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Porn's affect on children


Question Posted Saturday March 21 2009, 3:54 am

How much would watching a porn video affect a 10 year old girl in the future? Would it possibly mess up future romantic relationships or else cause some other psychological effects?

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Yungadvisor answered Monday April 6 2009, 11:43 pm:
Well... That's rare. Anyway, I'm assuming your question is really asking "is it okay?" and to that I'd say no it isn't. Yea it'll probably happen later on, I'm 16 I know stuff lol :). But yea 10... Not good at all.

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Eldritch answered Saturday March 21 2009, 2:26 pm:
Holy moly, someone on this site actually answered your question appropriately.

I agree completely.

However, there's still hope. If this is your little girl, or your little sister, you need to talk to her about this right away.

Explain to her that what she saw isn't reality. That porn is degrading to BOTH sexes, and that it isn't "the norm". Ask her questions about it. Ask her what she thought when she saw what she did, and try to set her straight (gently).

Make sure this girl grows up with a healthy self-image.

EDIT:

The above still applies. Write a letter to that little girl. Let yourself explore what you think about what you saw, and remind yourself that it has nothing to do with you.

Everything will be fine, I assure you.

Just work on that healthy self-image, and your self-worth, and don't worry about relationships right now -- you're young. Take time to live life, and don't let it revolve around seeing something that wasn't real.

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You_Got_Advice answered Saturday March 21 2009, 9:10 am:
Yes. She would develop a completely false impression of sex. She would start sex way too early from thinking that it was a no-big-deal normal thing.

She would learn that sex is just for pleasure and not really for showing love and creating life.

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