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I totally love my best friend
I know it sounds really lame, but I realy do! I don't know if he likes me back, my friends say he does, and he's really protective of me, but I'm too scared to ruin our relationship to do anything! Somebody please help me!
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I had to answer your question, because I too, am in love with my best friend. So I definitely feel the need to answer your question. :)
I can understand not wanting to ruin your friendship, because that is a risk you take when dating your best friend. However, think of what it could do if the both of you do like each other, and then didn't date for that sole reason. Wouldn't that ruin your friendship? Of course, it would.
That's what you have think about in these cases. Your friendship could be ruined by not only just not dating because you're both afraid of ruining your friendship, but something else could go wrong also. I think it's worth taking that chance, and dating. You never know, you two could be meant to be and not even realize it, if you didn't date.
I recommend talking to your best friend alone, and letting him know how you really feel. Chances are, he just might feel the same and the two of you could date afterwards. This is definitely a good risk to take, and I do suggest taking it. I wish you the best of luck!
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try playing this game called open book and ask him if he likes anyone.If he likes you the tell him how you feel,if he doesnt say that he likes you then dont mock your dignity by telling him that you like him cuz itll ruin your freindship and make your dignity go down the drain
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I've been in love with my best friend for three and a half years. I didn't want to tell him because I didn't know if he felt the same way and I didn't want to ruin our friendship. Then about three months ago I just kissed him. Turns out, he likes me too. He has since the day we met but was too afraid to do anything.
My point is, you have to take the chance. You could go years wishing you told him how you felt. If he doesn't like you, but he's really that great of a friend, he'll probably just pretend like you never said anything. So go for it. =] Things might work out between you. It did for me, and I've never been happier.
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Listen, if your to scared to talk to him about how you feel then write him a note that says something like, "Do you like me? yes or no (cirlcle one)." Then wait for one of your friends to give it back to you. Also, ask yourself, does he get mad when a guy starts flirts with me?, if so then thats a sign that he likes you. I hope you take my advice, keep me informed what happen, plz ^_^.
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The same thing happened to me a few years ago. If I were you I'd wait things out and see if he likes you. Drop a few subtle hints here and there and wait it out. If you decided to tell him how you feel, if he is a real friend he won't let it come between you (if he doesn't like you back). All I'm trying to say from past experiences, don't rush.
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