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Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

Everytime I bend my knees they crack, what does this mean?

You need more calcium:-)

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ashley

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If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks.

There isnt any reason you'd have to take the peircing out anyways.I don't know anyone whose ability to play in gym was affected by a cartilidge peircing.but if the teach makes u take it out,make sure its for no more than 30 mins cuz it might close.

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ashley

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i am so shy around guyz i dont know. I dont try to be but i can deffinately tell i am. I dont see how this is when i am always making friends with the other girls. How do i be less shy?

Just be as open and loud and fun with them as you our with girls.I have alot of guy friends too,because i talk to them and they like fun girls.Even though alot of ppl think it, guys arent interested in shy girls;how fun can it be sitting there with someone who will never talk?Just be yourself,they're no better then u so just relax:-)

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ashley

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If You ask a question while you are signed in, will it show up on your page? before,or after (or both) its answered?

because some questions i DONT want my friends to see!

sorry, you all probably know this, im sorta new.

and dont really ask to many questions, but now im gonna! :) coz you all are soo sweet!

thanks in advance!

oh I always Rate! 4 or 5, unless your mean to me, then i just dont rate- i think that if you dont like that they say- you should rate then low, because then your being mean right back!

sorry I talk alot!

If you ask a question it doesn't show your screen name.:-)

*ashley*

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Ok there is this girl I really like, and she has brought up the subject that she really likes me too, but im not a hundred percent sure that she does,is there any ways that i could find out if she really does ?

ask her!lol but if u dont wanna do that, just flirt with her, and if she flirts back or gives you any signs that shes interested then yeah!

*ashley*

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When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?

thanks aton!

above.and use a pencil eyeliner,because liquid runs more, and can look trashy.Maybelline new york is the best in my oppinion.

*ashley*

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i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what?

You should go see a counselor.If you tell a teacher they'll probably tell your parents, and if you tell a friend it might be all around the school within 24 hours.A couselor is your best bet.

*ashley*

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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help.

I think you need to tell them how bad it is, and that they may be messing up their life.That's what friends are for...to be there for each other.Hope I helped:-)
*ashley*

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What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance.

Go to the mall,go to a teen dance club,find out whose having a party,theres lots of stuff to do.

*ashley*

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i have hair down the middle of my stomach.. im alittle conscience about it.. should i wax or shave it?

wax it.

*ashley*

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I use Herbal Essence Conditioner and it works really well. How do you know when you've gotten it out so you can get out of the shower so your hair won't be oily looking because sometimes it looks as if I haven't washed it in a few days. Does anybody know?

Well after you think it's all out,rubs your scalp and if you feel anything,then keep rinsing.
*ashley*

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i'm 16/f. is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me? i like this guy but hes 2 years younger than me, i'm a junior...hes a freshman. Thanks guys!

If he's as mature as you, and you are okay with it, then go for it!
*ashley*

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I have a crush and one of my friends is taking over him.And i think he likes hetr>But she is the Uglyiest person on this planet my friends say it is just friend ship but NOT WHAT SHOULD I DO

Well, you should ask him who he likes more.I'm sure he likes you, but just to be sure ask him face to face, or write him a note.

*ashley*

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My math teacher is really cool, he is really youn
and he's friends with alot the students. I talk to him alot before class, after class, during advisory, and in class.
The other day I was talking to him before class started and I was wearing semi-new pants. I had the plastic thing that keeps the tag on them,on the side of my thigh really close to my ass. It's really small and clear but he noticed it and took it off for me. I'm wondering if this is innapropriate.
He never really makes me feel uncomfortable but it does seem odd that he noticed something that.
Do you think that this is innapropriate?

Nah he was probably just trying to be nice, letting you know about it so you wouldnt be embarressed later.

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Heyy.....i have this friend, lets say she trys to make people annoyed really bad. Caz for christmas i went to her house and everything and she was like oh look i got this really cute tiffany bracelet and i looked at it and you can tell that it is a fake one and you can tell from far away...i was gonna tell her but then im like wat ever screw it. Then she cames to school one day and was on a field trip..and she had a fake louis vuitton purse, it looked real but i know what makes those kinds of purses fake or not, and she was like what you think i cant afford a louis vuitton purse or something?? I was gonna tell her that her parents probably bought it in China Town in New York caz the purses there look so real and all. Shes living in a lie she belives everything her parents tell and all and im very high mantaince....not trying to be bichty and spound spoiled...but i know about these things caz i own alot of tiffany,luis vuitton, coach, donney & borke and abercrombie and hollister and shyt like that. I really pisses me off when she tells me that i dont know anything and all so what should i do???Ohh yea now she mad @ me caz she thinks that i keep talkin shyt bout her which is not true @ all. Ohh one more thing....me and her are also best friends and i want to know what i should do with this...

"confused"

Well, i know where your coming from.It's also kinda funny, when a purse is obviously not louis vuitton(doesnt have the signature or anything) and they get made at you cause you tell them.But it's not hurting anyone, so let her have fun.If she wants to believe they're real, let her.

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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!

Ummm...dry it

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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..

Talk to her about it.And don't let her off the hook easily.My ex-best friend did that too, and i realized there are SOOO many other people out there to be friends with, why waste your time with someone like that?

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i have been trying to do crunches for about 3 weeks and my stomach didnt really get any smaller. does any one know how many crunches to do in a day or does any one know what other techniques that will work to get a flatter stomach

Crunches just make the muscles in your stomach bigger.Doing aerobics helps your stomach.

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I'm pregnant but I don't know if the guy I'm with is the father. I cheated on him with my ex, along the sametime as I got pregnant. What do I do? Do I tell him that he might not be the father?... he's gunna freak!!!! and how do I tell my mother I'm pregnant.. and I don't know who my baby's daddy is?

Well if i was in your situation, if you love your boyfriend, and you think he'll be there for you and your baby, don't tell him you cheated on him.It will just hurt him, and you should do whats best for the baby.

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What i wonder is why.....i do everything i am asked to do, if i do one thing remotely wrong, im bitched at for several days. Why does she single me out....It cant be because im the oldest, my brother doesn't do anything and he is such a little pecker....So what the hell did i do to piss her off....NOTHING. But i still get bitched at, why do you think this is....its really pissing me off

I'm the oldest in my family too, so i know where your coming from.Parents always want to believe their youngest is a little angel, but that doesnt mean she doesn't love you.It may also be because she's stressed out with your little brother.

*ashley*

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