I think my boyfriend and I are falling apart. He works a lot, and used to text me during his breaks, but he doesn't do that anymore. We used to actually go out and do things during the day, and now all we do is hang out in his room. We don't have that connection that we used to. Conversation is dull.
The thing is, there are other guys interested in me, and I've gone on a couple of dates with them and find some of them very likable. My boyfriend knows about this and doesn't mind.
I don't know what to do! I really used to like (maybe even love) my boyfriend, but now I feel like we have nothing in common anymore. And I also am interested in other guys. :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LiLMAMAx answered Thursday July 10 2008, 3:59 pm: I know from experience that when you first start dating someone & you fall really hard & fast for them and are with them every single day, later in the relationship things go downhill. You start feeling like you're getting bored with them and that the butterflies you use to have, just aren't there anymore. He probably doesn't know what's going on with you two either considering you've been going out with other guys. Maybe you just need a break from him for a while. After a few weeks or a month whatever works for you, if you still don't feel like you want to be with him, then it's just not meant to be. If you start to miss being with him, then you just needed a little break from him. ♥ [ LiLMAMAx's advice column | Ask LiLMAMAx A Question ]
heygirl123 answered Wednesday July 9 2008, 2:54 pm: ok first of all if he doesnt text you mabey that meens he is cheating on you or he feels the same way you do bout him but dont take this harsh but i think you should let him go slowly so he gets and he isnt hurt to bad [ heygirl123's advice column | Ask heygirl123 A Question ]
Lauraaxhelps answered Wednesday July 9 2008, 1:53 pm: I'm guessing he is confused also, because you are going on dates with other guys. And if he is letting you do that, he really isn't the best boyfriend. I think you should break up with him (because everything is getting dull, you don't have that connection you used to have, and you also are interested in some other guys now) and start hanging out with those guys and see which one you can see as a boyfriend. [ Lauraaxhelps's advice column | Ask Lauraaxhelps A Question ]
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