveness. Which would you truly be happy with as a lifetime partner?
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