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I like this boy named Luis(as you might know) But I want to know if he likes me. I afraid to ask him to go out with me and stuff so I was wonder if he was ever going to ask me. He is shy around girls and Ishy around some boys. him one of them. He flirts with me and i flirt back. and when the teachers make us sit by each other we'll lean on each other but I'm not sure if that's Liking someone or not. Do you think he likes me?

Hey♥

If you're too nervous to ask him now, you should wait until you're ready to. You should write him a note if you actually dread asking him in person, or call him on the phone if that makes it easier. Don't get anyone else in this or it might get uncomfortable for Luis (ex. DONT ask one of your friends to ask him if he likes you) because he might not tell them the truth, since he might be afraid you don't like him. He might like you if he flirts with you and if he's comfortable enough to lean on you .. =] Good luck

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16/F,This guy at my school told my best friend that he still likes me and he didn't know how he could tell me how he felt. He went to my french teacher's concert so he could see me there but I didn't show up and he was upset. So he sent me a message on myspace telling me how he felt. My best friend told me that he was keeping this to himself for three years. Today at the pep rally he wouldn't stop staring at me and his friend kept pointing at me. The thing is that I'm really confused and I feel the same way too. but I'm scared to face him. I seriously don't know why I'm afraid and how can I get over my fear?

Aw it's alright to be nervous, I know how it feels. You must be glad he likes you back, and since you already know he does, just try your best to face him. Think about how much he must be nervous to talk about this subject too, so just let him know how you feel. I know how it feels to be scared of facing the guy you like, so don't feel like you're the only one. He told you how he feels, so now its your turn. If he doesn't know by now that you like him back too, you should tell him before it's too late. Before you talk to him, take a deep breath and have confidence in yourself to not be nervous in front of him.

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14/f.. I had sex with my boyfreind about 3 or 4 weeks ago and the condom broke!! I took 3 pregnency tests without my parents knowing and they were all positve!! so i think i'm pregent how could i tell my parents? HELP
I'll rate 5

Tell your mom right away. Sit her down, alone, and just tell her that you and your boyfriend had sex... and that the condom broke. She might be able to figure out where you're going with this, and you should just tell her exactly what happened. Let her tell your dad. Good luck with your baby, and I mean that. :)

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and everything is going great...but his step mom, his real mom died when he was young, totally wants me dead! ive only met her once. she was smiling and everything at me but then when he went to invite me over he told me that she hated me. his dad and brother love me but his step brother and sister hate me to. i never did anything wrong to them. i have barely ever talked to them. his dad told me not to worry about it because she(his step mom) is just upset because her son doesnt have a gf and is jealous. what can i do to get her to like me? i rate 5's.

Well if you never did anything to hurt her, you should just be as friendly as possible, so if someone tries to blame it on you, you won't have anything that you did wrong. All that matters is that you respect her even if she is being mean to you. Your boyfriend's dad and brother like you, so you don't have anything to worry about that. She doesn't have any reason not to like you, so just keep being respectful and polite, and she won't have anything to be mad at you for.

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theres this girl, lets call her...ariella. shes beautiful, funny, nice...almost seems perfect. but i'm not friends with her at all. she's in my classes but we never talk. she's not in my range at all, and i would never dream of asking her out. how do i be just friends with her...13/m

Just start a conversation with her, and try to be friends with her. Be funny with her and show how much you like her, but don't tell her straight until you become better friends first. If you're nervous about talking to her, just get some of your friends to talk with her and her friends. Thats how I usually talk to guys, because sometimes I'm too shy to walk up to them first, so I get some of my friends to talk to theirs. When you start to feel more comfortable you should ask her out.

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why would a boy aske me out if he knew that he wasn't allowed to date untill he's 17?

You should ask him about it, and he probably likes you enough that he doesn't care what his parents think about it, and wants to try to keep it a secret from whoever it is who is keeping him from dating. Ask him about the situation and see what he says.

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I am short for my age. I'm 14 and 4'11". I try to look at the positives but it's hard sometimes. Do guys like shorter girls? I feel like they won't... I will only grow about 1 or 2 inches more... What can I do??

Yeah most guys like shorter girls because then they don't have to worry about you being taller then them, and a lot of guys think its cute. Most guys actually don't really care about height, and you should be glad you're short because I know a lot of girls who don't like how tall they are, and don't like being taller then the guys they go out with.

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i REALLY don't get this. there are [a lot of] people out there who cut, and say it's addicting. but doesn't it HURT? why would you want to do something again that hurt you? i heard that "it takes away the hurt from the inside" but i still don't get why people do it. it kina bothers me.. 13/f in case it matters.

I think some people do it because it takes your mind off the emotion, like how some people eat when they're depressed and stressed out. When people want to cry, they cut themselves because it hurts, but in a good way to them. It feels better then crying for them. I guess you can't really understand it unless you have the problem with depression, and have cut yourself.

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Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me to go out with this one girl but we started talking again and the past 2 nights he has kissed me. He said he is confused and I want to get back with him. Would it be bad if I did?

He said he's confused about you, so don't get together too quickly, or you might get hurt again if he all of the sudden decides to date another girl. If he is still going out with another girl, then yeah, it would be bad to try to get back together with him. Give him time and then ask him for a straight answer, and ask him what he wants to do.

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I have a hugeeee crush on my best friend. Here's the problem--he wants to be a priest. Hes never had a gf(ive never had a bf either) he says he would date girls, and hes prob. telling me the truth. Ive liked him for about a year, and all my friends think he likes me. He told me that he would neverrrr go to a dance with a girl cus he hates dances, but i asked him to go to one and hes like "yah sure I'd love to"
We talk about how everyone thinks we like eachother. He has never denied not liking me. He always just finds some excuse to change the subject. If he likes me, how could I get him to tell me? DONT tell me to tell him i like him, i know that is an option, but i just wanna hear more. thanks in advance

Well, asking him is the only way you can find out for sure. People start rumors and can lie, so you don't really know anything unless you ask him yourself. If it would make you more comfortable, you could ask him on the phone so you won't be nervous with seeing his facial expression and stuff. Maybe he just thinks of you as a friend, or maybe he does like you and wants to go out. If you're already bestfriends with him, I think you should ask him, or have a trusted friend ask him, who you know will tell you the truth.

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ok i started dateing this guy and i thought we should just be friends ( because we just met like a week before that ) anyway he was fine with it.at school he still try's to hold my hand and stuff and he grabbed my ass too. i dont mind it but do you think me letting him do all this makes him think we are dateing again?? we went out the other night and someone asked me if he was my boyfriend and i didnt know what to say....is it stupid to ask him to be just friends with benefits because i would do stuff with him but i dont want a boyfriend???? ill rate high

Well first of all, let me just tell you it's *dating, not dateing. Tell him how you feel about him and what you feel about your relationship with him. Don't lead him on, having think you two are going out. Just tell him you want to be friends, but would still like to get together sometimes because you still like being with him out of school. I don't really believe in friends with benefits, because if someone doesn't understand it, it could really hurt their feelings, so make sure he understands your relationship with him.

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my name is venesa and i dont like it.
i want to change it to something else so random and unique like echo or something

so please. any suggestions?

I love the name vanessa, why would you want to change it? It's the name your parents gave you, and you should be proud of, you know.

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What are the best places to put on eyeliner ( like top of your eye, the little ledge on the bottom etc.) and what are the best kinds to use?

I put eyeliner on the bottom of my eye, because I don't think it makes much of a difference putting it on the top of your eye. I use a pencil eyeliner because its a lot less messy then liquid eyeliner and it doesn't make it look like there is too much on your face. Liquid eyeliner is really dramatic looking too.

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hey.. im having alot of trouble with my exe. he doesn't get off my back! his brother encouraged him to hate me and make all of his friends (my former friends) and alot of other people to get the wrong idea of me, after i dumped him.

what can i do just so that i can go ot school normally without those annoying people and their attitude against me. i mean, i know that i shouldn't care and that they aren't good friends and stuff, but this is my reputation im talkin about! im in real crisis, help if u can.

~ thanx.. *

I'm sorry that this is happening to you, and I would suggest talking to him about it. You need to tell him that he's being pathetic and really immature about you breaking up with him. Tell him you're sorry for hurting his feelings, but also that he needs to get over it and stop talking badly about you. Don't do anything physical though, unless he starts first. Being physical isn't the right way to deal with things, unless you're trying to defend yourself when someone is hurting you.

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i tried out for a play for the first time. i was so suprised when i actually started reading the poem we were supposed to recite because i actually felt more comfortable with people watching me and i wasnt nervous at all and i think i did good... then the director said "thats exactly what i wanted" or something like that. then, the next person up he said "see how jackie did it? :)" in a good way. does that mean i'll get a part in the play?? or is he just being nice???

It sounds to me like they liked your performance. You might get the part, but you might not. People have second thoughts about things but I would be pretty confident if it happened to me like that.

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i REALLY like this guy. but we kinda just got in a fight.. he wasnt in a good mood in the first place.. and i was trying to tell him how hes feeling.. and i dont know. im just not, good at calming people down. i seem to make them madder obviously.. anyway, now hes mad and he blocked me.. and i dont wanna call him because if i do i think ill just make it worse. and i like him A LOT. what do i do?

Like some of the other people said, I think you should give him space. This guy sounds like he didn't want to talk to you, and when he feels like talking to you again, he'll come out and tell you what he's feeling. You don't want to make him more mad, so just give him time. I'm sorry he blocked you though, 'cause I kinda know how it feels to be in a situation like this.

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15/F

I wanna loose some weight. Like 10-15 pounds. I just need a good way to get started. What are some good exercises? How long do you think it will take?

oh and i have a tredmill if that helps.

Work out maybe an hour a day or so, and a treadmill is really good to use. Use it while watching tv or listening to music, and also in the morning or afternoon go jogging if you live in a good area for that. Try push-ups and crunches, and you should just try to eat healthier. You can mostly eat whatever you want, but make sure they are smaller (but still good sized) portions of food. Maybe you could go to a gym if you want to keep in shape, so you could ask your parents if you can go to one.

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Alright. I've looked online a few times and all I can seem to find is products you can purchase. Does anyone have any recipes for wax that can be used to wax legs, facial areas, etc? Thanks!♥

Go to http://www.askjeeves.com and http://www.google.com .. I think you'll be able to find something eventually.

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so i am a female at age 13 going on 14. and about a month ago when i was working on a project with two guys(nerds). anyways he started asking why i had a mastache. and yes everyone has hair their but it shouldnt be noticable like this is? how do i get rid of this problem?
please dont say ignore them
xoxo KML

Don't shave it because it'll grow back darker, thicker, and hairier. I would get it waxed, because plucking might hurt too much if there are a lot of them. Ask someone in your family if you can get your upper lip waxed.

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I like this guy and my question is what should i do. we have one class together, we do track together, we flirt all the time, we have a bet as to who will get the higher gpa for the semester, and we are friends (but we just started being friends this past year so not that long). You see the thing is i dont think he likes me, we flirt and hang out but i dont think i've ever heard him talk about girls (in the sense he liked them) except when hes making fun of these two really creepy girls who are like whores in our class together. i have fun with him and i dont know what to do because he also flirts with my friend (but shes a BIG flirt and im not, in fact im pretty shy)! help please, what would you do?

If you know him well and you both are already friends, then tell him how you feel about him lightly in a conversation. Say something like, "Someone likes you..." and if he tries to guess then just tell him that it is you. It worked with my friend who is now going out with that guy, and it was good because they were friends before she told him how she felt. And I don't know what you mean by flirting with your friend, because he could like her or he couldn't. Some guys just flirt with girls they don't like, but most of the time they only flirt with girls they really do like. Good luck, and tell me if everything works out.

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