Honestly, im lost. How on earth do you give a guy head, and not get cum in your mouth?
You pull out before he cums. I know when my guy is going to cum because his penis pulses a few seconds before. I've done it to him a lot to know when, so I doubt you'll notice it.
Also, pre cum isn't that bad anyway. I think of it as a lubricant, if I decide to switch from my mouth to using a hand. If you don't want him to cum in your mouth then you can give head for a while and switch to a handjob. You'll have to let him know first because I know some guys would get disappointed if you randomly stop using your mouth lol.
You'll need to talk to him about it though. Some guys are nice enough to pull out before.
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okay so i met my boyfriend about 7 years ago and hes two years older hen me, we didnt decide to start dating until july of 07. lately he yells at me alot and trys telling me what i can and cannot do and he even has other girls before me on his myspace page, i dont know what to do. For christmas he bought me a very expencive necklace and told me he wanted to be with me for a long time and everytime i accuse him of being a player he says "if i was playin you i wouldnt of bought u anything and we wouldnt have been together for this long" [he has a bad history of being a player] so what should i do? how do i know if hes cheating? and should i leave him?
It seems like he's playing that, I'm proving you my love with jewelry, NOW believe me! He doesn't sound good at all. Once he starts telling you what you can do and what you can't, it's going downhill. If he doesn't have you as number one, it's rather odd... unless those girls are his best friends before he met you. If you don't like your boyfriend and how he's treating you, then you don't need this anymore. To me.. it seems like he put you on the side. So he can flirt or do whatever sly thing, then come back to you. Since he's trying to buy your love with something expensive, he's probably thinking you'll still around. Maybe he's not cheating or flirting, but he doesn't sound like a good boyfriend anyway. If you have tried to change things with his behavior and it's not working, then leave him. You said he has a bad history being a player.. so if he's acting suspicious then give back the necklace. Cheating? Well he would probably cancel dates with you, go out to places you don't know where and with who, works late, is somewhat secretive, etc etc.
A way you can find out if he's cheating, is to get one of your friends to hang out where he's at. Watch him a little and see if he's being a little too flirtatious. If you're close with one of HIS friends, you can talk to them about it.
I wouldn't bother with that because he doesn't treat you right.
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Hey, My friend is having a tough time convincing her mother she's still a virgin (she's not).. but the problem is that the boy.. well man.. is 24 and she's 16. But, anyway, that's not the issue at stake. She was thinking about telling the gyno that her hymen was broken by a tampon, not a penis. But I'm not even sure if that's possible. Can it be broken by a tampon? Also, can being fingered break it?
Thanks so much
xo
She's going to have to tell the gyno that she's sexually active [if she is] it's the wise thing to do..
The hymen can be broken by doing sports, horseback riding, tampon use and masturbation. most girls don't even know their hymen is broken and the gyno doesn't ask how. they will probably ask if you're sexually active.
her mom doesn't have to be the in same room as the gyno. just tell her to say i'm not comfortable with you here blah.
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Hey so I'm thinking of getting a nose ring but I'm on poms so I'll have to take it out for competitions and stuff. So, I'm wondering how long is it from when you first get it until you can take it out? And I'd just be taking it out for 12 hours at the most.
yeah. i've had mine for over 6 months. sometimes i have to re-pierced it when my jewelry comes out. The healing process can take from a few weeks to 2 months. do you really want a nose ring or a stud? you'll have to start with a stud first because you'll have to rotate the piercing time from time. there will be dried blood and if you have a ring.. you'll just move it and possibly tear the inside of your nose.. and infection! I had to gauge my nose for a ring and rotating was a pain, so i can imagine if you just got it pierced.. it would be horrible. you can get a tiny stud. i know stores carry retainers:
http://www.jojewels.co.uk/acatalog/retainer04.jpg
it's bad to keep the piercing out for an hour, so i doubt it can last 12 hours without you having to re pierce it.
by the way, get it done with a 18g needle. there IS a difference between 20g. i had trouble finding rings with a 20g.
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What's a good place to hide condoms in my room where my parents wont find them? It's not like they'll go looking through my stuff, but they clean it a lot and sometimes find stuff they shouldn't.
I've put mine in various boxes/chests that i have. it's always put under papers and things. nobody seems to find mine.If your parents clean your room, don't do the mattress thing and don't hide it in a bag. that's just asking for it be to be found. i put mine in a pencil case at one point.
You can put them in a wallet but i wouldn't keep them in there too long because they may tear.
You can get a box with a lock and/or key. I'm sure you can hide the key because it's tiny. I would made a necklace out of it so you wouldn't lose it.
If you have a desk drawer, hide them in a box under some books. I suppose it's easier to hide the 3 pack ones.
You'll come up with something. You could try putting them in a old board game or a shoebox in the very back of your closet.
You could always try putting a 3 pack under your dresser, if you know your parents don't move it.
You can try to get a stuffed animal with a secret pouch in it lol. XD I got this frog a couple of years ago.. you can barely see the zipper, good hiding place!
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are you supposed to make the guy hard before you give him head?
Well I guess it would be easier. In my opinion, if he's hard before.. it doesn't last so long. If you start from no erection, you have to "work your way up" through half erection to a full one. Which can be time consuming lol.
Either way, he enjoys it. So if you don't mind, then go for it XD
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how long do they usually last?
A pink one usually lasts 3 or 4 days.
Red/Purple usually lasts a week.
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last weekend my boyfriend and i were going to engage in sexual intercourse,it was my first time,and he tried to get it in,it became painful,and i told him to stop,I've been reading about pre cum,im not sure if there was any,he just kinda removed his pants and under garments and tried to get it in,there was no foreplay,and if there was pre cum he says he thinks he remembers peeing before he came over,so i know the chance is slim,should i worry?also a few hours after i had cramps?what could have caused that,and what can i do to keep my mind off it,i've literally been thinking about it all day,and im stressed,i know this can cause period delay,any advice on that?
Peeing doesn't matter. If he's aroused, there's going to be some precum on the head. It may not be that noticeable. If you're thinking about being pregnant, you're going to feel sick or get cramps. You said you were stressed so just wait it out. Just wait until your period and always use condoms. Always. It's better than stressing out. It's also easier to get the penis in. Which is better if you have no experience in sex.
You can't take a test now and I doubt you are pregnant, there's a small chance however. Just wait until your period, at least 2 weeks.
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how do i know if my girlfriend is having a organism..and how do i give her one???
You can't tell for sure if she's having an orgasm. Usually toes are curled and her muscles spasm. Eyes may roll or she could moan. Sometimes it's not obvious to see so that's why it's easy to "fake" Most women don't get off just by penetration. You should try rubbing her clit or finding her g-spot. It will take some time. Also trying new positions will help and ask her what she likes.. like speed, thrusts .. at which angles.. Because at a certain angle you may be hitting her clit and giving her pleasure.
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Is a 6 mega pixel camera any good? Also what do you think is the best make of digital cameras? and are samsung cameras good?
Thanks in advance!!
6 megapixel is okay for quality. Try to go for at least a 7 or 8 if you want great pictures.
Canon and Nikon are great. I like Canon's Powershots more. I heard Samsung cameras were okay. I just don't know anyone personally that owns one.
I've own 2 cameras by Canon and one by Nikon. I think they were 7 megapixels, it's great for any type of shot basically.
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Well, I have wavy brown hair that's pretty thing. I straightened it yesterday for a party and now its kinda flat looking. I want thickness really badly. I want my hair to look full and long/medium styled. I really don't want short hair. I trim mine every 6 weeks, and it's just about hitting my shoulder, maybe an inch farther. I'm thinking about maybe getting some hair extensions that are the same color as my own. I want my hair to be thicker and longer. I use Nioxin for fine/thinning hair, but it's kind of helping, and I've been using it for 2 months. I'm trying to eat healthy and lose about 20 pounds, but I just really want thicker hair that looks good straightened. Is getting hair extensions healthy? Will it damage my hair? I heard it promotes hair growth, but I don't know if it was true. I don't really understand hair extensions..do they add in hair from your scalp? Or do they like add it to the bottoms of the hair you already have.? I'm just so confused...please explain it to me, and see if you think it would be a good idea so my hair appears thicker and fuller..
It depends on the type of extensions you get. Go for the human hair, it's expensive but it looks more real. If you get it done at a salon, they may add individual strands. Like so:
http://www.flawlessyou.com/images/hair-s3.jpg
I'm sure you can buy some extensions at a beauty store. You can either clip them in or glue them in. Using glue is damaging though especially when you want to remove the extensions. You're supposed to put extensions under a layer of hair. So if you have 2 layered hair.. You should put it on top and one underneath. It's hard to explain.
But don't put it under your hair like this:
http://i170.photobucket.com/albums/u248/whitpay/Scene%20Hair/1469668813_l.jpg
http://i184.photobucket.com/albums/x241/hollisterbabe6969/SCENE%20KIDS/SCENE.jpg
It looks really bad.
You need to get enough to go around your whole head and another layer on top so it's not flat.
If you can't get those soon.. then try Mane N Tail Shampoo.. it's great for thickening hair.
It's a good way to get longer and fuller hair but don't go too drastic with length. If you take the vitamin called Biotin everyday for a couple of months.. you won't get split ends so you wouldn't have to get it trimmed. Since you don't get split ends, your hair is healthy and grows slightly faster.
When school started my hair was ahove chin and by the next year.. my hair was past my shoulders. So i think it works great.
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do you blow dry your hair? or air dry? i always blow dry it which is bad? what should i do? or buy a heat protecting spray? i dont know of any
I usually air dry my hair. I take showers before bed though because my hair is wavy or curly.. I would wrap my hair up in a towel or do braids for the night. If your hair is flat from air drying then you could always use a cream or mousse designed for volume.
Blowdrying is bad if you always do it. You really need to go out buy a heat protecting spray:
Nexxus Heat Protexx
Kenra setting spray
Blowdrying will make your hair frizzy, fried and give you split ends. If you can't get a heat protecting spray, you can use any other spray until you can buy one.
If I blowdry my hair, it's usually a bit damp so it won't take too much time and too much damage. So a spray wouldn't be needed.
If you have to blowdry, then focus on the bottom layer and the layers surrounding your face and then put your hair up to dry.
It depends on what kind of style you want.
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ok well i was just figured for the first time and it hurt bad he did it about 3 times and they only lasted about 20 seconds because it hurt.
is that normal? ive never like masturbated or anything but i was thinking maybe i should so it doesnt hurt next weekend if he does it again.
how many more times will it take before it stops hurting when he fingers me?.
If you never fingered yourself, it's going to feel uncomfortable. Make sure you're wet before he puts a finger in you because I'm sure as you know.. that hurts. I don't really agree with the.. "if he does it again, he's doing it wrong" because if you've never masturbated.. you're going to feel really tight and it's going to hurt or feel uncomfortable anyway. It takes some time especially since male fingers are usually larger. Make sure he cuts his nails so he doesn't scratch you and tell him to be gentle if he isn't. It might take some time... maybe two or three more times.. depending how on less tight you get in that time. He shouldn't try fingering you deep soon because that would hurt. So you should finger yourself until next weekend. tell him to stop if it hurts or to slow down, something along those lines..
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Okay 14/f. Lol this is a really weird question but i live in cali, and we are having a pool party in a month and i have tiny boobs and m wearing a bikkine and i just dont want everyone to relise that i have tiny boobs. is their anything besides surgery that will give me bigger boobs?
Thanks in advance
I think smaller breasts look great in bikinis.
I think if you can find a top like this:
http://i9.tinypic.com/6u5m8vp.jpg
It would look amazing on you. She has an A cup btw.
I know if you wear something like this..
http://www.marshu.com/articles/images-website/articles/americas-next-top-model/antm-americas-next-top-model-6/danielle-antm-cycle-6-america-next-top-model-six-bathing-suit-competition.jpg
it wouldn't give you much cleavage or the appearance of it. it seems to make you look smaller than you are. i've had it happen to me.
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ppl tell me im very pretty adn have the look to be a model, i weigh like 120 redhair pale skin dont have many freckles but im only 5'6' im tryin to loose some more weight cauz uve got to be extremely skinny to be a model bu tbefore i go to that extreme, is there even a chance of me makin it, cauz i heard you have to be like at least 5'8' to be a model is that true?
There's many other types of models. For runaway, it's wanted to be 5'8 because the designers make clothes for that height and body type. You still have a chance but you're going to face a lot of rejection. You have to be 5'7 at least, so you can just wear heels or shoes with some platform on it and keep your head up high. Don't appear small and conscious about your height or body. Don't become extremely skinny, just tone your stomach, butt, legs, everything. Some people want some skin or curves on their models, not bony ones. If you're trying to get into an agency.. any sort of extreme dieting will not be liked.
Red hair and pale skin is unique. You just need to practice with expressions and not appearing so "dead" in the eyes in photos. If you really want to do this, you need to start taking photos now. Practice ones. Then go out and get a friend who's experienced with photography or go into a studio and pay for professional like photos. You need to create some sort of portfolio. There's some legit agency sites online where you can send them your photos.
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16/f
i have ALWAYS wore my hair really long, like down my whole back, and i really want a change so i was thinking of cutting it short, like at my shoulders
does short hair make you look younger though?
i hatee when people say i look younger then i am so i dont wanna look like a little girl, does it depend on the person?
It really depends on how you look. Do you have a picture? Sometimes longer hair makes you look younger or it can look like you have a longer face shape.
Straight across bangs usually make a person look younger, as well as choppy..layered fashion mullets. =/
i would get long side bangs and layers in your hair for starters. I would cut it at above your boobs.. to see if you want it any shorter. just so you don't regret cutting it "too short"
It does depend on the person, my friend had longer hair and people thought she was 15 [she was actually 20] and she got her hair cut short above her shoulders.. It makes no difference.. if any, worse sometimes. You might just have that cute, young face.. which isn't too bad.
I think it's about how your face looks, how you wear makeup, how you act, and how you dress.
What face shape do you have?
http://www.ebeautydaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/06/face_shapes.jpg
Oval and Diamond shapes, can pull off any hairstyle.
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I feel like I am the only teenager (18) who has not had sex yet, or even go pass first base. I don't believe in sex after marriage, but i think its sad how teenagers (15,16, etc) have sex so young. And people say because it's fun, but I feel that losing your viriginity is much more then just having sex you know? But why do people have sex at such a young age or if they are not even that far in a relationship (like 4 months). I'm just curious, about people's personal experiences. Regrets no regrets etc and why they lost their viriginity at such a young age.
Most of my friends were sexually active around 13 years old. I hate giving advice to little girls about sex, but I think it's better to keep them aware about birth control. I know the problem is with the media and pressure from society, especially from horny boyfriends or wanting to be accepted by someone or something.
I've never thought of myself as a follower though. I never fit in with regular high school or any cliques. I was always the observer. It's sad how girls feel they have to do it once their boyfriend brings it up. It just seems like, it's for fun, everyone else is doing it and people feel they have to do it so that person won't leave.
I told myself I could never have sex within the first few months. I don't see how anyone could trust and feel so comfortable with a person so soon. I'm a senior, 16 and lost it a while ago. I don't think it's sad for me to do it though. I'm aware of consequences, I'm protected and I have a plan. I only have a few months until I'm out of high school. I've always been a curious and sexual person at a young age. But I've never acted upon those urges until I was ready.. I'm still with the guy too and we had sex nearly before the one year mark
I thought my friends were stupid for putting themselves in that position.. some of them have STDs now.. and it's not like our middle school ever had any sex Ed classes back then.
i'm just so tired of people making bad decisions about sex. you should only have sex if you're ready, protected, on the pill and have a plan. I couldn't wait anymore. My urges were far greater than my boyfriend's. He never brought it up or pressured me. I guess that's a bit weird. The other day I was reading a magazine.. it made me angry.. "Shocking ways you can get pregnant" was all about not using a condom. That is not shocking, it's obvious. I hate how the media portrays sex. It's not all accidental, they need to show the real word for young teens.. instead of sugar coating it..
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17/f
is there any way to reduce the pain when a guy "pops your cherry" My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and think it's time but im afraid of how much it might hurt.
are there any tips or tricks i should know about?
should i be on top or bottom?
yeaa im clueless lol
Well, lubricated condoms work great. Especially if you're nervous and you can't get wet. Don't tighten your muscles because that will also make sex uncomfortable. If you're really tight, start fingering yourself.. or make him finger you.. Since his fingers are usually larger.. try to manage at least 3 fingers. My first time didn't hurt. I was afraid too.. but preparing yourself for it is the best thing to do instead of waiting.. almost dreading that moment.
Be on the bottom for your first few times. It won't hurt as bad because if you're on top.. it's deeper penetration that I'm sure you aren't ready for. If you're going to try being on top, you need lube until you're used to it.
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what's PMS and what does it stand for??
I think the advice below me is wrong. That's describing menstruation.
It's called Premenstrual Syndrome. A girl's horomones change before having her period, notice the "pre-" Usually the symptoms go away once her flow starts but it could also carry through her whole period.
It's when a woman starts to get abdominal bloating, cramping, breast tenderness, stress, anxiety, depression, appetite changes, food cravings [example, chocolate], headaches, insomnia, swelling of the breasts, acne [breakouts]
Basically she may get extremely irritated and upset easily. That's why some men will joke about PMS and how woman's moodswings are their worst nightmare blah blah.
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Alright, I'm female and turning fourteen, and I'd like to get a job.
Of course, I'll try to get in at Publix, but, Publix is extremely hard job to get.
The bowling alleys won't hire me. I don't live near any amusment parks...
And, yes, I do baby sit, and other 'jobs' but, I'm looking for a real job.
Also, I've heard a few people say: You can work at a fast food place.
But, every time I go to the website (Not just a website in my state, the website for ALL the reasturants) it says 'no one under the age of 16'
I live in Florida, so keep that in mind, and thank you very much. :)
You have to be 16 to get minimum wage. There's basically no chance for you to get a job now due to the child labor laws. No one wants to cross the line with age. Even if you have a chance, people want to hire someone who could work full shift and overtime. They don't want to be flexible about it either especially if you need to finish homework, have a test to study for, or some sports/club thing.
I'm sure it will get tough when you're the age to get a job. I'm almost 17 and I put out so many applications. Now.. it seems people only hire at 17 or 18 years old.
Just wait until you're 15.. you will probably have a higher chance. It's more of.. if you're at the right place, at the right time.. you could get an interview or the actual job. My friend was turning 16 in a couple of months and they let her have a seasonal job at a Halloween store.
You'll have to ask around.. fast food places only hire 16 year olds. Departments hire at 17. You could try bagging at a grocery store. Just go in and ask what age. Don't lie about your age. That's the worst thing you can do.
Try:
camps
state parks
resorts
dishwasher
waitressing
pruning/mowing/removing trash from neighbors yard
Besides you need to get a work permit from your school. It has to be signed by your parents. It's looked by your counselors who monitor your grades.
Continue with babysitting. You can try filling out online applications or ones you pick up in a place for practice. you should have some experience with answering questions.. especially for department or toy stores.
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