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I'm 14 years old, I'm a male, I'm in the 8th grade and my girlfriends in 9th. Recently I have been hearing some sketchy stuff about her, that shes flirty at school and all over some guys. I asked her about this and she told me that its not true, then I had heard about some things she'd done in her past, and asked her about that and she told me that she hadn't done any of the things I asked her about, and that they were just rumors, then I found out in detail of what she had done, the guys name, where, when, what. And confronted her about it, then she told the truth and said she had done those things with that guy but was scared/embarassed to tell me. And i told her that i was having trouble believing that she wasn't flirty at school, and she got upset and couldn't understand why i didn't believe her, I told her i didn't know what to believe because on one hand i want to believe her, on the other hand she lied to me blatently so I'm having trouble deciding wether or not to believe her??? Break-up, take some time off????? Now I try to call her cell phone and she doesn't pick up, we haven't talked in a week, but we are both very busy, her with cheer, me with wrestling.I like her, but I'm beginning to think if we're both busy, and I'm making an effort to call her and she never calls back, apparently i care more than her about our relationship... What should I do?!?!?! (link)
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i can see why shes upset... its probably hard for her to tell you the truth since she really likes you... you should trust her because even though she didn't tell the truth the first time... she told the truth the second time you asked... if there is any proof that she is flirty in school... then you should take some time off... just keep trying her cell... maybe she is busier then you.... leave a message saying that you really care about her and want to make things work... and that you just want to talk because you care about your relationship... then tell her to please call back... your an awesome boyfriend because you care so much!
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hey. i went out with this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me, and for some reason i never asked him why. this happened a couple months ago, and we never really talked much after that, we barely said hi in the halls. yesterday, i realized that i still like him, more than i want to, in a way. i was online yesterday, and a friend who knows that i like him talked me into iming him, and i did. it wasnt really awkward, it felt good that we were talking. i'm not sure if i would go out with him again, but i dont think he would go out with me if i wanted to. we're both single, and i dont know what to do. he asked me if i had a bf, and my friend said that it was a signal, but then he said he liked being single. i dont really know what to think and what i want. but i do know that i wish i were friends, good friends, with him again, liek before we went out. please help me. (link)
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if you want to be friends than just start talking to him online or saying a simple hello to him in the halls at school... he might have said he liked being single to get you upset since you guys have had a rough past... start out with just being friends again and than see what happens
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alright this is totaly getting to me and idk what to do ....... last night i called my guy and he was like well i cant talk now can i call you back ... and then last night he called and we were talking and he never really said anyhing .... well then this moreing i called my friend and she was like yeah last night i talked to you boyfreind and his freind and i was like wait what time and then she said and it happend to be after i called him and b/4 he called me and he knows how much ( oh yeah they talked on the phone) much i dont like him tlaking to her and then this moring after i found out that they were talking he wa slike oh he was like i didnt know you wanted to know and i dont think he was ever gunna tell me and now he is trying to figure out wiht is rong with me and he isjust SO STUPID... idont what to do im so tired of crying please help and dont say break up wiht him ... PLEASE (link)
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from what your saying... there are two things i am suspecting:
1) he likes your friend
2) he wants to be friends with your friend... but he knows you don't want him to so he wasn't going to tell you that he talked to her
OK... if you don't want to break up with him... you should talk to him... i don't know about you... but i think your friend might want to make you jealous that she was talking to him.. just don't let her get to you... but talk to your boyfriend... if you really like him you'll trust him... don't stop him from being friends with her because than he might not like you anymore no offense... hope everything works out for you
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My best guy friend (tom) has a girlfriend. His best guy (jake)friend likes me. I like my best guy friend (tom). Should I wait for tom to break up with his girlfriend or should I go ut with jake?
-Confused (link)
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well if you don't like jake than you shouuldn't go out with him... just tell tom you have feelings for him... but try not to interfeer with his relationship with his girlfriend... i would say wait... but some day there will be a single guy who you'll like and you'll forget all about tom.
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here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why. (link)
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well ive heard that god put us here to prepare for life in heaven
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well my freind's exboyfriend jus recentaly started talking to her again out of the blue. and i know that guy better than my friend dose and i know the only reason he started talking to her again is for sex but she dosent know that and ive tried telling her that but she keeps telling me im wronge...when i no im right...ive know him for a while and i know he is only after sex plus he is 17 and my friend is 13 what should i do???? (link)
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theres not much you can do... just keep trying to tell your friend that he is only in it for sex.... if she doesn't believe you then there isn't anything else you can do.. if you keep nagging her about it, that would ruin your friendship... maybe you should talk to her ex about it to
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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high
-confused (link)
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i have experienced the same exact thing!! my boyfriend liked me sooo much!!! but i only liked him when i saw him... you should wait a little because you don't want him to suffer another break up
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There's this boy I like and we've been through a lot together and he's acted SO much like he likes me but now he's telling me that he only likes me as a friend. He even said he thinks of me as a sister and his best friend. But he acts so much like he likes me but then, people constantly tell him that he needs/should go out with me/ask me out/etc. He cares about what people think and he's tired of everyone pressuring him to go out with me and it contradicts how he acts around me. We talk a lot and he initiates it a lot and we flirt at times(not nearly as much as before, we used to flirt 24/7) but sometimes he's also kind of mean to me. And when I confront him about being mean to me, he's always really sorry and feels bad about it genuinely. But I'm tired of all these mixed messages and signals and the changes in behavior. I just don't know what to do. If anyone could give me some advice about my situation, I'd be really thankful and also, if anyone could tell me any and all signs that a guy likes you, I'd be doubly thankful. Thanks so much. (link)
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it sounds like he is shy... i can't tell if he likes you or not... i think that when your friends told him to ask you out it made him annoyed and thats what made him stop liking you.. you should tell your friends to stop... you should just sit him down and confess everything you've ever felt for him... maybe if he see's how outgoing you are he will start to open up to you more... if a guy likes you he will usually flirt.. or he will be shy around you and try not to act stupid... sorry i can't really help you with that part
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well not in love...at all just I really like him ALOT. Im not sure if I should tell him or not....or how. But he has a girlfriend (its nothing serious theyve only hugged). But hes always flirting with me and staring at me two days age he was like lying on me. Hes o cute and nice i just dont know what to do
Please Help!!Sandy/13/f (link)
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sorry... i thought you meant that your friend is his girlfriend... since it isn't your friend you can tell him... just tell him you have feelings for him... but don't make a big deal out of it since he has a girlfriend.. also mayeb you should let his girlfriend know that he is flirting with you
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Whenever I am done with school, I go to track. After track practice, I go home and get home by around 5:00. I eat dinner, then watch some shows and go on the computer (like now, but it's only to get advice!). I end up starting my homework at 9:00 PM, setting my alarm for 5:00 to finish it, sleep through my alarm, and wake up at 6:00 with no time to do my homework. I always finish it on the bus and get off the hook, but I really want to stop and do my homework right away! How can I do my homework with plenty time to spare? (link)
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ok... well first.. you could eat dinner while doing home work... second... try cutting back on the tv and computer... third... durring lunch or a free period durring the day... do your homework this way you won't have as much to do at home... fourth.. make a planner... for example it could say...
1) 5 - get home
2) 5: 05 - 5: 20 - snack/dinner
3) 5:20 - 6 - tv or computer
4) 6 - 8 homework or studying
5) 8 - 9- whatever you want to do or finish up homework
something like that... hope i helped
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Okay. Heres the thing. I know you probably get this question alot, but I never get an answer so here it goes. I am so in love with this kid, and we went out for a little. We've been broken up for a really long time, but I still love him so much. The problem is, he loves my best friend! And she doesnt care about him at all! How can I show him that She is no good for him? Wether I am or not, How can I make him see that she will only break his heart?
* R. (link)
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ok... this probably won't be a great answer.. and you've probably been told this a million times... but... first tell him that you really care about him... also show him that your really interested in him like for example if you go out of town... buy a postcard and mail it to him or something like that.... you can't make him like you... but you can atleast let him no this way it will keep his options open if you no what i mean. maybe you can go to the movies with him and your friend and maybe he'll see that your friend only sees him as a friend... or get your friend to tell him that she's really not interested in him and that she just wants to be good friends... if this doesn't work than the only way to show him is to talk to him... good luck... sorry i can't help that much... let me no how it goes.
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wut does lylas mean and how do u make those hearts? (link)
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i think it means love you like a sis
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I can do sprints, I'm fast at that, but I dread the mile because it's hard for me. does anyone know how to get in shape for long distance running? (link)
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ok... well you can try building your stanima... by running 1.5 miles each day this way you will definetly be able to run the mile... also you can do intergers which is when you run one lap around the track 4 times or as many as you would like... doing this will build your stanima for the mile and let you practice sprinting at the same time... hope i helped... im a runner so if you have any more questions just drop them in my inbox =]
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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ?? (link)
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accept him for who he is and always be there for him... listen to his feelings and respect them no matter what... being gay is not a bad thing... just always bee there for him and help him through everything
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Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).
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I would say not to go with either of them... your just going to hurt justin in the long run if you keep "pretending" you like him.... you can still like this other guy but don't tell him until you get the feeling that he likes you back... flirt with him and whatever... just don't flat out tell him.
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So on AIM you can send IM crushes through this IM robot named Cupid. And I did that, and I sent it to this guy I like and well...now hes going to know! So when he asks me about it..what do I say? I kinda regret it...and I'm scared hes just going to laugh and totally be like "ew". He said I was pretty but hes so hott and theres too many girls that like him. So, is my friendship ruined with him or what...ahh im scared! I wish we could un-do the IM crushes (link)
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no... its cute.. your friendship should be fine... if not then he isn't worth it... when he asks you just tell him how you feel... he'll need to no sooner or later... don't regret it... now atleast he knows you like him and maybe he feels the same =}
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all my friends have boyfriends and it sucks for me because while they are all making out i sit there being bored with nothing to do cuz when my girlfriends are with their bf's they dont talk to me. i doubt some of them even like their bfs.. they just dont wanna be left out.. it annoys me so bad how they stoop that low.. i dont like any guys and i dont need a boyfriend.. but my friends are ditching me and im having boring night after boring night.. what do i do (link)
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you can make new friends or spend some time with your family... enjoy yourself by getting maicures and going the malls... if your friends are hanging out with there boyfriends then don't come with them because they probably would want to be alone with there boyfriend... if you don't want a boyfriend than you can't do anything about it... but you'll find someone sooner or later.
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ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f? (link)
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well... it sounds like he is really hapy and excited about the game... you probably made him happy... hes not shitty if he's never done this to you be4... maybe you can ask him if he wants to come over and play the game with YOU this way you guys can still spend time together
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okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
signed,
confused (link)
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well... you can't have a good relationship if your always fighting... if your fighting it won't work out and it sounds like its time for you to move on... just stop dating for awhile untill you meet the right guy... if you have mixed feelings than its best to just be friends with him.
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My first love broke up with me. He wants to see other people. He said we can still be friends and that he loves me with all his heart. He says his life is just too complicated. How do I go on when I have to see him everyday? Help me please.
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aww... well if you like him still then you can't help that... just be true to your heart... but build a strong friendship.. he might be a better friend than boyfriend... theres some one out there who will make you happier
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