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Friendship Troubles
What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!
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i would tell him to just try to get to know my best friend bc they will prolly be seeing alot of eachother n i dont want anything to change between us. just ask him if he'll be a little bit more considerate when he sees her next time =)hope i helped!
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If I had a boyfriend and they cursed my best friend out for no apparent reason, I would bitch at my boyfriend! I would tell him that it's not right that he's bitching at my best friend and that it makes me feel bad. If your boyfriend can't get along with your best friend, then how are all of you guys going to get along if you are all together? You should stick up for your friend and tell your boyfriend that he shouldn't be cursing her out for no apparent reason, because It's not right at all. If you don't say anything to your boyfriend about this, then your friendship with your best friend could possibly end, and that wouldn't by very good. I'm sure you don't want to lose your best friend. I know I would never want to lose my best friend. I wouldn't be able to live if I lost my best friend. Your best friend should always come before your boyfriend. I would say talk to your boyfriend and tell him that it bothers you when he curses your best friend out for no apparent reason. If he doesn't listen, and still continues to curse at her for no apparent reason at all then I would say he's not a very good boyfriend at all. If he doesn't stop cursing at your best friend, then I think you should end your relationship with your boyfriend. I know it would be hard, but you gotta do what you gotta do. I'm sure It'll be very hard to tell your boyfriend about this, but I think he'll understand. I think that he should stop cursing at your best friend for no apparent reason. Don't worry, he'll listen to you. If not, then break up with him. Alright, well I hope I helped ya out hun! If you have anymore questions, then just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer them. Bye hun! Good luck! Everything should work out.
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I've actually had this problem...
I reccomend either:
1) Try to act as a moderator. Maybe you can't make them like each other, but you can at least keep it civil.
2) Try to keep them separate. I know it's very hard to hang out with two people at two different times, but it's better than being in the company of two people who keep jumping at each other's throats (it's actually not healthy to be in that situation x-x)
Also, if one or the other brings up an issue (ie, your boyfriend starts ranting about how much he can't stand your friend), quickly (but nicely!) change the subject. This is one of those cases where that silly little rule, "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all", actually makes sense to use.
Hope it was helpful ^__^
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You need to ask ur best friend what happened between them and if she doesnt tell you or even if she does u still need to ask ur ex. Then if he gives u a really stupid reason then u need to dump him. Because that spells trouble when ur best friend and ur boyfriend dont like eachother. Its either they have been doing stuff behind ur back or he just thinks u are stuck on him and will chose him over ur friends. So either way he is really no good!Hope I helped!XOXOXO
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if she is ur best friend... you tell him LOOK BUDDY THIS IS MY BEST FRIEND AND U TREAT HER RIGHT OR IM BREAKIN UP WIT U...basically tell him ur not chosing him over her...if u are.. she aint ur bf..and she needs better friends! no offense
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chicks before dicks, sweetie.
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Ok, if i was you it would depend on if my best friend had always been there for me. If she has then i would talk to my boyfriend about how i feel, just tell him, you dont have to be mean to him just stick up for her. Because i doubt that you and your boyfriend will be together forever. and your bestfriend will always be there. she is the one that you complain to when you break up with this boyfriend, or he breaks up with you. what would you do with out her. hope i helped.
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okay well..first off, sit your boyfriend down and talk to him about this. Let him know that you didn't appreciate what he did to your friend. You need to let him know that your friend is important to you and that if he really likes you then her should respect that. If that doesn't work than you'll have to make the choice between your friend and your boyfriend. Sounds hard..I know, but if you value your friendship as much as you think you do, then you'll make the right choice..hope i helped!
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There has to be some reason for him not to like her, you can't just hate someone for no reason. If he does that is pretty stupid and selfish. If he has any respect or cares about being with you at all he will have to learn to tolerate your friend. If he's going to be a jerk about it, I would say dump him. You don't need a guy like that. Chicks before dicks.
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friends are more important than boy/girlfriends, so if he keeps being an ass dump him
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its time for u to decide whats more important to u: ur best friend or ur bf. if theres no reason ur bf cursed ur best friend of then dump him. if there is a reason talk to both of them about it. hope i helped!
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Ok you may like this guy, but if he does not respect your choice in friends then i would dump him he is not worth it. or talk to him and make him listen, if that does not work dump him. good luck. hope i help!
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Ok, you know how guys say bros before hoes... that is the same for girls. chicks before dicks... You should stick with your friend, they will be there longer than the guy. You should not let a guy get inbetween you and your best friend. Nothing should get in the way of a friendship!
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