Question Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 6:11 pm
Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).
seriouslyteenangel answered Monday February 14 2005, 9:09 pm: The bottom line is, you shouldn't be with someone if you like them. Have you given Justin a fair chance? I once went on a... I guess you could say it was a blind date. I hated the boy I was paired with and I had a different crush. But after a while I really liked my date. Now we're boyfriend & girlfriend and my crush is history. So give Justin a fair chance. If you still don't like him, don't stay with him. I hope I helped you somehow! Good luck! Please rate; I'm new! [ seriouslyteenangel's advice column | Ask seriouslyteenangel A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:58 pm: I would say not to go with either of them... your just going to hurt justin in the long run if you keep "pretending" you like him.... you can still like this other guy but don't tell him until you get the feeling that he likes you back... flirt with him and whatever... just don't flat out tell him. [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
dreamingkat answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:54 pm: You should break up with Justin because you don't like him like that. Be nice about it and try to stay friends.
If Michael doesn't want to get together with you, just be friends. Don't get pushy, or he won't want to be your friend either.
There's nothing wrong with being single, and there are lots of good points. Also, remember you can flirt and hang out or go on dates with people just to see how it turns out, without needing to make any sort of commitment about "going out". [ dreamingkat's advice column | Ask dreamingkat A Question ]
Dude!!! answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:51 pm: well i think it wouldn't be fair for Justin if you kept going out with him and you didn't like him...he will just fall for you more...you should brake up with him
feverdancer03 answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:47 pm: Well you should definatly break up with Justin. I mean, if our going out with a guy even though you dont like him, thats hurting the other guy. Your not being true to him. Also, its not fair to him that your tryin to get with a different guy at the same time your with justin. You can try to get with Micheal, but if he doesnt like you, theres a possibility nothing will change his opinion. But hey, why not try! Hope i helped! [ feverdancer03's advice column | Ask feverdancer03 A Question ]
PrincezzMari answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:17 pm: okay, this is a little weird stuation, but here's what i think you should do: break up with Justin. gently, of course. it's just wrong to lead him on like that. and the longer you wait, the harder ON him and FOR you it'll be. as for you friend Michael, if you really like him and think you at least have a chance, then you should give it a try. if it doesn't work out, then that's not your fault and it probably wasn't meant to be and at least you guys are at least friends (unfortunately, it wasn't like that for me, so you're lucky.). you should at least give it a try.
vchicka15 answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:13 pm: you shouldnt lead justin on.. dump him. even if michael doesnt like you it will be fun to flirt and maybe hell end up liking you... but if you dont like justin dont go out with him anymore.. hope it helps [ vchicka15's advice column | Ask vchicka15 A Question ]
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