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okay i like the scene hairstyles but my mom and sister dont . but i really do . but i don't know if it would look good . i really want to try it but dont want it to look dumb .so what should i do ?

I would try it. Scene hairstyles usually look better on darker hair. I'm not sure what you have. But scene people usually have or dye their hair dark brown or black, sometimes they have a few/or one streak of a color, such as hot pink, electric blue, yello, red, or purple. So iwould try it, even though your sister and mother don't like it, it's not their hair. And if you don't like it, it will always grow out, or you can get ectensions.


Good luck!

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i have a few stretch marks on my inner thighs... and i dont understand it. im not overweight or anything. so why do i have these? and how do u get them? from losing weight, gaining weight, both? And finally, how can i get rid of or reduce the appearance of them?? thanks!!

Stretch marks can occur from sudden weight gain, or sudden growth. To lessen or reduce stretch marks you can use Cocoa Butter Lotion, this is what pregnant women use. Or just go to a drug store and ask if they have anything that reduces or lessens stretch marks and I'm sure they have more.

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It's really hot so I've been wearing thinner clothing but you can see the fabric of the bra I'm wearing. Does anyone know of a type or brand of bra that I can wear that is smooth and doesn't look lumpy or anything under my shirt? Thanks a lot.

Honestly, most bras made are not lumpy. You can get un-lumpy bras anywhere that sells bras. Which are places like Victoria Secret, Aerie by American Eagal, Kohls, Target, and Macy's..etc.

So it shouldn't be too hard. Make sure to get measured so that the bra fits you right!

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My cousin gave me a pair of Hollister jean capris. They are too big, so I wanted to return them. I dont know how long ago she got them, but maybe a year or less? They have all the tags on them, so do you think I could at least get a credit?

I'm pretty sure they will still take them back. You probably won't get the ticketed price for them since you don't have a reciept. They most likey will give you credit for the sale price of the item, since they are old they have been on sale. You'll either get that in credit or you will need to do an exchange. If that doesn't work, take it someone where like Plato's Closet, if they have those around there, a thrift store that buys stylish clothes from people. So that's another way you could get money for them. Also, if they're not too big, you could get them tooken in. Like go to a Tailer, and they can make them fit to your size.


Hope I helped!

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Hi im 14m and i was wondering...im about 6 1/4 and about 1 inch thick...i was wonder if thats big or small..please answer
thanks..

The average size of a grown males penis when erected is about 5-6 inches. So you are big for your age. So you're doing good :)

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15/f

omggg. ok me and my one friend pranked phone called, her friend, and shes kinda my friend too, and it was only twice. and all we said was hey its these two boys, who she used to like. and so she got like all mad and went and told this big bitch everyone hates. and i was like sheeesh. who cares. we've never done it to you before, it was just twice. like yeah ok, i can see if we did it like 20 times. but shheesh, twice?

what should i do? i mean obviously im not gonna call her anymore, but like they keep annoying us about how we prank phone called her. what should we say?

oh and by the way, the big bitch she got to yell at us, has like no life, and all she does is yell at people, because no one lieks her. so yea

I would just forget about it. You said you don't talk to this girl anyways, and the girl that's yelling at you has no life and no friends. So it shouldn't be a big deal. She's dramatic and totally overreacting. It was just prank calling. So if someone yells at you again, either ignore it or tell them to get a life since everyone in the world prank calls people and she just needs to get over it.

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okay im a girl and i wear new era zoo york hat, volcom tank top, skinny jeans from anchor blue, and nike shoes whats my style?

I'm guessing punkish or skater.

But it's so hard to actually label someone nowadays since, I think, skater, emo, punk, and goth are practically the same. The ony label easy to distingish is prep.

Emo- emotional, screamo music. tight jeans.

Punk- tight jeans, pacsun clothing. piercings. band t-shirts.

Scene- creative, cuts own hair.

Skater- t-shirts, tight jeans, hats. Rides skateboards.

Prep- polo, skirts. Ripped jeans.

Goth- black, sometimes baggy clothing containing chains.

Some of these labels share all of the same things in common.

ha hoped I helped ?

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I have been hooking up with this guy for a few weeks now; and whenever i give him handjobs and he is about to cum he tells me; thankfully; like usual. From what i had heard from friends; i always just thought that was a friendly warning; to get ready for it you know? But when ever he says he is about to he moves my hand and makes me stop, then finished himself off. I thought at first he thought i was uncomfortable with it; so the next time i said 'no i can finish you off' and kept going and like 2 drops of cum came out and i just kept going to i guess try and get it all out but he told me to stop...
Basically my question is; is this normal? Do most guys finish themseleves off or have the girl stop when they only cum a little bit? Cause i always thought that when they came; they lost their erection and he never does...Please help!

Some guys finish themsleves off. It's less messy and more polite. So yes, it is normal.

Like if you've ever seen the movie American Pie, the first one. When she is giving him head or a hand job, he finishes himself off.

So don't worry.

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I have been hooking up with this guy for a few weeks now; and whenever i give him handjobs and he is about to cum he tells me; thankfully; like usual. From what i had heard from friends; i always just thought that was a friendly warning; to get ready for it you know? But when ever he says he is about to he moves my hand and makes me stop, then finished himself off. I thought at first he thought i was uncomfortable with it; so the next time i said 'no i can finish you off' and kept going and like 2 drops of cum came out and i just kept going to i guess try and get it all out but he told me to stop...
Basically my question is; is this normal? Do most guys finish themseleves off or have the girl stop when they only cum a little bit? Cause i always thought that when they came; they lost their erection and he never does...Please help!

Some guys finish themsleves off. It's less messy and more polite. So yes, it is normal.

Like if you've ever seen the movie American Pie, the first one. When she is giving him head or a hand job, he finishes himself off.

So don't worry.

EDIT!: Sorry, it did two answers. I'm not sure why. Sorry for the confusion. They are the same answers. lol :/

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I'm 15 I wear a 32 B
I got my period when I was 13 or 14
My boobs are kind of cone shaped.. is that because of my development stage or just how they are going to be? My mom is a 34C and my grandma is a D... on my dad's side my grandma's a C.


What size do you think I'll be?
When do you think they will noticeably get bigger?
Are they coney because of development or just how they are going to be?

Some women's breasts are just going to stay coney. Some women have coney or rounded breasts. So I'm guessing it's not going to go away.

You breasts will probably get bigger. I'm not sure to what size, or when they will be noticeably bigger, since only your body knows that.

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i dont feel like i am pretty or anything bcuz no guys like tell me i am to my face and like no one does besides like my friends and i think they dont mean it.
www.myspace.com/i_like_to_rawr_00
is my myspace,please tell me the truth like i dont feel pretty what so ever,and is there anyway how i can change my feeling on that?

When I went to go look, it said your profile was deleted.

Sorry.

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Hey! I hear this term a lot, but I never really understood what it meant. Anyways, let me get to the point:

what exactly does it mean to hook up with somebody???

Thanks :

Hooking up, to most people means doing something sexual. As in : making out ; oral sex ; or sex ; ect.

To me, I think it means strictly sex.

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my friend and i were at a party. she has a boyfriend of over a year now, but she seems to flirt with every guy she sees. there was this one guy at the party who has liked her for awhile so people kind of made them hug. nothing wrong with hugging. but then she started to act differently around him and to me, everything she did is almost like cheating on her boyfriend. later on, her cousin invited her and i to sleepover at his house with his friends (my mom said no, so her mom didnt let her either). the thing is, she REALLY wanted to sleepover. i think she wanted to be with that guy all night. so, do you think i should just ignore it and let her do what she wants, or should i tell her boyfriend?

Well technically, she's not actually cheating. But, if what she's doing really makes you feel that you need to tell her boyfriend about it, then do. But, first I would talk to her about it. Be like, " why wouldn't you tell anyone at the party you have a boyfriend, I understand that you want to have your fun, but you have been going out with this boy for over a year, and do you honestly want to treat him like this. Are you just doing this for attention? What's the deal? "

Either she likes this other boy, or she just wants the attention. So do what you'd like to do. Hope I helped, and good luck!

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Okay, so i just got a new s/n for AIM, but i don't want to have an email account through it. is there a way to get rid of the email account, but have the s/n?

It just comes with the screen name account. You don't need to use it, and they don't expect you to, it's just there. Just in case.

It's just like MSN, Yahoo, AOL, ect. Those all come with emails and screen names, but those websites are known for emailing.

Just don't worry about it, you don't have to use it unless you would like to.

And no, you can't get rid of it.

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I asked my best friend who I trust everything with if she thinks I'm a slut. In the past she's said no but I asked her to please be honest with me yesterday and answer me the truth. So she said yes, she also said it was very very hard for her to say. I told another friend what was said and he said that if she was a real freiend she would understand and not think i was a slut. He also said if not, there is one good thing to come out of it; I found out that she wasnt a true friend.
So what do I believe? That she did the right thing telling me truthfully that she thinks I am a slut? Or she did the wrong thing in thinking that of her best friend?
She's always been there for me but now I'm confused.
I feel like I can't tell her anything now without feeling like I'm driving her away. She said it doesnt make her like me any less though and that it's my decision.
Can anyone help me?

You belive your friend. You asked her to tell you truthfully, and she did! Don't get mad at her or think she isn't your best friend because she had enough back bone to actually tell you the truth. I always thought that best friends told you the truth, no matter if it's what you wanted to hear or not. She even said it doesn't make her like you any less. So stay best friends with her, because you don't want to loose that. Oh and fake friends are the ones who tell you everything you want to hear... Just a thought

Hope I helped ?

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i was at a party the other day, and they were doing jello shots. what is a jello shot? whats the point of it? and how do you do it?

thanks!

A jello shot is just jello, but with alcohol in it. There's no point to it, it's just a fun and tasty way to take a shot. You drink and/or eat the jello shot. Usually drink it in one whole gulp, since it's small and is called a jello "shot."

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I want people's opinions on this. Do you think people should wait to have sex until their married. Do you think People would regret it? I mean because like youve waited and now your wondering like "what would it feel like with someone else?" On the other hand i hear people having sex when there 14 and having STDS and they probably should've waited. idk

Opinions?

I wouldn't wait until I was married, just until I knew I was ready. Some people do regret waiting until married, and others don't. It's all preference. People who have sex at age 14 are just doing it for attention and want to be " cool." Think about it, and wearing condoms keeps you from getting STD'S. You should even wear a condom when having oral sex.

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is fignering yourself the only way to mastubate for girls? I mean, I do it but it doesn't give me pleasure......I just feel normal like it doesn't give me enjoyment......is that weird or is there any way I can ......"pleasure" myself? Help!!!!!

Maybe, you are not fingering yourself properly. Because people usually get pleasure if its done right. People used actual vibrators, back massagers, and shower heads to pleasure themselves. Hope I helped!

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Well ive been getting sick of my dark brown hair and my mom wont let me dye my hair. So maybe if i got a semi-permanent(sp?) hair dye she would let me.
*What brand should i get?
*Will a light shade of brown work with my dark brown hair?
*How long does it last?
*If i dont like it how do i get it out?

Thanks in advance. :]]

BTW- PLEASE know what your talking about =D

- The best brand is the Clariol (sp) semi- permanent. Sorry, I'm forgetting the brand name, I just know it starts with a C and its semi- perm.

- The light brown will work, but barely. So try like a light brownish- red. It looks pretty.

- They say it lasts for 28 days and/or 28 showers.

- To get it out, try this coloring striping stuff. Go to Walgreens, or a place like it, and ask them about it. It will take the dye out of your hair, but dull the natural color. You could also, dye it a semi-perm. color that's extremely close to your natural color.

- But you have to remember, when I used semi-perm. It didn't come out after 28 days or washes. It just faded alittle, and caused me to have different color rootes. It didn't turn out the way I thought, so I had to keep dying it. Until the summer, made me go back to my natural color.

Hope I helped and good luck.

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15/f yes i know, im kinda young, but i have a boyfriend and weve been dating for 4 months. Im haveing a delema here, my dad and mom were highschool sweethearts till they got divorsed. Soooo my dad thinks that when i have a boyfriend it shouldnt be a loong relationship. I told my dad that i like him a lot and that im not going to make the same mistake he did, i also told him that im not stupid and that im happy with the person im with. My mom and dad didnt get along at all. My question here is how do i convince my dad into letting me date for a long time. [ps] im not saying that im gonnna be with him forever but lets just say were gonnabe together for a while --> thanks =]

Tell him that every relationships ends for a different reason. That you can't help that his and your moms relationship ended like it did, but it doesn't have to be the same with you and your boyfriend. Explain to him that you are not thinking about marriage with this boy, but you want to have the oppurtunity to be with him for awhile.

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