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boys please help me!!!!!
first of all sorry this is so long!!!
i really like boys to answer this cause they know how other boys are thinking cause boys are a soo weird sometimes :-)
well i really really like this guy and uhm lets call him D :-) so i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that! uhm so i really often looked at D but not because i liked him or something just because he was interesting and always so funny and hyper so i think he took it like she loves me or something! and then once he talked to me and well then i started to like him but i was really shocked and answered weird when he asked me something and he was like: why are you so mean to me? so than he asked me if we should be friends or something and then he got interrupted and than my busstop (this whole conversation was on the bus :-) came so i never answered that question! then i kinda ignored him even if i loved him and then he told me he loves me and i was so shocked i was like: uhm 2 bad! or something AAHH i felt really bad than so i called him about 3 weeks later because im just shy with boys! and i said im sorry and all he said was like: uhuh or yeah and since than he always ignored me and sometimes he looks at me but only when im not looking (but hes not smyling or anything)and i dont know what to do anymore! i wanna talk to him but im scared that he wont answer again and everything! and by the way does he still like me? what is he thinking? cause i know he really loved me once you could see it the way he smiled at me....... and is he like over me now or something? hes always ignoring me and that hurts! but i really love him! what is he thinking????
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Sorry, I'm a man, not a boy, but I'll answer anyway.
Also, don't apologize for making a long question. Long questions are fine. But if you're going to ask a long question, break it up into paragraphs so it isn't such a pain to read. Also:
"o i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that!"
Never mind that? Why did you say it in the first place if it wasn't important?
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Well, since he wanted to be friends and you didn't really ever answer that question. From a guy's perspective, having a girl wait 3 weeks to respond is generally a sign that the girl is not interested at all in me, and is trying to find a nice way to say "no." I'd say any chance you may have had with him, you pretty much shot by waiting. Suck it up and move on, that ship sailed.
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This always happens in life, does he like me? does he not?
Id say that if he didn't like you at all he wouldn't be looking at you. He is probably waiting for you to make the move (maybe a bit shy around girls?), so why not just do it.
Catch him after your last lesson together in the day and explain how you feel.
It is sometimes a little risky to use the word love untill you know them a little better, so id say you just really like him a lot and would like to be friends.
If things go further later on, let it.
There really is no need to rush things.
I wish id made the move more often.
J
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well obviously we don't know what hes REALLY thinking because we're not in his head. the only way to find that out is to talk to him. however you shouldn't have told him too bad when he said that because that was kinda like giving him the wrong signal. you need to just sit down somewhere privately or something and talk to him about what's going on and tell him how you honestly feel and maybe he'll open up to you and let you know how he feels!
good luck
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firtly you shouldnt have replied by saying to bad like you did when he said he loved you if you loved him you should have said i think the best thing to do is to talk to him start up a conversation tell him you think hes avoiding you and then tell him what you said was a mistake and that your just shy and you love him a lot!!
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