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possible pre cum pregnancy?and cramps after attempted interc


Question Posted Monday January 14 2008, 10:49 pm

last weekend my boyfriend and i were going to engage in sexual intercourse,it was my first time,and he tried to get it in,it became painful,and i told him to stop,I've been reading about pre cum,im not sure if there was any,he just kinda removed his pants and under garments and tried to get it in,there was no foreplay,and if there was pre cum he says he thinks he remembers peeing before he came over,so i know the chance is slim,should i worry?also a few hours after i had cramps?what could have caused that,and what can i do to keep my mind off it,i've literally been thinking about it all day,and im stressed,i know this can cause period delay,any advice on that?

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ilovelila answered Monday January 14 2008, 11:40 pm:
Peeing actually does matter, but he said he only thinks he peed. If he's sure he peed, then the peeing would have flushed out the sperm in the urethra, which would be released in the pre cum. The myth about sperm in pre cum is actually just sperm left over from masturbation or previous sex that wasn't flushed out by peeing.

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mama16 answered Monday January 14 2008, 11:38 pm:
i know peeing dosent matter,but ive read if hes recently had an ejactulation and he pee's then there could be little or no sperm in the pre cum,so there's a slimer chance

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queenhearts answered Monday January 14 2008, 11:35 pm:
Peeing doesn't matter. If he's aroused, there's going to be some precum on the head. It may not be that noticeable. If you're thinking about being pregnant, you're going to feel sick or get cramps. You said you were stressed so just wait it out. Just wait until your period and always use condoms. Always. It's better than stressing out. It's also easier to get the penis in. Which is better if you have no experience in sex.

You can't take a test now and I doubt you are pregnant, there's a small chance however. Just wait until your period, at least 2 weeks.

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Brandi_S answered Monday January 14 2008, 11:18 pm:
Pre cum could have been there, and it does contain sperm. I would say it is highly possible, because a man secreets it when he becomes sexually aroused.

It only takes one out of the millions that swim out during sex.

Stay calm and try not to fret. (I know, easier said than done.) The worry can cause a delay in your period, as well as being irregular, which is common if you are a teen.

If you become at least 2 weeks late, take a test.

ygs-29/f

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