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should we go back out??
ok i started dateing this guy and i thought we should just be friends ( because we just met like a week before that ) anyway he was fine with it.at school he still try's to hold my hand and stuff and he grabbed my ass too. i dont mind it but do you think me letting him do all this makes him think we are dateing again?? we went out the other night and someone asked me if he was my boyfriend and i didnt know what to say....is it stupid to ask him to be just friends with benefits because i would do stuff with him but i dont want a boyfriend???? ill rate high
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I definately like all of the other advice you've recieved, but another option is, if he grabs your ass, or your hand, etc, just turn and straight up say "That's over. Stop." and walk away. Don't even turn around. It'll get your message to him and he'll look stupid for doing it. It'll stop then. Also, tell someone that you're not going out if they ask.
-Becky
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well first of all i would sit him down and explain to him that you don't mind him doing all that unless you really really do but him doing all that doesn't mean that we're together again and tell him that you just want to be friends for now because your in a new place and don't know many people so you want to work things out to where you understand what you want if that makes any sense but just sit him down and tell him you just want to be friends but only for now unless you don't want to get back with him then tell him you just want to be friends.......hope i helped
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Well talk to this guy for sure..I mean it kinda sounds like you might be leading this guy on..&& him grabbing your ass doesn`t really mean he thinks you guys are going out..I mean you told the guy you wanted to be friends with benefits so grabbing your ass might be apart of it..You said your comfortable with it so maybe he gots the idea of what you what..
♥Dez
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Well first of all, let me just tell you it's *dating, not dateing. Tell him how you feel about him and what you feel about your relationship with him. Don't lead him on, having think you two are going out. Just tell him you want to be friends, but would still like to get together sometimes because you still like being with him out of school. I don't really believe in friends with benefits, because if someone doesn't understand it, it could really hurt their feelings, so make sure he understands your relationship with him.
-mystical_breeze
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