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pregnant ?


Question Posted Tuesday May 29 2007, 11:22 am

i was having sex with this guy. he left the condom here & when he left i went to throw it out and there was a hole not at the tip but alittle more on the side. i dont know if he came. there wasnt any in the condom. & i would be able to tell if he did inside me right ? well after the first time we waited like an hour and went again but i started bleeding i dont know if it was my period but it wasnt my cherry cause thats been poped. it wasnt just alittle scratch it was coming from my vagina. its most likly my period. but im worried about pregnancy. im only 15. should i buy a test even if this is my period ?

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Ashumms answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 9:20 pm:
Well, it is possible that you could be pregnant even if you are having your period. The egg may not have been released yet, before it was fertilized by his sperm.

If he didn't ejaculate inside of you, it is still likely that his preseminal fluids got inside the condom. It could have leaked out when he pulled out of you.

It is even likelier that you are pregnant if you used the same condom both times. You should make sure to use a different condom every time you have sex even if he doesn't come inside it the first time.

You should buy a pregnancy test within the next two weeks to be sure.

Hope it's negative, but don't stress too much, you don't know for sure the outcome yet.

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orphans answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 3:04 pm:
if its your period you wont be pregnant
chances are that you arent pregnant because you said you dont think he even came, which is like already a 1% chance of being pregnant and then the fact that you had a condom, wether its broken or not makes the chance go down to like .00000001% chance.
if its your period, you are automatically not pregnant. but you could buy a test anyways

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Bucket answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 1:18 pm:
If you had sex, then YES, there's a chance you could be pregnant. Even if he didn't come inside you, and even if there wasn't a hole, you still could be. Good job on that. =]

Some women bleed for a little while, 3-4 days after egg fertilization... but this was too early for that (unless you had sex with him or someone else a few days ago). Anyway, I doubt that. Still, even if it was your period, you should get a pregnancy test.

And if you're not old and mature enough to handle the consequences of teen sex, then you shouldn't be having it.

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sugarplum07 answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 1:11 pm:
It's hard to tell whether he came inside you or didn't. Even though your hymen as been torn, there is still the possibility of bleeding after sex because you are still young and your body isn't fully developed.

First things first, call the guy you had sex with and ask him if he came inside you or not. Explain that there was a hole in the condom and you need to know. He may or may not lie to you, but it won't hurt to ask.

While you were having sex, did it hurt at all? If you experienced any discomfort whatsoever, then the bleeding could be from a small tear in your vagina wall. Are you about due for you period anyway? Are your periods usually at the same time each month? If the bleeding doesn't stop within a day or so, see a doctor to confirm if it's a cut or your period. It really depends. You know your body better than anyone else.

In the end, you should get a pregnancy test within the next couple weeks, jsut to be sure. I would recommend going on birth control so you won't have to worry about this in the future.

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deja_you answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 11:45 am:
I would if I was you just to be safe !

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