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I like this guy and he likes me.. Well we have ALOT in common and I admit im pretty popular.. so anyway, He's not the hottest/most popular person ever. I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.. but what do I do?? Do I go out with him of save my reputation?
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you think to high of your self. no offence, but i mean really. just like looks dont matter, where some one places in the social scale doesn't matter either. hell if you like a nerd, go for him! =) and if your pop. and this guy isn't too pop. you will make him pop. too! and i would act fast.. b.4 your friends get him! =)
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go out with him. who cares what the other people think. oh and go out with him before your friends get to him.hope i helped.
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hehe, reputation? If the people you hang out with are your true friends, they wouldnt care who you go out with. You're lucky, you now can distinguish your true friends from just popular kids who hang out with each other to keep their reputation clean. I say go for it if you really like him, if you're popular, hes gonna be popular too.
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A relationship biased on looks is stupid, You need to be able to love the guy/girl or its not worth having the relationship.. If there is no love, there is no respect, no respect can lead to people being pressured into things they don't want to do... So date the guy.. and if your friends make a big deal about it.. tell them you really like him, and their support would be excelent insted of them putting you down...
Hope I helped! :)
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hm.. reread what you wrote. "I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.."
1. I like him
2. I swear im not conceited!!
3.I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep..
4.I dont really care but my friends
5.Im not like that.. I go for personality.."
GO FOR HIM! if you like him and your not conceited like you say your not then whats the question- you SAID your not like you friends, they must know this by now if you guys are friends so why should they care? and you dont care so theres really nothing to worry about! :o)
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no.. don't waste you time.. he deserves better.
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this is a pretty self-explanatory question... popularity is extremely shallow and fading in my opinion and you are lucky to have someone you like have feelings for you back. use common sense!! ask "what is more important? stupid popularity or a guy that will make me happy?" i think the answer will be clear...
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reps are completely pointless(i might just be saying this from being so unpopular for 8 years) and you like him so it is alot more important
Solemnstar
p.s in my opinion this was a ::beep:: up question sorry
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you have to do what your heart says.. who cares if hes not that popular and hot? if hes a good guy.. date him.. guys like him are hard to find and you shouldnt lose the chance of going out with him for your "reputation" if your friends dont like him and make fun of you they arent you friends so get rid of them
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go out with him! who cares about a rep when you can be in a great relationship with a wonderful guy??? oh and i hate when ppl date guys for their looks. i go for the personality too so go you!!!
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Hmm..popular. What is popular? Following the trends of clothes, finding those cute jeans that fit you perfectly, following every singleee freaking thing everyone around you does? No seriously..I'm really asking. What is popularity?
So..*laughs from disbelief* you're seriously telling me you're willing to turn down this guy (a human being with feelings I might add)..all because of what your reputation will become if you end up going out with him?
Honestly, if you're TRULY popular..like TRULYYYYY popular, everyone around you wont care who you date. However, if the people around you WILL look down on you all because of who you date, then are you really society's version of popular?
You can be popular -- with the baggiest clothes, the messiest hair, and the craziest personaility...or you can be fake and follow the trends which everyone only CALLS "popular", and you can turn down this guy who cares for you because of this..or you can make your own damn decision and be independent.
Popularity isnt what you think it is..it's much more then what people think of you. Popularity is the ability to be who you want to be, and STILL have people who like you and admire you. Popularity isn't the feeling of walking on eggshells if you make ONE WRONG MOVE in your personal life..there's a big difference.
wOot..glad I'm not "popular" (IN QUOTATIONS *cough*) because it's really great to know that everyones not watching every move I make in my personal life...and its really great that people like me for me..*sighs happily* big relief really..I love being a "loser".. YAY that can fit in quotations perfectly too. *smiles then rolls eyes*
I mean IF you like him..and if you REALLY want to go out with him -- you go out with him. Why care about what other people think? It's not like it has anything to do with them..but if you're still questioning your reputation and are afraid to go out with him for fear that it might be ruined, then YOU TELL HIM WHY you're afraid to go out with him..
I mean you'd actually tell him to his face that you wont go out with him because you're afraid your reputation will be ruined? I mean..will you seriously say that to him?..and if you dont tell him the truth..then you must be afraid..and you must know you're wrong...because I know you wont tell him because you'll finally realize how RIDICULOUS this whole controversy is because you'll hear the words coming out of your mouth..you'll hear them breaking his heart..and for what? All because you wanted to make people around you happy?
Go ahead .. be my guest.
`jeSsie
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why are you worrying about your reputation? if you are that popular then everyone will just accept it. if you like a guyy that much then you shouldnt worry about it. have your friends get to no him and maybe they will see how kool of a guyy he is. dont ever hesitated to go out w. someone u like. if your friends are TRUE friends then they will accept him the way he is. life is not about being popular its about being yourselfwho nos maybe you'll make him popular too. just dont break his heart!!
keep my words in mind
~nat~
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You're an idiot, comparing a person you like to a personal status? You suck. If you have to ask that question your an idiot. I hope everyone gives you crap advice from now on.
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