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only way?
is fignering yourself the only way to mastubate for girls? I mean, I do it but it doesn't give me pleasure......I just feel normal like it doesn't give me enjoyment......is that weird or is there any way I can ......"pleasure" myself? Help!!!!!
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Not every girl responds to the same kind of stimulation or acheives pleasure with this through the same ways as somebody else would.
You are 100% normal as every girl responds differently to certain types of intensity be it hard, rough, soft etc. What you need to do is find out what works for you when you are pleasuring yourself and nobody can tell you what will work for you. You have to find it on your own.
We cannot give ways or tips to do this because it can get you booted permanently. If you haven't had a lot of answers to your question it's not you, it's this reason and to keep minors safe.
Every person has something that will work for them and them alone when it comes to self-pleasure. Having said this, most girls not all respond to clitoral stimulation because it's the the female organ for pleasure and has no purpose medically beyond that.
More or less if you keep doing what you are doing and trying different things you'll soon figure out what your body responds to but I figured I'd tell you that you're normal, everyone responds to something different and that there are a lot of different ways for females to acheive pleasure through this activity but you need to find out what works for you.
Fingering to answer your question isn't the option but to figure out what works you have to do your own detective work until something works for you. It's also okay if this activity brings you no enjoyment period as some people aren't able to derive pleasure from it. That doesn't mean that's the case for you though.
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Try clitorial stimulation =)
i know what you mean about fingering not really being that pleasureable.... and no, its not weird =)
so don't worry =)
best of luck!
VB
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Like another answer said, majority of females need clitoral stimulation. You can do that with your fingers or other objects if you please. Also vibrators work, if you have the money and a way to get one. You can also use the bath tub faucet to masturbate if you have no other way.
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Maybe, you are not fingering yourself properly. Because people usually get pleasure if its done right. People used actual vibrators, back massagers, and shower heads to pleasure themselves. Hope I helped!
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Some girls can get something out of fingering themselves. Then there are some of us, that need clitoris stimulation. Also remember that a lot of the pleasure is based on what you are thinking about. Thinking about a scenario like someone you really like, that you have an attraction to. Having fantasies is important in making it pleasurable.
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