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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.




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Im going on a vaction to cuba with a bunch of friends and im supposed to get my period the day we leave, so i will have it the entire time were there. I was wondering if there is any way to make it start even a couple days early so that the worst part with be over when we go.

I don't think I know any ways to make it come sooner, but I know how to skip it for a month. If you're on birth control, when you get finished with your regular pills, and you go to take your first pill in the last line (the uneffective ones) don't take any of them, skip straight to your next months birth control and take the first pill. ♥

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I'm looking to get a small(ish), inexpensive pet. Preferably one that's not too much to maintain, and also won't be too smelly.
Obviously I know if the cage or whatnot is cleanred properly that shouldn't be too much of an issue, but you know what I mean.
I live in an apartment (well, private house), so noise is also a factor.


Also, if you suggest a fish, maybe suggest a certain kind instead of just "get a fish". Like name or what color it is and what not. And also maybe let me know the price range and what they eat.


Thanks! =)

I'm not sure if your a snake person, because I'm NOT. But my boyfriend has one, and it is literally the most inexpensive pet you can have. You only feed it once a week, and it doesn't smell.

Other than that, I use to have a goldfish that was black lol. But it was unique and really pretty. It had big bug eyes, and I got it from Pet Smart.

Hamsters are cute but they do tend to smell a little =/

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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks

1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places

To be bluntly honest, if you're being forreal about this crap then yeah sorry you are a bit whorish. You're 14 years old. You shouldn't be doing stupid things like that. Let people at school find out, and you'll live you're next 4 years of school in complete misery. No guy is going to want you, every girl will make fun of you and call you a SLUT or EASY. Parents will hate you. Etc. Trust me that is ridiculous to do for someone your age. It sounds to me like your a bit immature and you have a lot of growing up to do. Sorry but life isn't all about sex and giving head to every guy that walks by you. Reflect on that. ♥

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14/f

lately, i've been thinking about cutting my hair short. Not TO short, like in between my chin and shoulders, in some spiky scene kid style. and then getting long extensions for school and stuff. Would this be a bad idea? it's just sometimes, I HATE having long hair, and I think it would be MUCH easier to just chop it off and have "removable hair" ha ha. Ok, I know basically zip about extensions. I know you clip them in but do they STAY clipped in all day? Will they feel secure, and not loose? Also, I need some really long ones, like to the bottom of your rib cage, mid-torso? But I need them to be human hair (so I can dye and straighten it) and really cheap :) I know i'm asking for a LOT but it would help me out a bunch! Thanks!!!

-also, I play volleyball, so would I be able to wear them during games and practice, or should I take them off? Thanks!

I cut my hair short, then got the glue in extentions -- and I HATED THEM. Never get the glue in ones, because you will have hell getting the glue out of your REAL hair. The clip ins, their really confusing and they always felt like they weren't tight enough for me. I tried getting extentions sewn in with my real hair, and that was the only form of extentions that I liked. But, if you insist on getting them, suit yourself. They sell the human hair extentions at Sally's Beauty Supply and the longest ones are always the most expensive. So you're looking at quite a big price if you buy human hair. I bought 32 inches, and I think it was somewhere around $60. Good luck with that. ♥

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i know.. gross but my tongue is always always white... like it has a disgusting layer of white on it.... and i tried everything mouth wash salt and water gargling tongue scraper.... you name it... nothing works!!! what can i do!? i've always had it. and i think i am a pretty health person otherwise. i exercise three times a week i eat alright i'm clean....I REFUSE TO KISS MY BOYFRIED and he's getting frustrated as am i! help!!

Actually, it's from the bacteria in your mouth. I had the same problem a few weeks ago & I went to the doctor and they said that it was just from bacteria. They said brush my teeth at least 3 times a day (NO LESS) and when you brush them brush your tongue!! You'll notice it all starting to come off the more time you spend brushing your tongue. Promise! ♥

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Around two days ago I lost my virginity. I have noticed inside my vagina burns & itches. My boyfriend (not a virgin) has been tested for STDS and everything was good there. I don't have any smell coming from down there so i'm not sure what it could be.

You're not alone. I know a lot of girls, including myself that this has happened to. Sometimes I get that way if I have sex with my boyfriend too much or for too long at a time. It's just from sex. I don't think that there is anything wrong with you, but if it doesn't clear up in a couple days you should either go to the doctor or go to a drug store & get this anti-itch & burn cream for down there! ♥

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I think my boyfriend and I are falling apart. He works a lot, and used to text me during his breaks, but he doesn't do that anymore. We used to actually go out and do things during the day, and now all we do is hang out in his room. We don't have that connection that we used to. Conversation is dull.

The thing is, there are other guys interested in me, and I've gone on a couple of dates with them and find some of them very likable. My boyfriend knows about this and doesn't mind.

I don't know what to do! I really used to like (maybe even love) my boyfriend, but now I feel like we have nothing in common anymore. And I also am interested in other guys. :(

I know from experience that when you first start dating someone & you fall really hard & fast for them and are with them every single day, later in the relationship things go downhill. You start feeling like you're getting bored with them and that the butterflies you use to have, just aren't there anymore. He probably doesn't know what's going on with you two either considering you've been going out with other guys. Maybe you just need a break from him for a while. After a few weeks or a month whatever works for you, if you still don't feel like you want to be with him, then it's just not meant to be. If you start to miss being with him, then you just needed a little break from him. ♥

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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years. we have a baby together and live together. we broke up for a period of 2 months and just 3 weeks ago, he moved back in, and we are going through couples counseling to try and work things out. everytime i even look in the direction of another man, i get world war 3 in my ear. every little movement i make is questioned...he even goes as far as looking at my cell phone constantly. clearly, he does not trust me, and to be honest, i dont trust him that much either, which is why we are going through counseling to work out our issues and built ourselves up. however, there is a girl that lives upstairs from us (we live in an apt. building) and she lives with her boyfriend and their one year old son. my boyfriend is friends with her boyfriend and i am cool with the both of them. i dont talk to them much, but have no problems with them and they seem like nice people that i could definately get to know. my boyfriend goes up there sometimes to hang out with them. well, her boyfriend went to jail a few days ago and my boyfriend continues to go up there. he goes up there at least once a day for a while at a time. some of her friends and family are up there most of the time, so her and my boyfriend are never alone. they all just hang out up there. however, i do not feel it is fair for him to be up there as much as he is since it DOES make me uncomfortable. just the fact that my man is constantly going to another females apt. time after time really gets under my skin. plus, when you look at the big picture, he is CONSTANTLY picking at every move i make(the trust issues) and constantly checking everything i do and everyone i look at and so forth. we have been arguing about this for the past week because my point is: if your girlfriend is uncomfortable with you going to another females apt. ALL the time, then you stop. no question about it. there should be no comparison and not even a fight about it. that girl should not mean nearly as much to him as i do, so it shouldnt matter. he says he is allowed to have friends and yes of course he is! but after all the crap i hear from him about what IM doing, i dont think its fair for him to get to run around and do whatever he wants and it should be okay. he said we dont have friends unless there mutual, and i agreed, even though i feel its rediculous. he said that because when we got back together, i had new friends that he didnt know. and, now that its time for HIM to follow his OWN rules, everything changes and it doesnt apply. and besides, this friend isnt mutual. he asks me to come up there and im always busy or doing something with the baby so i dont go. but flat out, if your girl isnt okay with something like that, then it should end there. any suggestions or opinions???

I understand completely how you feel. There is always a trust issue in every relationship. It's normal but sometimes people go way to far. If I was you, I'd sit him down one on one. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Pour everything out in the conversation. Tell him that it's okay to have friends, but when you're spending more time with another woman than your girlfriend, then something needs to change. Just let him know how much you love & care about him and that you just want a healthy relationship again. Sometimes, honesty is the key. When he wants to go through your phone, hand it to him and just let him with no complaint. If he sees that you have nothing to hide, then he'll start trusting you more. Also, let him know that there is no reason for ya'll to not have trust with eachother. Guys can be good listeners if you start off with something that will make them want to sit down & shut up lol. ♥

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i have this bumb in the middle of my lip that isnt a cold sore wat could it be

Well are you sure that it isn't a cold sore? Because cold sores don't all look the same. I've had cold sores that doesn't look like one, but the doctors said it was. If your sexually active, it could be an STD. If your not, then bumps like that can be caused by eating salty foods, constipation, and change of climate. ♥

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what are the ups and downs to maming yourself puke...b/c my "friend" is doing it to herself and i want her to be healthy. so can u give me the ups and downs bout makin yourself puke. and yes i already talked to her bout stopping because she doesn't know what will happen to her afterwards. so please dont leave the option to tlk to her bout it!

thanks in advance
-cutechick24

Unfortunately, nothing good comes out of this. People turn it into an obsession not-knowing that it doesn't make you lose weight. AT ALL. Continuing to do this, can cause you stomache problems becase when you don't eat anything and you puke, you're just puking up the lining in your stomach, which IS NOT GOOD. It makes you pale and have bags under your eyes real bad. You start looking like a ghost with racoon eyes. It's really a disgusting thing to do & I would let your friend know that it doesn't help. Eating right & excersize is the only way to go. ♥

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So there's this guy that I really like but he has a girlfriend. He acts really nice to me but I doubt he likes me. He's quite popular while I'm okay. His best friend and my close friend (both the same person) said that I would have a good chance with him but not over summer. Thing is, I don't live where he lives andni kind of want him now. He has a girlfriend, and they're really in love and even if he did break up with her he would need time befre moving on and thats also time up for me. I really want him to like me, what should I do? I know I should be myself, but I'm so so DESPERATE ! What do I do? I know this may sound weird but I really want a boyfriend !

Well, if I was you I would start looking into other guys. If this guy is happy in his relationship with his girlfriend, then you really shouldn't interfere. That's like you dating him, and some other girl wanting him so bad that she trys breaking you up. See? But the best thing is to talk to him sometime. Online, phone, texting, anything. Just get to know him & you might find out that him and his girlfriend aren't doing good. If his friends think you have a good chance with him, try it. Just don't go too extreme so that his girlfriend wants to murder you -- that's never good :] ♥

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Dr. Pepper Air Freshner
Does anybody know where I can buy a Dr.Pepper Air Freshner for my car?I know they sell them but I just don't know where
No online shopping for me by the way!

Try car places like Autozone or anywhere that sells carparts. They always have a HUGE selection of air freshners. ♥

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ok well i need to make $120 in like a month how should i make this much money? and also i am only 13 years old so i need a job that is my age.
thanks hope you can help me

13/f/kenzie

It's not easy working at that age. But if you have close neighbors/family/friends/etc, then you maybe could do things around their house for them. Raking leaves, mowing grass, washing windows, cleaning houses, babysitting, dog walking, planting flowers. Just anything that someone would be willing to pay ya for :] ♥

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any good tear jerkers?
like PS i love you

City Of Angels
La Bamba
Just Friends
The Notebook
A Walk To Remember
Armeggedon (spelling)

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what the hell is cardio?

i ask a question about diet and they say do a lot of cardio?

but I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS??
anyone please give me some examples!!

Cardio is doing things that is good for your heart. Such as running, walking, jogging, sports, etc. Things that get your energy level up & will get your heartbeat up! ♥

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Weeelll I love my boyfriend, and I'm home bored waiting on him to get off work, and I want to make a CD of love songs for him. Haha he'll will probably never listen to it, but I still want to do it. What are some good love songs? like "Accidentally In Love" "If I Aint Got You" "Bubbly"..songs like those. Thanks in advanceeee :]

So Into You - Fabulous & Tamia
All My Life - KC & JoJo
Suffocate - J Holiday
Iris - Goo Goo Dolls
Can't Live Without You - Pretty Ricky
All-American Girl - Carrie Underwood
Suga Suga - Frankie J

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Okay, is it more or whenever i shave my pubes they start appearing the next day.. is that normal? Because whenever i shave, the next day they start sticking out again, i mean, i like having it nice and smooth down there, im wondering if it is just me?

also, if i try to shave the appearing hairs away i get a terrible rash!! so i have to wait about 5 or 6 days.. or a week, to shave again, and thats really uncomfortable.

so if its not just me, whats going on? and how can i stop them from growing back so fast!

It's completely normal! It just means you have thick hair. A lot of girls have thick hair. I know that because I can shave and the next morning it'll be all grown back. Waxing lasts longer and it stays softer & smoother for a longer amount of time! ♥

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is the hair straightener chi really worth the money?

I think it is. I mean, I had one of them and it was the best one I've ever used! But I accidentally broke it =/ But I think it is. It just depends. ♥

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Does anyone know any home remedies to make your hair softer? You know, using things you could find in the kitchen. Thanks a lot!

I know this sounds weird, but my mom use to take raw eggs and beat them in a bowl [like making scrambled eggs] and she would take and rub it through my hair, and it made it really healthy and shiny & soft. Hope it helps! ♥

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in school people are always talking shit about me, and i just go home crying or take it out on my parents. how do i not let what their saying get to me?

I was in this same situation last year at school. I'm almost 17 years old going through this. I know I'm pretty & I have a lot going for me, but last year it seemed like the whole school hated me & started a bunch of rumors. I quit going to school because it made me really depressed. I don't reccomend that because I learned it really doesn't solve anything or make everything go away. I learned to ignore people. I know that you may not think that ignoring people doesn't help, but it really does. Because in the end, when you feed into their stupidity, you're just as guilty as they are. So by not saying or doing anything back, you're proving to be a bigger and stronger person. Don't let it get to you. Keep your head up! ♥

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