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oK..I'm 13 5'4 and about 98 pounds..I used to be skinny and stuff but now I'm starting to get a big belly. I run and do situps and drink water and try to eat healthy and everything, but I starting to get larger than I should be. Any ideas on how to keep a flat stomache and stop gaining to much more because I used to see myself good now Im huge. sorry if thats kinda long.
~please help

No offense but if you lose anymore weight you may be considered aneriox. My friend's cousin is aneriox because she sees herself as fat. The truth is she is 26 5' 6" and 94 pounds. Believe me her diet is ice cream one time a day. You are perfect for your size and age.

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what is the site that you make the animated icons becouse i guess i have to ask you on her =)(=

kAtIe~

1st of if u dont save the site this time it sucks for u. next stop pissin me off. neway its http://forums.buddy4u.com/viewtopic.php?t=13299. ok. ps: get some friggin patience.

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Have any of you guys tryed to spray on tan where you stand in the thing and it gives you a tan? If so does it work good and better then a tanning bed?

I never tried it but my friends did and they say it works. Tanning beds cause skin cancer so if I were you I would use the spray. I hope I helped.

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What is "emo"? I've heard so many people talk about it. Thanks!

A word for emotional. Some people use it for gay too.

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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?

Try to stick up for him. Tell the people that make fun of him tell them that making fun of him is the same thing as in the 50s when white people discriminated aganist black people. Just blow them off. Besides, if there are a lot of people who think your brother is cool then focus on what those people have to say not what the others do. I hope I helped!

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Well, there is this guy i like and his bday is in a few days and i dont know what to say/do for him. Any ideas? (and im pretty good friends with him)

I rate high!!!

You should buy him a present. If you ask him out with your present you could make it the best bday of his life. I hope I helped! Tell me how it goes!

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How can you fade jeans? I need some way`s to do it, but not bleach, I`ve tried and it doesn`t work.
I`ve heard that cascade dishwasher suff work`s, anyone who`s heard about it know how to do it? Any help is appreciated !!

this may sound stupid but if u wash them with rocks of rub them with rocks they fade. i hope i helped! tell me if it works!

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Darrel, this guy I like, likes me back. Except...he's black, and I'm white. And my mom has already told me that she wouldn't support me if I were to date a black guy. Not because she's racist, but because of the "problems" it causes, and everyone will look at you differently. But she isn't going to forbid me from doing it, because she knows that I have to do what's right for me, not for her. And anyway, I think that the things that go along with dating a black person kind of are problems - other black guys will look at you and think, oh, she's into black guys, and other white people will look at you differently, and if they don't know Darrel they won't know what a sweet, funny, smart guy he is, and how he wouldn't ever get mixed up in the wrong crowd. But I think I might really like him. And it's wrong not to date someone just because they're black - that's racism! I guess what I'm trying to say is, I need some comfort and someone telling me what the right thing to do is, lol! Sorry about the long story, but I rate! (Oh, and I'm 14/f, by the way.)

if u really like him it doesnt matter what other people think. it doesnt matter if they are white black orange purple green or polka dot all that matters is that they r a good person inside. i hope i helped!

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guess wat song thz is

Days swiftly come and go.
I'm dreaming of her
She's seeing other guys
Emotions they stir
The sun is gone.
The nights are long
And I am left while the tears fall.

Did you think that I would cry,
on the phone?
Do you know what it feels like,
being alone?
I'll find someone new

[Chorus]
Swing, Swing, Swing from the tangles of
My heart is crushed by a former love
Can you help me find a way
To carry on again.

Wish cast into the sky
I'm moving on
Sweet beginnings do arise
She knows I was wrong
The notes are old,
They bend, they fold
and so do I to a new love.

Did you think that I would cry,
on the phone?
Do you know what it feels like,
being alone?
I'll find someone new

Swing, Swing, Swing from the tangles of
My heart is crushed by a former love
Can you help me find a way
To carry on again

Bury me
(you thought your problems were gone)
Carry me
(away. away, away...)

[Chorus fades till end]
Swing, Swing, Swing from the tangles of
My heart is crushed by a former love
Can you help me find a way
To carry on again


u probaly kno wat it iz
#@!~ Katie ~!@#

swing swing by all amerian rejects now get over it.

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who do u like



~!@#$ Katie $#@!~

i dont like anyone i told u that 20 billion times. o and stop asking me gay retarted questions. if u dont have a real q dont ask me nething!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi erinn 1 of mi friends egnors me at skewl and when its just me n her we r the best of freinds . like on the buz if i say sumthing she says watever and its real annoying
~-*#% is she still my friend %#*-~

ur friend

( well thats not important right now )

oks tell her that u feel like she ignores u. ask her if u guys can hang out more. if u still feel this way talk to her again. if she still acts this way after u have talked to her many times then mayb shes not worth havin as a friend. hope i helped. also who is this cuz u said my name?

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ok erinn there is this girl who used to go out with this guy and they loved eachother alot but then they broke up. My friend stil lreally likes him and she told him while he was going out with another girl and she specifcally told him not to tell anyone and he did. what should she do because she reallly really likes him and i want to help her!

once again y is this q in my inbox...i already answered it....

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ok erinn there is this girl who used to go out with this guy and they loved eachother alot but then they broke up. My friend stil lreally likes him and she told him while he was going out with another girl and she specifcally told him not to tell anyone and he did. what should she do because she reallly really likes him and i want to help her!

tell ur friend to talk 2 her old bf. she should tell them that she trusted him + he betrayed her. if she wants 4 dramatic effect she can slap him. she should work this out calmly other than that. i really dont know what to do about still likin him. if it where me i would stop likin the ungreatfull a$$wipe. she really can do better than a jerk like him. i hope i helped ur friend kik! tell her good luck!! lylas!!!

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What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!

its time for u to decide whats more important to u: ur best friend or ur bf. if theres no reason ur bf cursed ur best friend of then dump him. if there is a reason talk to both of them about it. hope i helped!

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14/f
okay, this weekend i was at an academic kinda thingy...there was a dance and i met a guy there, he was really sweet and we had an awesome time....when it was over he walked me to my hotel room and gave me a kiss :o)
the next day, i saw him again. long story short we made out...well, know i'm back home and i could shoot myself b/c i didn't get his AIM email or anything! what should i do to feel better?

maybe look for another academic thing like that. u may c him there. if that doesnt work out then try and find someone new that lives in your town or whatever. hope i helped!

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Hi. I like this boy and i have liked him for soo long but hr are jstu frends. i have liked him since 4th grade and he liked me once but i just found out that he likes my two best frends. i want to tell him but i dont want anything to change. what should i do?

Signed,
Caught between Him and Them*

if i were u i would spend some time with him. try and let him know u WANT to be with him (as in either friends or more). if u feel close enough to him then u should ask him out. I hope i helped u!!

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Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!

find some people that have the same interests as u. mayb jion some clubs in your skool and meet new people. i hope i helped!

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ok i like hate my name so much .. it's Liana.. and well people sometimes "cant pronounce it" so they just say "Hey you!" or they just pronounce it wrong. Or sometimes their like "um..you.. i forgot your name" .. and well like is there anything i can do to get people to pronounce my name right or call me something diffferent that is easy to pronounce .. (maybe like a nick name)

p.s. sometimes my friends call me Lee for short but not very often

if u want a nick namr i think a good one would be li. its short sweet and makes sense y u have it (ie. its not winky or a stupid nickname like that). hope i helped!

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my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!

black and pink always make people look thinner. it really works! i hope i helped!

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i

that all depends on your name (first and last)

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