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Love means giving somebody the ability to destroy you & trusting them not to do it.



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Hey, I'm having a formal party and i'm not sure where to buy dresses. Like I went to JC Penny's and they had a few, but not a lot in my size since I'm small. Where else could you buy a nice dress?. I rate 5's . (link)
http://www.mandee.com/

^They have really cute dresses.



ok. so ive been with this guy who lives in california for 2 years. and i live in tx. anyways we're really in love. the thing is i sent him a fake picture. i know it was wrong and the guilt is killing me. so i dont need it from anyone else.but i was wondering how i can break up with him..its not as easy as i thought it would be. im in love with him..i cant just end things, but it needs to be done..any advice?
thanks. (link)
I was in the same exact situation. How long ago did you send him a picture of yourself? If it was a LONG time ago then go to him "hey I got new pics wanna see" and just send him your REAL picture. Then when he's confused about the pictures tell him that you thought you send him your real picture and it was an accident.
If you guys really love eachother then don't give up and just do what feels right. There's a reason why it's so hard to break up with him.
Hope everything works out with you guys.



i juss got the txting plan with cingular. we got the 1000 txt package for $10.00 a month. i can sign on AIM now since we got txting, but i was wondering if however long you're on for, if that uses up minutes & you pay for each minute, er the only way you pay is from txting??

thanks!! (link)
I have Cingular also and you only pay for texting not for how long you are on.



What are some new songs I can download. I like rock, alternative and stuff like that.

thanks
5's for anythingg (link)
3CE - I Know You xXx Marry Me
3CE - Fall Asleep
Cauterize - Closer
Cauterize - My Everything
Puddle Of Mudd - Blurry
Taking Back Sunday - MakeDamnSure
The Afters - I Want You Back
The Click Five - I Think We're Alone Now
The Rasmus - F-F-F-Falling
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Face Down
The Weakerthans - Aside
Train - Meet Virginia
Trapt - Echo
Tsar - The Love Explosion
Waking Ashland - I Am For You



Okay well i REALLY REALLY want a cell phone but my parents arent letting me get one and im 15 and basically everyone that i know has one! So i was thinking,my older sister has an old cell phone she dosent use anymore and its in my closet its a verizon phone and its like a metallic blue color its like 2 years old anyway,I was wondering if i could use it like i wouldnt have to pay for the phone just for the service to use it to activate it again.So i was wondering if you guys think i can use it? and how much would it be? thank you so much! (link)
Yeah you can. The price varies on the company. So talk to your mom about it and call up the company like Verizon, Cingular, etc. and ask them about it and they will send you a SIM card.



When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?

NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what (link)
I would give them a 5 if they answered the question.



on my cell phone, i dont have txt msging, so does that mean there's no way i can buy ringtones?? every time i try, they have to txt you something so i can never buy any. is there any other way??

thanks!! (link)
Well I have Cingular and when I buy ringtones I do it from my phone and it gets dowloaded straight to my phone so there is no text messaging involved.
Check on your phone if there's an option to buy ringtones.
If you need anything else drop one in my inbox.



so on like myspace i got this riddle and it buggin me cuz i cant find the answer!
I already googled it!!:-p YEP!! sooo

I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champane bubble.
If you sqeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.

SO does anyone know the answer!! i really wanna no the right answer! like i hear it was water! but that doesnt make sice!

so i've you know the answer please explain!!
thanks and i right fives for anyone who will take the time and help!!!

thankssss

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I got the same thing and people are saying that there is no answer to that riddle.



ok well i love music but i only have like 600 songs on my ipod and i wanna download some more but i dont really know what to get. I like bands like fall out boy, panic at the disco, nickleback, alkaline trio. I dont really like rap, r&b and that stuff.

any suggestions??(spelling?) (link)
Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go
A Thorn For Every Heart - February
American HiFi - The Geeks Get The Girls
Bowling For Soup - Girl All The Bad Guys Want
Bratz - So Good
Cartel - Say Anything (Else)
Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me
From First To Last - Emily
Garbage - Why Do You Love Me
Hawthorne Heights - Saying Sorry
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Homegrown - You're Not Alone
Quietdrive - Maybe Misery
Something Corporate - Konstantine
Straylight Run - Existentialism on Prom Night
Senses Fail - Burried a Lie
The All-American Rejects - Move Along
The Afters - Beautiful Love
The Afters - I Want You Back
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - 20 Hour Drive
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Cat and Mouse
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Disconnected
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Face Down
Waking Ashland - Rumors
Waking Ashland - Let Go





I'm worried about my friend, she's involved with a guy that makes a fool out of her every chance he gets. i try to tell her that she should just leave him alone but, she wont listen. should i just let her be and sit back while she's being made a fool of? (link)
I know thst is the last thing you want to do but yes, just sit back and let her be.
You tried warning her and she wouldn't listen.
She will realize when time comes that you were right.



uggh i dont even know where to begin. thanks for reading this and trying to help but seriously what youre about to read is alot!

ok so i was going out with this guy last year and i got back together with him this year a few months ago.. well i broke up with him because he wasnt acting like my boyfriend but i still wanted to be friends.

my ex best friend (lets call her bob).. ok i got into a fight with her and i really didnt do anything and she ended up turning everyone against me, we made up a long time after but i found out she was pretty much mad at me for no reason she pretty much picked a fight, well.. theres another girl who was my best friend last year (lets call her billy) and i found out that they made a plan to get me jealous of them being best friends and after they found out i broke up with my bf they were happy (they liked him) and pretty much everyone in my school likes him that knows him.. and we had a party the day i broke up with him and he was sad when i wasnt there but as soon as i got there he was acting all happy and hanging out with my two "ex best friends" and he knows i hate them. so at the party bob asked me if she can go out with him because she found out he wanted to go out with her (this was the same day i broke up with him). what pisses me off is that he is only doing this to get revenge with me and shes doing the same probaly just like she had the plan with billy..

theres more to this that i didnt mention but really i dont know what i should do!

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Why would you want to be friends with people who only want to get revenge on you when you did nothing wrong and only want to hurt you and cause you pain? You should move on and forget about them because you don't need poeple like that in your life.
I know this probably didn't help much but that's pretty much all you can do.



I'm in love with iced tea...I drink one in the mornin n one in the evenin...

I drink the diet lipton one and use 2 splenda sugar in it...I was wonderin is it dangerous...? (link)
No, it is not but you should watch out on the sugar because too much sugar could cause high blood sugar levels and you do not want that at a young age.



i have to read a book for english and i cant decide on what to do.

the only main requirements are that it has to be atleast 200 pages (no more than 300 please) and at our reading leve (10th grade)

my favorite book is the giver but i cannot read that because it is too short and i like books along that line.

i like more true to life kind of books with relatable characters and i dislike things like harry potter and lord of the rings

any suggestions? please if you name a book give me a little background info on it! (link)
You should read Go Ask Alice if you never read it before.
It is a very good book based on a true story.
I don't remember how much pages it has though. I think it might be more than 200.



like i have super thick hair. and its pretty long to it takes me like 1hour and a 1/2 to straighten it is it bad to straighten your hair like twice a week? what does it do? my friend told me that she straighted it like twice a week and now it is easier to straighten. is that true?
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No, that is not true. There are times that I straighten my hair three times a week. Straightening your hair even once a week still causes a little damage to your hair. Straightening your hair gives you split ends and just dries up the ends. Alot of people straighten their hair; you just have to take better care of your hair. Make sure you put something in your hair before you straighten it.



what are some good songs to download? i like rock (all kinds, classic punk etc.) and techno...also what are some good songs to stretch to (both slow and fast temp, like everytime we touch) thankss (link)
Techno:

Amelia - I'll Move On
Anna Vissi - Lie
Antique - List Of Lovers
Arash ft Rebecca - Temptation
Becky Baeling - Getaway
Dance Nation - Words
DJ Corrupt - Do What You Want
Guidettes Music - I Watch You
Kareema - Cool Your Engines
Lasgo - Don't belong 2 U
Louie Devito - One Good Reason
Lucas Prata & Reina - Love Of My Life
Motorcycle - As The Rush Comes
QED - Love Bites
Rockell - What You Did To Me
Sarina Paris - The Single Life
Stunt - Raindrops
Vic Latino - Here Comes The Rain Again
Young Parisians ft. Ben Lost - Jump The Next Train [Kyau vs. Albert Remix]

Rock/Punk:

Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go
Bowling For Soup - Girl All The Bad Guys Want
Bratz - So Good
Cartel - Say Anything (Else)
Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me
From First To Last - Emily
Garbage - Why Do You Love Me
Hawthorne Heights - Saying Sorry
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Homegrown - You're Not Alone
Quietdrive - Maybe Misery
Something Corporate - Konstantine
Straylight Run - Existentialism on Prom Night
Senses Fail - Burried a Lie
The All-American Rejects - Move Along
The Afters - Beautiful Love
The Afters - I Want You Back
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - 20 Hour Drive
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Cat and Mouse
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Disconnected
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Face Down
Waking Ashland - Rumors
Waking Ashland - Let Go

Other:

Depeche Mode - Precious
Beth Hart - Leave The Light On
Bon Jovi - Run Away
Bon Jovi - Born To Be My Baby
Gavin Degraw - We Belong Together
Haley James Scott - Halo
Jack's Mannequin - Dark Blue
Jennifer Lopez - He'll Be Back
Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us
Lisa Loeb - Stay
Mandy Moore - Yo-Yo
Mary J. Blige - Be Without You
Natalie Imbruglia- Torn
Beth Hart - Leave The Light On
Nick Lachey - What's Left of Me
No Doubt - Spiderwebs
Black Eyed Peas - Pump It
PCD - Beep
R. Kelly - Burn It Up
Saving Jane - Girl Next Door
Shakira ft Wyclef Jean- Hips Don't Lie
The Go! Team - Huddle Formation
Wheatus - Teenage Dirtbag




can someone give me a list of songs that are like abrecombie music. (that kind in there stores)it is like DHL listen to your heart club mix. i want some good songs. rate 5's for all who try. (link)
Milk Inc. - Whisper, Wide Awake
Ian Van Dahl - Inspiration
Belle Lawrence- The Closest Thing To Crazy
Ladytron - Seventeen

Also some other songs you may like:

Stellar Project - Get Up Stand Up
September - Satellites
SL vs. Lindsay- All I'm Dreaming Of
Rockell - What You Did To Me
Robbie Rivera - Girlfriend
Unique - Runaway
QED - Love Bites
ATB - Ecstasy
Ashley Jade - Let Me Be Your Fantasy






I am short for my age. I'm 14 and 4'11". I try to look at the positives but it's hard sometimes. Do guys like shorter girls? I feel like they won't... I will only grow about 1 or 2 inches more... What can I do?? (link)
I'm 14 and I'm only 5'0.
Most guys find a shorter girl cute.
There is nothing wrong with being short at all. You should love it. It's much better then being like 5'9 when your boyfriend is only like 5'6.
There is not much you can do about it but wear heels.



does diet soda really stunt your growth? i drink it a lot and people have told me it stunts your growth. is this really true? (link)
It's not the diet soda itself. It is all the caffeine in it. Too much caffeine does stunt your growth. Having a can of diet soda once in a while is fine.



Okay, well my boyfriend broke up with me and it took me sometime to get over him. When I finally got over him, someone else asked me out. I thought I liked him at first .. he's funny and nice, but sensitive and shy. Then I found out that my ex wanted me back, I really want to go back out with him. But, I don't know how to break up with him. He really likes me, and he'll be like devastated when I break up with him. I don't know what to do .. (link)
I know it's hard for you to just break up with him because of the fact that he is shy and sensative but in this kind of situation you have to put yourself first. Tell him you don't see this relationship going anywhere and you would love it if you guys stayed friends. It wouldn't be fair to him if you didn't break up with him because you are truely not happy and that is kind of leading him on because you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend.
Hope everything works out & if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.



I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret? (link)
Well ask yourself this, do you trust her enough to tell her your secret? Is she a true friend to you? When/if you did tell her personal stuff, did she keep that a secret? If she is a real friend, she won't tell any one your secret and she will accept you for who you are. Just follow your instincts on this one.





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