about

I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

Ok, the girl i beleive that i am in love with is going to go to a different high school because of where she lives at. I am sooo upset and i feel like life is coming to an end for me. I am affraid that i am going to lose her to all of the upper classmen. She is soo beautiful and she has an awesome personality, so i know that all the other guys are going to be like trying to get the hook up with her and she is going to like them and totally forget about me. What can i do to stop felling soo upset? plz help me, love ya love lots alma.

Awwwww, I love you heckas. Just stop worrying about it. Everything will be fine. And if she does have to go to a different school, don't worry about losing her. Girls aren't like that if they truly care about someone =) Just be happy and make the rest of the year a blast !

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Aww Alma I swear you are soo sweet. Thanks for caring!! :] Well i guess things are okay between me and my boyfriend..i dunno he just seems mad at me, but people have been telling me that he isn`t and that he`s planning something for our anniversary(which is like on the 5th of feb*tomorrow) AND for valentine`s day.. soo lol but i dunno it just doesn`t seem like he`ll plan something because he just seems so mad lol.. anwaysss i was totally going to IM you but before i can copy your sn onto my buddylist i totally deleted the question .. SORRY !!! :[ . well luv ya so i`ll ttul ♥

Aw wow thanks so much ! You made my night =) Well since it's already Feb 5th, happy anniversary ! I don't know he's mad, I just think he has stuff on his mind or he could be faking it to make you think like he's not going to do anything special but he will suprise you !! =DDD I love surprises and I bet you do too. Have fun, and I love you so much.

P.S - My screen name is on my advice column, hehe =D.

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how do you give someone an answer with the google box thing? i saw in it in your profile.

[ search ] good search terms [ / search ]

Just with no spaces.

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me and my best friend...well shes a girl...when we first became friends i liked her..and she liked me...we talked for a long time...but we she wouldnt date me i didnt kno why...i mean we had the best chemistry and everything it was almost perfect...well wen i did get enough courage to ask her out..she said no..and i was like wut...well she told my other friend...a guy..that it was bcuz i was black..well shes mexican..and that she doesnt think she could do that...she really cares wut other people think about her...well now we blew that off we neva dated...we juss stayed really good friends..but behind the curtain...we were preety much two love birds...now i still hav feelins for her and she has a boyfriend...i get the most jealous feelings...its crazi...theyyve been datin for 2 months now..and she told me today..and like i tryed to start a new subject..and she gets mad and tells me that i dont care..well my question is..i kno this is serious long...well ive told her that i dont like her no more..and she believes me..well the question is...wut should i do..tell her i still hav feelings for her..and tell her i dont care wut otha people think..i love you and you should b mine...or jus ignore my feelings and like another girl??

Personally I would just forget about her ! She turned you down because of your race, well that ovibously proves she's not the one for you. If someone cares about you, like you care about her, then race or anything would matter or get in the way of anything. Find someone who will treat you with respect =) Hehe. But yeah just move on ovibously she's not the one for you because she cares too much what people think about her. Just don't get too attached to her anymore. Being friends with her is fine but just find someone who deserves you more. Good luck =)

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K so alot of shit has been goin on in my life and i just wana be happy..

what can I do?

Ok no one can help you like this. You can't just come on here and be like "Yeah I need help so help me." We need some kind of details to have a slight bit of a clue to even know what you are talking about. But yeah just try to do things you used to love doing. Hang out with friends. Get pampered up and go shopping.

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I am in so much emotional pain right now it could kill a cow!

I was basicly raped

I have lost everything

im not in school

everything is just going down the drain and I hate it!

What can I do to make this stop and have me be happpppy once in my life i just want to be happy

Well you need to start thinking positive. Try just going out with your friends and doing things for yourself that will help you relax (a spa, tanning, getting your nails done, shopping, etc.) Just try to forget about the past. If you want to become a better person and be happy about yourself, maybe try going back to school. I know it's tough but you need your friends and family to help you through this. I hope you become happy because everyone should be happy. =)

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(Female) Can you become loose from masturbating by rubbing? (not fingering)

Yeah uhm I doubt you even bothered to google this.

only search advicenators.com

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I think that I want to have sex and have a baby

Ok well first of you just prooved you aren't mature enough for a baby. Why ? Well you wouldn't be typing like thiz and you`re a kid yourself like the others said. Another thing, instead of putting yourself and your baby at danger of diffuculities and death, you could just take a job of babysitting and take care of tons of kids. Having sex isn't everything. It's just a stupid thing that kids do nowadays to make themself "cool." Yeah well you can be cool and not have sex so young. Just take a babysitting job and you can take care of kids all the time. It will be good experience for when you grow up and are mature enough to have a kid. Now don't get me wrong, I`m not being mean I'm just telling you the truth. Now if you don't like it, that's your own fault.

EDIT :: I understand where you`re coming from but even if you had enough money you are't ready for a child. There are a lot of responsibilies with a child. They come with a whole big package. You need the time, money, and patience. You are still in school and dropping out would be the dumbest possible idea ever because right there would show that you can't take care of your baby. Because you would need a hob right? Right, and no one will hardly except you without education. Not even McDonald's. I know you want to feel loved and want to have a reason to live. But think about it. Do you really want to put yourself at risk? Since you are so young, they could even take your baby away. And then your just hopeless. Going through what you have may be tough. I know your life may not be the best but you have to make it the best as it can get. It's your life, you only get to live it once. Talk to your mom about this or even someone else, like a teacher, friend, another adult, or a conclar[sp?]. Good luck babe.

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What do i get my boyfriend of 3 and a half months for valentines day? i can't get him chocolates or a teddy bear. help me!!!!
i can't really spend anything. Would a card be enough since it's usually the guy who buys the gift?

Personally I didn't even know girls got their boyfriends anything expect be their valentine's, lol. Getting him a card and a little bear is cute and very cheap. You don't have to go out of your way to get him something, but something to let him know that you care is enough. Happy Valentine's day !

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hey umm well i really like this guy...a lot..n i have for a really long time n ppl ask me y i keep trying n i really dont know y i do...but i know im never gonna get a chance with him and he used to like me ... a lot n then things happened n he barely talks to me now n i hate it n i dn wat 2 do bc i like him so much n i try so hard to get him but nothing ever works hes too caught up with all the gorgous girls...i dont even care n e more...i dn wat to do..please help! should i just give up now?

bye the way i love u 2 death n we need to hang out soon! hehe

Oh wow I forgot to even check my inbox. I`m super sorry I answered this so late ! But anyways I think that you should start talking to the guy you used to like again. Because starting up from a conversation is the best way to like someone again. Good luck darling ! If you want better advice just IM me. I love you to death as well. And I know we deff. need to hang out soon.

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my sister when i was little used to abuse me! and also when i was little my dad used to hurt my sister! and yell at her it's been about 7 years later and i have a problem......................

i hate when people yell! when someboody yells i kinda have panic attacks not that bad but like i start to loose my breath and i cant breath
and if somebody pretend hits me (like in a playing way) i get all nervous!

does anybody know whats goin on?

You are probably experiencing bad childhood flashbacks. I advise you to go to your doctor or even a phygologist [sp] becuase it will help you through this. I know it must be tough but you'll get better. I hope you get better darling. =DD

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i've heard different techniques to keeping clearer skin, but none of them are working to well. i've tried drinking alot of water and avoiding greasy snacks.. got any ideas?

Oh I`m not the best person to ask these kinds of questions. I don't really use anything on my face becuase thankfully my face is pretty clear. Ask Teza [hOlLiSteR baBe ] because she has answered these kind of questions before. Sorry it took me a while to answer.

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ok. well i think i like my exboyfriend again and i'm pretty sure he still likes me but i kno he also likes other girls like his exgirlfriend but i need help! i need to figure out if i should go for it again wit him or if i should keep tryin wit this other guy i like(but he dont like me) but i dont wanna hurt this girls feelings b/c she is my friend! what should i do??

Ok well if you like your ex boyfriend again and you're pretty sure he likes you too then why not try to go back out? Going for the other guy is fine but why would you want to waste your time on someone who doesn't like you back when you have a good chance with someone who does ? Just go for the one that you like more and have more in common with. Go for the one who you can be yourself more. But which girl's feelings might you hurt? She just came in the question out of no where, lol. Good luck, babe.

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DO you know what the best product is to scrunch your hair, but not so its like stiff and yucky..but can scrunch rly good, cuz im not likin the stuff i use right now too much.

Oh I really don`t know. Just any kind of gel works. Sorry I couldn`t help much, but if you go to a saloon store you can ask one of the people that work there they would deff. help you ! :DD

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i have friends that go to a different school than i do and i always try to do stuff with them but it seems like they are always busy. When ever we make plans to do something it always changes and i hate it because sometimes i cancel on my other friends and then i end up sitting home all by my self. I just wish my friends would try to keep the plans we make so i can see them!! Should i tell my friends or should i just hang out with my new friends?????

Oh yeah that happens to a lot of people. Just hang out with the people you have more fun with. Even if that means not hanging out with them all the time. You can always hang out with different people different times. Or you could ask both groups of friends to hang out together. Just make plans with one group and then make some other plans with the other group another time or day. You know you don't always have to go out places on Friday nights. It's not going to do anything to you to just sometimes spend some time by yourself. You can always just ask someone to come over and you guys can hang out and maybe she can spend the night or something. That's always fun for me and my friends. Sorry it took me a lil while to answer your question, I was busy. Have fun and make sure not to ditch and use friends or else you'll lose those friends.

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alright well.. my hair is pretty straight medium length i guess. i was wondering what products or what can i use to make my hair wavy? besides braiding it. any ideas? thank youu hun ♥

Aw I wish I had natural straight hair, lol. But anyways you can always scrunch your hair. When you get out of the shower you can towel dry your hair but don't dry it to much or else it won't work. Then put a little gel on your hands/fingers and scrunch your hair. Then you can blow dry it and it should look really cute. A lot of my friends do that and it looks amazing. Another thing you can do is, there's this shampoo that you can buy that helps your hair become curly. I have never used it since I don't need it but you can buy it anywhere you can buy other shampoos. You can also put it in curlers over night. Have fun ! If you need anymore help just ask me. I ♥ hair questions, lol. =)

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hey everyone i am trying to make an xanga for msn icons and i use photobucket to hold my icons but when i tried to copy them in my xanga it didnt work i know that for my space you copy the tag but what about for xanga thanksin advance = ] i rate 5s

Copy the URL link. If this doesn`t help then there might not be any more room in your xanga for pictures.

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Hey guys,
I already asked a quesion a while ago about Valentines Day. I really don't know what to get my best friend Daniel. I'm wanting to get him a stuffed animal off of this one site, but I'm having a hard time picking between all 4 bears I like. I was wondering if anyone would like to go to the site and look at the bears I'm choosing from to maybe get him, and tell me what one you like the best. I can't really decide, so if anyone wants to look at the bears I really like they are on www.bandannabear.com-I like the 2 bears in the very first row and the 2 bears in the fourth row. Those are the ones I'm choosing from to get him. If noone wants to do this, it's alright. By the way I am 15/f and he is 14/m turning 15 on the 31st of this month. He is very sweet and mature for his age. He lives in a different state, and I plan on meeting him as soon as I can save up enough money for me and my mom because she wants to go too. We've been talking now for over 6 months and aren't going out yet. We consider ourselves going out though. We already sent each other gifts for Christmas. Someone help me out if you want! If not, it's alright. I love everyone on this site anyway! Thank you so much!

Personally I like this bear. I don`t know if this is one of the ones you wanted or not, but I think it`s adorable. The two hearts with your names is such a cute idea. And it says "Valentines Forever." Now how cute is that ? Lol, good luck ! And have fun.

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how do u make ur myspace private?

It should let you pick between having it public, private or protected.

The perfect person to ask this is Mackenzie. She knows so much about Myspace and Xangas. Mackenzie`s Column

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Why is it so wrong to be chauvanistic, but OMG SO COOL AND TRENDY!!!!1! to be feminst?
Why is that it's wrong for a man to hit a woman, but if the chick hits the guy, it's considered cute?
Why can girls get away with calling guys every sexist name under the sun but if a man dare say the word chick (ZOMG!!!1!! NOT CHICK!!!! *gasp*) he is called a sexist, and that is not ok?

This is honestly the stupidest question ever. What does it matter? Seriously, wow.

Guys usally get called a sexist because usually when a guy hits on girl it`s only because he wants to get in her pants, that`s why. That`s all most guys think about and don`t get me wrong. There are guys out there who don`t think that but since most of the guys ruined almost of the guys` reputation that`s what girls think when a guy usually hits on her.

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