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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ??
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Just be there for him and support him - he's gonna have a pretty tough time with other people if he tells them. You 'love him to death' - that shouldn't change just because his sexuality has been revealed. Remember that he hasn't changed - he has probably been feeling this way for a long time, so he is still the same person!! He just has a 'label' now. Have a chat with him if you are at all uncomfortable - don't bottle it up or you could really grow to resent him. Good luck!! :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Have sex with him and he wont be gay!
Kay
Hope i hleped
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Just deal with it. If you really liked the person before you knew they were gay, its no different. You like him for him, and now that you know one day thing about him you totally want to give up on him. It's not fair to him or yourself!
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Love him to death, as you always have.
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Accept him, he's still the same person isn't he? He hasn't changed, just how much you know about him has. Just carry on as normal, this shouldn't affect your friendship in anyway.
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Just accept him. One of my best friends is gay too. Don't treat them any differently then you already do. It'll hurt them if you do. Hope i helped ♥
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who cares if he is gay? if you "like like" him, that is different, but do you really wanna marry someone that is gay and cant possibly love you?? i wouldnt! support him if you love him! he is still your friend
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Well, in my opinion, I don't reslly see a problem with being gay. But you might. I just would treat him like you always have, and if you love him to death then just be his friend. Be nice to him, and act like a friend would. Normal. Just don't think about it, and let it be.
Morgan
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Go with the flow and accept it. That doesn't change the peRson he's is.... just changes the way you see him, and that's undeRstandable to a ceRtain degRee, but chances aRe he's felt that way foR a veRy long time, so if he's eveR changed you've pRobably neveR noticed, and if you have... you've accepted it, so just accept it.. it's no biggie. Best of wishes! Hope I helped!! =D
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If your his true friend - find a way to accept it and let him know you accept it and your there for him 100%
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accept him for who he is and always be there for him... listen to his feelings and respect them no matter what... being gay is not a bad thing... just always bee there for him and help him through everything
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Just accept it.. Theres nothing wrong with being gay/lesbian/bisexual Its totally natural
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i dont think that you should not like him..if he is gay, just let him be gay--i dont think that should change how you feel about him, if you really like him as a friend it wont matter..no ones the same! be considerite!! muah
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Well I dont think you should have to do anything. Are you a homophobe, if not why are you asking such a question on this site?
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Accept it, even though it might feel wierd, he told you because he didn't want to hide anything.
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The only thing that you can do is to just accept his choice of being homosexual and just love him for him. There's nothing wrong with what he decided to be. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Accept him for who he is, i mean he was your friend before you found out and it should be no different after you find out. Tell him you understand and still be friends.
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as long as he doesnt have a crush on you, just act normal, like it was before you realized that. its not that big of a deal, i know tons of people that are bi or gay and it doesnt bother me, its just how they are, like someone being smart or ugly, or athletic..etc. theyre still thesame person! good luck dear!
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why does it matter if he is gay
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You should respect his sexuality decision.
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