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I think that I want to have sex and have a baby<3 I love babiez alot and I think it will help me emotionaly.. Have someone to love and hold and take care of<3 I love taking care of people and ive always wanted a kid of my own..
(14/f)
what do you think i should do?
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Ok well first of you just prooved you aren't mature enough for a baby. Why ? Well you wouldn't be typing like thiz and you`re a kid yourself like the others said. Another thing, instead of putting yourself and your baby at danger of diffuculities and death, you could just take a job of babysitting and take care of tons of kids. Having sex isn't everything. It's just a stupid thing that kids do nowadays to make themself "cool." Yeah well you can be cool and not have sex so young. Just take a babysitting job and you can take care of kids all the time. It will be good experience for when you grow up and are mature enough to have a kid. Now don't get me wrong, I`m not being mean I'm just telling you the truth. Now if you don't like it, that's your own fault.
EDIT :: I understand where you`re coming from but even if you had enough money you are't ready for a child. There are a lot of responsibilies with a child. They come with a whole big package. You need the time, money, and patience. You are still in school and dropping out would be the dumbest possible idea ever because right there would show that you can't take care of your baby. Because you would need a hob right? Right, and no one will hardly except you without education. Not even McDonald's. I know you want to feel loved and want to have a reason to live. But think about it. Do you really want to put yourself at risk? Since you are so young, they could even take your baby away. And then your just hopeless. Going through what you have may be tough. I know your life may not be the best but you have to make it the best as it can get. It's your life, you only get to live it once. Talk to your mom about this or even someone else, like a teacher, friend, another adult, or a conclar[sp?]. Good luck babe.
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as rudy said, having a baby at such a young age, wouldn't be very wise. would you be able to support the child? probably not. you may think that you're emotionally ready, but you're not aware of the full responsibility of having a child, nor are you aware of how much you will have to provide for this baby.
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Considering you are a kid yourself I dont believe that having a kid would be a wise move in your part. Ive know people whose entire life has been altered by having a baby at young age. No school, no social life, responsibilities..etc.
I seriously believe that you need to get your head in place, you are only 14 years old...Do things that you need to do and when you mature in age and mentality and find the right guy, than consider having a baby.
Smarten up, go to school, graduate and get a degree and some finacial stability and than and only than should u even consider the possibility of getting pregnant. Shit i would even say refrain from having sex right now cause its obvious that you arent ready...chill out litle girl..everything in due time
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