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okay so your BEST FRIEND tells you that she does not want to be your friend anymore. how would you react? please help me. quickly if possible. thanks... (link)
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First, I would talk to your friend and ask her the reasons why she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore.
Second, evaluate the reasons and see if you've done something wrong. If you have, apologize and tell her it won't happen again. If not, then I would let her know that she doesn't have a valid reason for not wanting to be friends with you. Which isn't a very "friendly" thing to do.
Good luck!
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Has anyone tried inserted a sleeping friend’s hand in a bowl of warm water at a sleepover? Tell me if it works! It’s a good prank for next April fools day.i don’t get why they don’t wake up and doesn’t the water get cold quick? (link)
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It sure does work, I've done it before! The water doesn't get cold that quickly, the trick is to get scolding hot water, then by the time you get it to the person -- it's cooled down enough where it will not burn their hand, yet not cold enough to wake them up. :)
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14/f :)
Im So Bored What Can I Do? (link)
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Here you go: http://www.bored.com
http://www.myjellybean.com/chat/
http://adviceforums.aceboard.com/i-262869.htm
http://seventeen.com
Here are some other things I suggest: Reading, writing, dancing, singing, hanging out with your friends, talking on the phone, typing, watching tv, playing sports, etc. :)
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in our schooll, its like french-kissing, but other places i think it means sex? or does it.....
thanks in advvv. (link)
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The term "Hookup" is used in many different ways, that's why so many teens use it. It can mean making out, sex or other sexual things that have happened. So it varies between those, and many teens say it so that no one knows exactly what they've done with the person -- they only know it's something.
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what is acquired taste??? (link)
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An acquired taste is something that you have to get used to, and the taste grows on you through time.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acquired_taste
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me and my old boyfriend broke up a long time ago. i kinda miss him but im afraid that when we start going out again that he will lie to me all the time ( thats why i broke up with him). what do i do? (link)
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I think you should take some time to think this over, and really think about if you want to take the risk of him lying to you again. If he's done it once, there is that possiblity that he'll do it again. Not saying that he will positively do that, I'm only stating it is possible.
It really comes down to how much confidence that you have in him being trustworthy. If you think he deserves a second chance, then I would give him one. After speaking to him about this, and explaining that he cannot start lying to you again -- or it's over.
If you feel he doesn't deserve another chance, then I would let things remain as they are. Follow you heart, it will lead you to the right place. And as I mentioned, if he does this again I would break up and stay friends only, or not even friends. That is of course, your decision. Good luck!
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where can i get a layout for my advice column page? (link)
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If you want a layout made by Advicenators, you can do it this way: Go into your column settings and click on the backgrounds link, on that page. And follow the instuctions (from the column settings page).
Find the background you want to use
Highlight the text in the box and use the 3. Edit -> Copy or ctrl+C option to copy it
Visit your column settings page. (be sure you're logged in) Paste the background URL in the "bg1" or "bg2" option boxes and hit save.
If you would like other layouts for your column, you can apply myspace backgrounds (not layouts) to your column.
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ok well i am 16 you are the same as age as my sister who does not care about safety i have friends that are sweet but sometimes they dont listen to what i have to say what do i do about that. (link)
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Well, I'm not so sure you can convice your friends. Other than the way I said, about your sister. And hope they listen to you -- I have friends the same way who are both mine and your age and older, and they don't care about internet safety. Some people just don't learn..or don't want.
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you are not like a killer are you or someone who is like 25 or older well safety is my game i care whats to me and my body did you know that this is kind of a chat room i hasve a sister though who is like someone who does not care about her safety so how can i get her to care. and the guy i like the senior well my crush is getting bigger everyday i have a picture of him in my bedroom and i carry it in my pocket everyday to school is that to upsest? (link)
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No, of course not! I'm fourteen, just like my column says.
And no, this isn't like a chat room. Because when you send something to my inbox, it's supposed to be a question -- not a conversation. So please, if you have a question send it to my inbox. If not, post it in my forum.
I wouldn't call it obsessed, but I really have no more advice for you on the senior, because if you don't talk to him, I'm sorry nothing can be worked out.
To get your sister to care about her online safety, talk to her about all the predators out there who could hurt her. Point her to some good online websites for safety, like Dateline NBC: To Catch A Pedator, etc.
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so you know how at the top it says "asdf is in your extended network" on myspace? well does anybody know a website where you can get a pattern to cover that up? (link)
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Yes, you can get an extended network banner to cover that up. :)
http://bannermyspace.com/
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helloo =] i was just wondering
what are some good spray tans/lotions
that give great results that i
can buy at the store? like cvs,
walgreens, kmart, jewel. something
that is easy to apply. thankss [= (link)
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Jergens Natural Glow works great as giving you the tan you want, in just a couple of weeks you'll see a difference.
Also, there is some new stuff out called Sun-Dial. It's great, because all you have to do to get the tan you want is turn the dial, and there you go. Simple and easy!
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i always say i love you first to my bf and when we're like hanging up the phone if i dont say it then neither will he. how can i get him to say it without actually telling him to? or does this mean that he doesnt love me because he doesnt want to say it? (link)
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I wouldn't say it's because he doesn't love you, it's more than likely that he's a little nervous/shy about telling you first. He may be afraid that you will not say it back, or he's so used to you saying it first -- he goes along with it that way. I would ask him about it, and see what he has to say. But I wouldn't take it as a terrible thing, as I mentioned, he may just be a little nervous or shy.
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what are benefits to eating chocolate on occasion? (link)
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Here's some helpful information. :)
http://www.stuffedchocolate.com/health_benefits.htm
http://www.healthcastle.com/chocolate-cocoa-benefits.shtml
http://www.momscape.com/articles/chocolate.htm
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can you list rock bands alot of different ones please (link)
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Sure, here's a list of rock bands:
*3 Doors Down
*Nickelback
*The Killers
*Skid Row
*Bon Jovi
*KISS
*Guns n' Roses
*Evanesence
*Halifax
*Green Day
*Panic At The Disco
*The Rolling Stones
*AC/DC
*Aerosmith
*Black Sabbath
*The Doors
*Jimi Hendrix
*Def Leppard
*Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers
*Blink 182
*My Chemical Romance
*System of a Down
*Weezer
*Third Eye Blind
*All-American Rejects
*The White Stripes
*Pantera
*Dashboard Confessional
*Creed
*The Fray
*Relient K
*Newsboys
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Im 14. Started my period when I was about 12 maybe. I think I had normal periods, but after awhile I started getting them every other month. The last time I had one was awhile ago ( 2 months or so ) and even then..it wasnt really like blood. it looked like dry blood..kinda brownish. Is it normal because Im 14? I do masterbate/orgasm but I dont think that has to do with it. Is there anyway that could have messed it up?
Also, my boobs have been hurting pretty bad lately. They normally hurt if I like push them in, but now it just feels stronger I guess. Could is be from wearing a bra to much? does it have anything to do with absent periods?
Also, Im not sexually active.
I dont really want to go to a doctor just yet because Im not that concerned yet, but if it continues, I will go. So please dont advise me to do so.
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First off, masterbation has nothing to do with this situation. So you don't have to worry about that.
I'm the same age, and I have some of these situations happening to me. It's caused by irregular periods, all of us young girls and women have them. You will have them for quite a while, and even some older women tend to have occasinal irregular periods.
Unless you have the wrong bra size, your bra has nothing to do with your problem. If you're having this problem while on your period, your period could be the cause. If not and the pain is too severe, it may be something serious. But in my opinion, I would say it's just some normal pains. I get them myself.
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First off, it's TiNA_DUH.
My brother joined this site about a month ago, if not a little longer. I tried to find him by browsing through the columnists, & searching them, but I can't.
Is there anyway to find him by email? I wanna see his column & see how he thinks when he gives advice. He's never really given me any, so I'd like to see what his method is. (link)
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I'm afraid if he can't remember, you're out of luck. I would keep asking him, and trying to get him to remember. Good luck, TiNA_DUH! :)
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ok so i've been friends with benefits with my best guy friend for about 7months now. i used to like him but then i just stopped liking him. that was about 5months ago. now about a month ago i realized i still like him. i just got back from a spring break vacation and the whole time i was on vacation i couldn't stop thinking about him...EVER. and i got butterflies. i never got butterflies that much before and i think i really love him. i think he likes me. we tell each other we love each other but it was always in the friendly way. i dont know how to tell him that i really really love him. i have more feelings for him than i did with my ex boyfriend. (link)
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I think you should talk to him alone, and tell him how you feel. That you began being friends with benefits with him, and not really having all of those feelings. But your feelings have now became strong for him, and you'd like to become more than just "friends with benefits."
If he's a good guy, I'm sure he'll understand.And everything will work out just fine. I wish you nothing but the best of luck! :)
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I know it sounds really lame, but I realy do! I don't know if he likes me back, my friends say he does, and he's really protective of me, but I'm too scared to ruin our relationship to do anything! Somebody please help me! (link)
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I had to answer your question, because I too, am in love with my best friend. So I definitely feel the need to answer your question. :)
I can understand not wanting to ruin your friendship, because that is a risk you take when dating your best friend. However, think of what it could do if the both of you do like each other, and then didn't date for that sole reason. Wouldn't that ruin your friendship? Of course, it would.
That's what you have think about in these cases. Your friendship could be ruined by not only just not dating because you're both afraid of ruining your friendship, but something else could go wrong also. I think it's worth taking that chance, and dating. You never know, you two could be meant to be and not even realize it, if you didn't date.
I recommend talking to your best friend alone, and letting him know how you really feel. Chances are, he just might feel the same and the two of you could date afterwards. This is definitely a good risk to take, and I do suggest taking it. I wish you the best of luck!
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what does"grass is greener on the other side" means? (link)
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It's basically looking at an event from someone else's point of view. Just as Clara has stated.
For example: You wish you were popular, because of various reasons. The popular person wishes they weren't popular now because truly, "the grass is greener on the other side." Meaning the non-popuar side is best.
This is looking at the other person's point of view and seeing "the other side."
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can one person be the cause of a dysfunctional family? (link)
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I think the answer is both yes and no. See, one person can begin a dysfunctional family with their personal actions -- then, causing others in the family to create their own actions. So then, it tends to become the whole family creating their own individual actions because of someone's elses actions in the family.
You can read more about it here...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysfunctional_family
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