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well.......plz help!
my sister when i was little used to abuse me! and also when i was little my dad used to hurt my sister! and yell at her it's been about 7 years later and i have a problem......................
i hate when people yell! when someboody yells i kinda have panic attacks not that bad but like i start to loose my breath and i cant breath
and if somebody pretend hits me (like in a playing way) i get all nervous!
does anybody know whats goin on?
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you could always talk to a physcoligist about it or a guidance counciler if that makes you feel anybetter. you'll get thro it. hope i helped =]
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ok first off i am sorry.. second off your sister is only doing what she has learned from your father. and they both need help.. like go to a phyciatrist and talk about these problems.. also confront your sister and ask her if she will go to a phyciatrist with you .. becuase you are haveing flashback anxiety and anything that reminds you of the abuse makes you freek out.. i suggest you also go to phyciatrist. sometimes having someone to talk to can make an extreme difference
good luck xoxo
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Wow - that's sucks. I'm sorry.
But - now to the answer.
Since your sister did that to you - because no one told her it was wrong - you're now paranoid that people are going to physically hurt you.
And when people yell - though it's not at you - you freak out because of how scared you used to be.
This is perfectly normal.
&TiNA;
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Its perfectly normal! Well first off I wanna say that I am really sorry that happend to you!!Maybe see a consuler or something to talk about all of it with..and tell your friends that it bothers you when the just play around like that...they should understand.
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xoleahhh
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you obviously had a trauma because someone used to hurt you before. i used to get a little of that sometimes because i have been raised strictly. and i get punishments from belt-hittings. its ok, but if this panick attacks really occur frequently, then you should go see a psychologist. :) dont worry! you are not insane! its normal for kids and even adults who grew up from beattings. :)
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You are probably experiencing bad childhood flashbacks. I advise you to go to your doctor or even a phygologist [sp] becuase it will help you through this. I know it must be tough but you'll get better. I hope you get better darling. =DD
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