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The country that I live in is debating the Death Penalty. I Do not understand the understanding that the death penalty is ok. You are killing someone still aren't you? I realize that the people scentenced are usually murderers and other things along that line. I just want to know both sides of the story. I looked it up on Google and it is not what i am looking for. I want opinions on BOTH side.

To me, the death penalty is ok, but I think a lifetime of jail is a better punishment. I mean, if your in jail all your life youd probably wish you were dead and that is what murderers deserve.

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Okay my friends b-day is coming up and i want to give her a mix CD well I duno how to get the music. I know how to make the cd and everything. but is there any sites where i can get the music to put on the site?? thanks so much i rate high

go to www.limewire.com and download the free version

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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think.

ok i am for abortion.. for one reason and that is rape. First of all, men should have no say in abortion because they do not know what a woman goes through. We take the pain and all they get is the pleasure. If a huge ugly monsterous 40 year old man rapes a 12 year old girl.. that is not fair for that young girl to go through the terrifying 9 month period. It wasnt her fault. The baby inside of her doesnt even have feelings or anything, its barely even a human life. Think about it. Hope this helped

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I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do?

dont do anything unless you are positive they dont like eachother and arent going out.. if they are going out, its best to just leave them be and dont say anything.. they like eachother, and all you can do is support them

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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap

well how old are you?... it depends on age.. younger.. like between 13 and 16 your probably not not ready to take the risks... condoms can break and if it does you have to be ready to face the consequences.. if your older your more responsible.. just use a condom

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help i get so depressed some times im starting to drink and i dont want to go any depper into alchohol. can you help me please i hate my new school im so unhappy

look at all the bright sides of life.. your not realizing the good all you see is the bad. make an effort to like your new school, try making new friends, be thankful for what you have. try talking to someone you trust.. whenever im depressed talking to someone always makes me feel better. if you dont want to talk to anyone you know, you can always leave something in my inbox. stay away from the alcohol, your just going to make things worse. hope you get better..

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Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f)

do not let this guy be controlling.. if you know you shouldnt be going with him do not let him convince you to go home with him.. dont let his sad face get to you

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Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.

i loved reading gossip girl(theres like 5 of them out) and summer boys.. its about seniors who party go through drama and everything.. you might have to be a little older to read them but I read them at 13 and they were exciting... A Series of Unfortuante Events were also some of the best books I read

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

its ok to be happy that shes moving.. just dont show it.. try to comfort your friends and have a good time with them, but yea, your friends might think you were a bitch if you said you were happy, so i just wouldnt say anything

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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas?

sports.. ask your friends to go out to eat or go over your house after school.. or go to one of the games at your school.. go shopping.. just try out new things.. hope it helps :-)

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okay like,me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days. and i absolutely love him with everything i have. but i feel like he's becoming too attached and serious. i'm 15 and he's 17 about to turn 18. ((thats beside the point)) but like last saturday ((march 5th)) he asked me if i would promise to marry him and he gave me a promise (("pre-engagment")) ring. well of course i said yes. because it's what i was thinking at the time. but now i'm having second thoughts. i mean i'm only 15 i have the rest of my teen years to live. i just dont know what to do. i wanna tell him were getting to serious, but i still love you and wanna be with you.

eck..someone please help! ...=]...i ratteeee!!!


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thats wayyy to young.. you guys may think you love eachother but you never know what will happen. tell him that you want to be with him now and that you love him, and that youll think about marriage later, when your older. hope it helps

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whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!!

been there.. its really hard talking when you dont know him that well.. so get to know him well.. just ask him random things.. like so what are you doing.. what do you like to do.. or tell him that you guys have to hang out sometime.. hope it helps

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Is blowjob and head the same thing? And what about handjob? Can u explain these to me because I think i may no some differences but not completely thanks

yes blowjob and head is the same thing... handjob is basically you masturbating for the guy.. you put your hand around his penis and move it up and down.

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I have a friend at school, his name is Tyler. He isn't your popular jock. No girls like him. Just recently iv learned he likes me and would want to go out with me. We are very good friends.
And if I went out with him and we break up, I'm afraid it would ruin our friend ship. What should I do? Help!!!!!!!!!!

Please reply ASAP

in my opinion i say go out with him.. i mean since you already know he wants to ask you out.. things would probably be weird if u said no.. trust me i know ive done the same thing.. just go for it and see what happens

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Ok, 1st off I'm hoping I can get a few good answers fairly quickly. I'm going to kiss my boyfriend for the 1st time tomorrow (2 weeks weve been going out)Im just going to kiss him on the cheek tho. I was just wondering how u guys think i should do it. Please answer quickly

go to give him a hug when your leaving or whenever.. then as you back up give him a kiss on the cheek

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What are some good movies.. mostly chick flicks or comedy.. thanks!

the notebook is def. one of the best chick flicks.. funny ones are malibus most wanted..white chicks.. and hitch

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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one

it hurts for about 5 seconds when they break the bracket off.. the polishing isnt that bad.. it will take about a half hour.. but it feels so good to get them off.. hope you like your new smile :-)

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my best friend thinks im lying to her but im really not and she just wont believe me i tried talking to her but it isnt helping!!! what else should i do??

first say.. id never say something like that.. im your best friend why cant u believe me... and if she still doesnt believe you then screw her.. best friends should trust eachother and if she cant trust you and wont beleive in you.. shes not your friend.. tell her that

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I like this guy and he likes me.. Well we have ALOT in common and I admit im pretty popular.. so anyway, He's not the hottest/most popular person ever. I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.. but what do I do?? Do I go out with him of save my reputation?

you have to do what your heart says.. who cares if hes not that popular and hot? if hes a good guy.. date him.. guys like him are hard to find and you shouldnt lose the chance of going out with him for your "reputation" if your friends dont like him and make fun of you they arent you friends so get rid of them

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my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me

how about dry sex.. basically do everything besides sex.. remember there are so many risks in sex and if ur not ready to take them dont.. there are lots of other ways to have fun

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