Question Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 10:18 pm
me and my best friend...well shes a girl...when we first became friends i liked her..and she liked me...we talked for a long time...but we she wouldnt date me i didnt kno why...i mean we had the best chemistry and everything it was almost perfect...well wen i did get enough courage to ask her out..she said no..and i was like wut...well she told my other friend...a guy..that it was bcuz i was black..well shes mexican..and that she doesnt think she could do that...she really cares wut other people think about her...well now we blew that off we neva dated...we juss stayed really good friends..but behind the curtain...we were preety much two love birds...now i still hav feelins for her and she has a boyfriend...i get the most jealous feelings...its crazi...theyyve been datin for 2 months now..and she told me today..and like i tryed to start a new subject..and she gets mad and tells me that i dont care..well my question is..i kno this is serious long...well ive told her that i dont like her no more..and she believes me..well the question is...wut should i do..tell her i still hav feelings for her..and tell her i dont care wut otha people think..i love you and you should b mine...or jus ignore my feelings and like another girl??
tcklebunni answered Friday February 3 2006, 8:09 pm: I understand why you're upset. Why would she think you'd wanna talk about her boyfriend with you when she knows you like/liked her? That was kind of silly. I think you should tell her that you really like her (don't use love, that might scare her!!) And also, why does she think that anyone would start hatin' on her because she was dating a black guy. It's not the 1800's anymore! I think you should tell her how you feel and see what happens. [ tcklebunni's advice column | Ask tcklebunni A Question ]
xOalmaOx answered Thursday February 2 2006, 11:53 pm: Personally I would just forget about her ! She turned you down because of your race, well that ovibously proves she's not the one for you. If someone cares about you, like you care about her, then race or anything would matter or get in the way of anything. Find someone who will treat you with respect =) Hehe. But yeah just move on ovibously she's not the one for you because she cares too much what people think about her. Just don't get too attached to her anymore. Being friends with her is fine but just find someone who deserves you more. Good luck =) [ xOalmaOx's advice column | Ask xOalmaOx A Question ]
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