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I like this guy and my question is what should i do. we have one class together, we do track together, we flirt all the time, we have a bet as to who will get the higher gpa for the semester, and we are friends (but we just started being friends this past year so not that long). You see the thing is i dont think he likes me, we flirt and hang out but i dont think i've ever heard him talk about girls (in the sense he liked them) except when hes making fun of these two really creepy girls who are like whores in our class together. i have fun with him and i dont know what to do because he also flirts with my friend (but shes a BIG flirt and im not, in fact im pretty shy)! help please, what would you do?
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Yow, don't ask what I would do! I would let that opportunity pass me by. I'm not a hypocrite or anything, but I'm not that quick on my feet if you know what I mean. I get scared too, which is not a good thing to be in a situation like this. Anyways, enough about me, you should go for it. Even if he rejects you, he seems like the type of guy that you could go right back to having a fun friendship with that wouldn't be awkward. If you two are into each other, which you definitely are, don't let the opportunity to have a relationship together pass you by. Hint at a relationship gradually more in your flirting and if he doesn't take the initiative himself after a week or two, go ahead and ask him out. You won't regret it. It's worth the try and nothing that bad can come of it really. I hope that everything works out for you and good luck! :)
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If you know him well and you both are already friends, then tell him how you feel about him lightly in a conversation. Say something like, "Someone likes you..." and if he tries to guess then just tell him that it is you. It worked with my friend who is now going out with that guy, and it was good because they were friends before she told him how she felt. And I don't know what you mean by flirting with your friend, because he could like her or he couldn't. Some guys just flirt with girls they don't like, but most of the time they only flirt with girls they really do like. Good luck, and tell me if everything works out.
-mystical_breeze
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Tell him how you feel, however hard that might seem. Seriously, I had the same predicament for about two years, this guy and I were okay friends, talked in school, in classes, had friendly competition, ate lunch together, that sort of thing. But he never seemed to send any signals that he liked me so I didn't say anything. Then one day I was feeling crazy so I told him. And now he's that adorable columnist on this site called reach28 :). So it works out nicely. Just tell this guy how you feel, and the worst he can do is say that he thinks of you as a friend, but it sounds like he likes you. Hope this helps, and hope everything works out!
Love,
Nevaeh
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