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So, I have been going out with this guy, for a little over three weeks. He told me that he can't see us in the long-term having a relationship because I'm an atheist and he's a catholic. Like, when we get married - everything will just be screwed up. He said he still wants to be friends with benefits, the thing is. I can't understand why he would want to be that, you know?
What would you do? (link)
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In my opinion, you should just say no to the whole friends with benefits scenario he suggested and find someone who is actually worth your time.
It seems to me that your so-called boyfriend just doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. He wants to be connected physically but not emotionally.
I don't really think his ending your relationship has anything at all to do with your religious beliefs. If it did, then why did he ever start a relationship with you to begin with? He just needed and easy out so you wouldn't be pissed at him forever.
Save yourself the heartache, he's not worth your body if he doesn't think you mean anything more than a good blowjob. Tell him to get lost.
Hope this helps!
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ok so me and my girlfriend were talking on the phone and we were trying to figure out more stuff to do like sexually but we couldn't think of anything. so is there anything else we can to besides fingering and a handjob, blowjob and, me going down on her we both r trying to wait until we get out of high school to have sex anything would be great thanks (link)
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Well, there is always the possibility of a 'tit job' or a 'rim job'.
A 'tit job' is where your girlfriend pushes her boobs close together and you kind of hump in between them. She can always use a lube or baby oil if you want.
A 'rim job' is basically oral sex for your anus, if you're into that sort of thing.
Hope this helps!
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how can i squrit (link)
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If you're a guy, your body will cooperate with you when you go through puberty.
If you're a girl, you may be able to squirt if you have your g spot stimulated. It helps collect your juices in a sponge-like part of your vagina and kind of 'squirts' them out when you orgasm.
Hope this helps!
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Do you have anymore? I dont know how to get a condom either, im to embarressed (link)
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Um, do I have anymore what?
And you can go into any drugstore and buy them, or you can order them on the internet, or you can get them free from a planned parenthood. You can just go in and ask for birth control and they'll give them to you. Don't be embarassed.
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how hard is it to deep throat on an average sized guy? how does a normal bj compare to deepthroating? (link)
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The smaller the penis, the easier it is to deep throat. One of my guy friends said that it felt like his girlfriend was milking him when she deep throated.
I wouldn't deep throat the entire time, it could cause you to get a sore throat. Just when you feel like he's going to ejaculate, take him way back in your throat and swallow.
Hope it helps!
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my boyfriend's a really bad kisser, but a wonderful guy. is there any way i can suggest for him to change his technique without completely offending him? (link)
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Play a mimicry game. Tell him that he has to mimic everything that you do. Then make sure he knows that what he's doing is turning you on, and he'll be sure to keep that up the next time.
Hope it works.
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Hey. I know you guys hate these questions, I'm so sorry.
So, me and my boyfriend had sex Friday without a condom. Well, he pulled out, and it was a few seconds when he cummed. Well, I'm really worried I may be pregnant. What are the chances? (link)
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The chances are 50/50 even when he pulls out, especially if he's not wearing a condom. His preseminal fluid DOES have sperm in it and it CAN get you pregnant by fertilizing your egg, whether you're on your period, you just had your period, or you're going to have your period tomorrow.
The 'pulling-out' method doesn't work. If you want to prevent pregnancy, then you should use a condom every time you have sex.
Also, even if neither of you have never had any STD's, it is still possible that one or both of you have some form of HPV. You should get checked for that and pregnancy.
Hope you use a condom the next time.
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Okay so when my boyfriend fingered me he told his bestfriend (which is also my best friend) how tight i was. And i was kind of embarressed. And i Kind of want to strech myself out or pop my own cherry, so he doesn't do it, because i'm afraid it will be weird if he does it. So besides masturbation is there anyother way i can strech myself out? or pop my own cherry?
Also, if your a guy, do you like the feeling of popping a girl's cherry or do you think its sick?
Anything is appriciated =]
Personal stories are also helpful, if you dont mind. (link)
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Well, when your boyfriend told his best friend how tight you were, it was actually a compliment. It feels better for the guy when your vagina is 'hugging' his penis.
You never know, your hymen may already be broken. But to check, you could use a carrot. It's kind of pointy and long so it will reach better.
Hope this helps!
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Okay, so, I've never masturbated or done anything sexual in any way. But i want to. The only problem is, is that i dont know how to. I heard from some people that you can masturbate with a pillow, but i dont know how. And i wouldn't even know how to get sex toys, because im only 16. I want to buy porn, but who would sell me any? I just really want to try somthing like this. (link)
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There are tons of ways to masturbate. You just have to find the way you like to pleasure yourself. You can use the pillow two ways actually, depending on what kind of pillow it is. If it is a soft pillow, you can put it on your bed and just kind of 'ride' it. Or if it's a harder or firmer type of pillow, you can put the corner between your legs and close them tight and just rock.
There are several different things you can use to pleasure yourself besides a pillow or your hands. You can google: 'female masturbation methods'.
About the porn, look on the internet if you're curious. It's easy-access.
Hope this helps!
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i used a tampon for the first time today, and i'm not sure everything was quite right. i could feel it, but only when i was thinking about it, so its possible i was just freaking myself out. well, i went to the bathroom, and it came out a little and hurt, so i took it out. was it just not in far enough, or what? (link)
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It is possible that it just wasn't in far enough but the most likely reason that it hurt when you took it out was that it wasn't saturated with enough blood.
Don't worry about putting one in because you'll just psyche yourself out, which is why you could only feel it when you thought about it.
You don't always insert it perfectly the first time, so just try again. Look on the box and it will tell you exactly how to insert it if you happen to have a question about that.
Hope this helps!
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When are you supposed to give a guy head? Like during makeing-out, just go down or what?
And when he has a boner,is that when u do it or before he has one you do it? (link)
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Well, you can give him a blowjob whenever he asks you to, or if you want to surprise him with one.
You can head downtown when he has an erection, or you can help him get one. Just lightly tease him, run your fingers through his pubic hair, and around his base and fondle his testicles. That should help him get an erection.
Hope this helps!
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so, what does a yeast infection actually look like, and how does it feel? Im 16/f, and i've noticed i have tiny pores inside the lips of my vagina filled with these little white things. They hurt to pop, but they're too many. I was just worried this might be way out of the ordinary. Ps. For girls who answer this question PLEASE do me a huge favor of checking out yours, before you actually tell me i have a disease or something. I dont have sex, and i've started masturbating about 2 months ago. Please help. Thanx (link)
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A yeast infection kind of looks like cottage cheese in your underwear and it kind of itches a little.
I'm not sure exactly what the little white things are inside of you because I don't have any inside of my vagina.
But I don't think it is a yeast infection.
Hope this helps!
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OK well I like looking at gay porn, and want to have sex with another guy. But I like girls to? Is it my hormones? im 13 (link)
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At your age, you're still in the midst of deciding whether you like girls or you like boys.
You may be bisexual and have already decided that, but you could just be curious since you haven't actually done anything sexual with either sex yet.
After you have satisfied your curiousity, you may find that you are only aroused by one sex. Until then, don't worry, it's perfectly natural to want to experiment.
Hope this helps!
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My hair has a lot of volume after I take a shower, but I do that before bed. When I wake up, it is still volumized, but I have to straighten it, because it is so...flippy. When I straighten, it doesnt keep its volume. Is there any way for me to have volume and straighten, but not taking a shower in the morning? (link)
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Try this.
After you straighten your hair, rub some mousse into the roots. Then flip your head upside down and blow the roots dry. It should keep them volumized.
Hope it works.
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Hey! Help Needed!
15/f is there anything I can use to masturbate besides fingers?
thanx!
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Well, there is a number of things you could use to masturbate yourself with.
1. A cucumber or a banana; make sure to cover it with a condom so it doesn't scratch you inside.
2. An electric razor or toothbrush.
3. A hairbrush handle.
4. Stick a bunch of hair scrunchies inside of a condom and use that. Just make sure you haven't used them first, or you could get a hair inside of you.
5. Buy a massaging water sprayer to attach to your shower if you don't already have one. You can adjust the flow.
6. Use a towel and put a little lube on it. Put it between your legs and massage yourself by pulling it back and forth.
7. Put some lube on your palm and kind of pat your labia and clit and you'll be coming in no time.
If you need any more, pop me a question in my inbox, I've tried a ton more.
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anyone know any good songs to play when having sex/masturbating??? (link)
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The songs don't necessarily have to be about sex, or sexual things.
Just the voice of a singer you really like can get you in the mood.
But if you are looking specifically for sensual songs, then here are some good ones.
'Miracles' by Jefferson Starship
'Kashmir' by Led Zeppelin
'Bolero' by Ravel
'Unchained Melody' by The Righteous Brothers
'Wicked Game' by Chris Isaak
'Nights in White Satin' by Moody Blues
'Feels so Right' by Alabama
'Kiss you all over' by Exile
'Tonight's the Night' by Rod Stewart
Hope you like 'em.
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Say you are having anal sex, and the penis doesn't go in all the way, and it falls down and then the condom breaks but there was no seman in it and you were on your period, and your still flowing after. can you still get pragnet(sorry can't spell)?
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Absolutely DO NOT listen to ANG.
Yes, you can get pregnant from anal sex. When the guy ejaculates, his semen can leak out and get inside of your vagina.
I know you said he didn't come, but his preseminal fluid could have leaked out when the condom broke. Preseminal fluid also has semen so it is possible that it can get you pregnant.
If you were on your period, it could still happen. Your egg can be released on any day of your period, so his sperm could have fertilized your egg if it hadn't been released yet.
You might want to look into buying a pregnancy test in about a week and a half to two weeks just to be sure.
Hope this helps!
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heyy i think im about ready for a more intimate relationship with my bf but
1. I have never been fingered before and I am worried about what the male thinks of pubic hair and what i should do about it and also what response they like and generally how it works
2. I have never given a hand job/ blow job and would like tips and advice plzz o"o
3. I have heard that it hurts first time...
thankyoo any advice woudl be appreciated :]
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1. Most guys like you to be trimmed at least so it is easier for them to find everything underneath your skirt. They don't want to be looking for your clit and not be able to find it because their fingers are lost in your mass of curls.
They like you to let them know what you like and what you don't like. Just make sure you don't fake it because if he finds out he's not going to be happy.
2. Use a firm hand when you're giving him a handjob. He is NOT going to break and he doesn't want you to be gentle. Also use some kind of lube because the wetter the better. Vaseline is thick and holds the heat in, and one guy said it felt better than lotion.
For a blowjob, use your hands, too. You can use them to knead his testicles. When he's nearing his orgasm, pull them a little bit and it'll make his orgasm stronger. Most guys think it's awesome if you swallow their semen, and feel rejected if you don't. So, if you don't like the taste, keep a Coke or something nearby so you can help wash the taste out of your mouth.
Don't treat him like a lollipop the entire time. Lick around the head and flick the underside with your tongue for a few seconds then just take as much into your mouth as possible and just kind of bob your head up and down.
3. If you're comfortable and aroused with your partner, then the less it will hurt. Try going to this site, it will tell you almost everything you need to know about your first time.
http://scarleteen.com/sexuality/readiness.html
Hope this helps!
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i was having sex with this guy. he left the condom here & when he left i went to throw it out and there was a hole not at the tip but alittle more on the side. i dont know if he came. there wasnt any in the condom. & i would be able to tell if he did inside me right ? well after the first time we waited like an hour and went again but i started bleeding i dont know if it was my period but it wasnt my cherry cause thats been poped. it wasnt just alittle scratch it was coming from my vagina. its most likly my period. but im worried about pregnancy. im only 15. should i buy a test even if this is my period ? (link)
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Well, it is possible that you could be pregnant even if you are having your period. The egg may not have been released yet, before it was fertilized by his sperm.
If he didn't ejaculate inside of you, it is still likely that his preseminal fluids got inside the condom. It could have leaked out when he pulled out of you.
It is even likelier that you are pregnant if you used the same condom both times. You should make sure to use a different condom every time you have sex even if he doesn't come inside it the first time.
You should buy a pregnancy test within the next two weeks to be sure.
Hope it's negative, but don't stress too much, you don't know for sure the outcome yet.
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wut exactly is fingering? (link)
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Fingering is when you or your partner place their fingers inside of your vagina to induce pleasure reaching for orgasm.
When it is you that is doing this to yourself, that is called masturbation.
When it is your partner that is doing it to you, that is a form of manual sex.
Hope this helps!
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