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what would you do?
okay so your BEST FRIEND tells you that she does not want to be your friend anymore. how would you react? please help me. quickly if possible. thanks...
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try talking to your bestfriend and see if you did something wrong and if you did then say sorry but if you didnt do anything wrong then your bestfriend isnt worth the trouble of getting upset.if she was your truly best friend then she wouldnt just not want to be friends with you anymore.just try to talk to her and see if ye can work things out.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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This happened to my not to long ago.. i will tell you what i did and for me it worked out because now we are better friends than ever
1) i asked her why and she told me some stuff that was totally out of my control and she also told me stufff i could change
and i vouched to change the things she thoguht werent good.. but i didnt change who i was these things were things like (being two faced..or jealous)
2) SHe kept telling me that things couldnt work out but i kept telling her how much she would miss our friendship and how i would seriously do all i can to be friends
3) i kinda made her feel bad by telling some of my friends that were firends with her how bad i felt and how upset i was.. they told her eventually
My friend eventually came to her senses and told me what she did was stupid
I hope this helps and i hope you and your friend can reconcile
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First, I would talk to your friend and ask her the reasons why she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore.
Second, evaluate the reasons and see if you've done something wrong. If you have, apologize and tell her it won't happen again. If not, then I would let her know that she doesn't have a valid reason for not wanting to be friends with you. Which isn't a very "friendly" thing to do.
Good luck!
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hey
well first off i'd want to know why. if i messed up, that's my fault. but if i didn't, i'd be really pissed off.
then i'd try talking to her about it. like, can't we meet a simple solution after all that we've gone through?
if she didn't hint at it beforehand, i'd be like, that was random & be even more mad.
if it was something that has been bothering her for a long time, i'd understand.
my best friend doesn't live in my town, & we only talk through email / IM (we hang out sometimes) so there's no possible way for her to get mad at me. i'm assuming that your friend goes to your school. i'd let her cool off first of all. then i'd try talking to her about it. maybe you can reach a solution, or maybe she's not worth your time.
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Well, I'd definitely be questioning that. Why would she say that? Did I say something wrong, or did I talk about her behind her back to make her feel like she can't trust me? Maybe she heard something that wasn't true concerning her & me. She may just have said that to you, but it may not be the truth. She might just be having a hard time right now, and the way she handles that is by taking it out on you. You should talk to her, for sure.
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